How do I stop caring about the opinions of other people?

How do I stop caring about the opinions of other people?

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You don't if your lifestyle isn't independent from society

Acquire self confidence and self assurance.

Kinda true. You should care about the opinions of those who you value, but i’m assuming you’re talking about meaningless opinions from people who shouldn’t matter much in your day to day.

My lifestyle is independent from society

Really? You live off grid with no human contact not relying on anything anyone else has done, and most importantly you’re not using the internet to socialize with random strangers asking for their opinions?

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quit bumping yourself you fuck, no one cares about your petty, vague issues.

you never really do, but you can get further away from that fear of what other people think by first and foremost making a life that you personally are proud of.

>tear up some paper
>on each piece write down a quality you wish you had
>put them all in a hat and one at a time, pull them out
>ask yourself 'do i really wish i had this for myself, or do other people just think i should need this?'
>if you really do want it for yourself, write it down on a piece of paper in list form. everything you don't actually want for yourself, accept that its just other people with their own issues projecting this on you, and you let it go. tear up that note and throw it away
>also, if the quality is something you literally cannot have, tear it up. if you literally are not built for it in some way shape or form, then you can't be mad at yourself or think lesser of yourself for not having it. you can't change your skin color, you can't change your hairline, and you can't change your interests.
>when you finish your list, make a plan on how to get those into your life.
>every three months decide if what you are tryingto achieve is all its cracked up to be or if you are happy as is.

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