My girlfriend is infertile

I've been with my girlfriend for over 3 years, since we were 15.

On April 5th she was hit by a moving vehicle, she can't walk, everyday is agony and we just found out that our chances of having children have dropped to near 0.

She's so depressed and I'm trying to be strong for her because I love her more than anything but this latest development has destroyed me too. I can't think of anything to do now apart from just committing suicide. I'm meant to be a man but I've been crying myself to sleep if the thought of her suffering even comes into my mind.

What do I do now? Our life together has been destroyed.

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be glad this world is a dark place bringing another living being into it is immoral

Gas yourself, kike.

Having children is part of every healthy relationship, and it was something she wanted as a woman.
I would've loved more than anything to have a son or daughter one day.

Now it's all gone. There's nothing left for me here.

Infertile because her womb is inhospitable? Or because her eggs are all dead? What is it?

Because you can always use a surrogate mother. Or you can harvest bone marrow and transform them into eggs. I mean, we are living in the 21st century... Also, you are pretty young. You still got time.

Why can't she walk? Are her legs just broken or is she paraplegic? If the latter, consider a suicide pact with her - life on a wheelchair is NOT worth living. If she has no feeling below her waist, she'll have such an easy time slicing her femoral artery. Still, you'll have to find a way out for yourself.

Inhospitable and one of her ovaries have been crushed. She hasn't had a period since the accident either for some reason.

I don't want to leave her. I couldn't save her so why should I leave her disabled and alone?

Spinal damage. She can take about 4 steps in complete agony WITH my support.

Why not adopt together? Of course, you'd be doing most of the job raising the kid and taking care of her, but there's always that option if you want a kid that badly.

I want to pass on my legacy etc. Maybe it's not such a bad idea.

My life's progress wouldn't be wasted either.

If she can take a few steps with help, there's still some hope. Incomplete SCIs can markedly improve over a period of up to half a year - there may still be some inflammation or damaged tissue pressing onto the spinal cord that will no longer affect neurological function once it disappears. Also physiotherapy can help rewire whatever remains of the nerve fibres. I'd recommend giving it a few months - recovery can still be significant.

If the second of her ovaries is intact, the doctors may be able to take an egg cell and fertilize it in vitro - even paralyzed women can bear children that way.

I wish you all the best - but if all attempts fail, I'd much rather die mercifully than live a life of misery and inadequacy.

Because killing yourself is going to help her. Just adopt if it's that important.

Yes goyim dont have children its too expensive and the world is too horrible

Ditto to this. There are thousands of kids in orphanages wanting a family. Just because they don't have your DNA doesn't mean they aren't your children

be glad she lost one way to make you a slave.
now run before she starts talking about marriage.

The human race is going to go extinct one day regardless of what causes it. The sun eventually going red giant or declining birth rates to other mass extinction. Nothing lasts forever.

So we should just all kill ourselves right?
How about you start, you defeatist piece of shit.

And good things never last long so have kids asap.

I admit I don't know much about this, but wouldn't carrying a child be too much of a risk for the woman considering the state of her body? Even a normal pregnancy can be dangerous at time and this wouldn't be a normal pregnancy. Is it really worth it to risk her life like that? Adoption would be much safer.

>So we should just all kill ourselves right?
That's one perspective. Or you could cherish the small amount of time we have alive or the fact that a planet like ours even exists in the first place.
The odds of us even existing is almost non existent but here we are.

>paralyzed below the waist
>the only thing you both can think about is having children
Jesus christ. People are so indoctrinated into giving up their lives for having children they forget to think about themselves first and foremost. It's sad.

Obviously he'll have to wait until she recovers her day-to-day functioning, be it on her own legs or in wheelchair, and until her pain subsides. But afterwards with proper medical care it should be perfectly safe.

Fuck off, jew.

The jews make more money from people bringing more lives into this world you dumbfuck.

go back to slaving away for your ugly wife and your 10 unwanted kids, hans

Yeah but there's so many kids who get denied a chance at life because, legitimately, their parents couldn't wrap it.

If you two have been hurt, you know pain and suffering, it's one of the most adult responses to turn that into a means by which you help others.

Threesome with hottie surrogate mother... it’s the only way user...

Not if they can't be controlled. Which is why they want to depopulate the West and fill it with malleable shitskins.

Surrogacy? If she still has eggs and you guys have enough money that should be doable.

This sort of mindset is so prehistoric, I'm surprised people aren't ashamed of themselves for perpetrating it.

What is the purpose of having a child in this day and age, rather than to simply satisfy your own ego? You can do that in any number of ways, a child isn't going to make you any more of a person and it ultimately does not give your life any more meaning.

If this bothers you so much, consider adoption when you're older or even a surrogate mother. But you both need to rethink your priorities as modern adults who are able to find fulfillment in any number of ways, rather than as a relic of a time when passing on your genes meant keeping the family business or what have you together.

Best thing you can do is be there for her. It's hard seeing someone you love suffer but imagine how much worse it is for her.

Sorry to hear that man, but you ought to dump her.

>and it ultimately does not give your life any more meaning
>modern adults who are able to find fulfillment in any number of ways
Sorry but I think you're wrong.
Here's my point of view,

Believers apart, none of us know why we're here, or what we're supposed to do, our lives start out of nowhere and soon ends.

Having a child gives some meaning to our very fucking short lives... Otherwise, why study for so long, why earn a good paying job, just to survive? Just to eat nice things, drink nice things, and see a nice view once in a while? Have nice items?

Love gives meaning to our lives, and not just by having a child. I'm 20 years old, finishing college, and I just got a job. I'm working to get a nice place for me and my dog.
I'm only going forward out of love for my dog, my parents and my friends, if not for them my life would be truly meaningless, so I kind of envy couples with children, they have more reasons to live.

Sounds cheesy as fuck but "to survive is not to live" is a phrase I think I can understand.

What the fuck is wrong with you?

Just live a normal life together that doesn't wasting your life raising children.

Pathetic.

Either try surrogacy or leave her bro. Or stay with her if it doesn't really matter that much to you. Kids are overrated. No reason for YOU to kill yourself over this and no reason for you to feel bad for leaving her, it's a perfectly valid reason if children is something you want

form a polygamous relationship with two bonded women, one to bear your families children and the other to love each of you and be supported

Adopting a child is unfortunately your only hope unless you're shallow and superficial, in which case your only other option is this: leave her.

continue to love her, when the tme comes you can get a surrogate. alternatively, she might let you sleep with other women while you and her share the emotional and physical (minus the penis in vagina sex). good on you for wanting to stick with her

never stop cumming deep inside her. there's always a chance, even with just one ovary. do it!

>life isn't fair, suffering is a part of life hurr durr just deal with it
>oh no my feelings are tingling! better make more life, surely that's the only solution
Natalists are hypocrites.

this
inb4 someone calls me a jew.

t. i am 14 and a socialist

i would just call you naive. children are literally the future.

ivf is still a option? my ex wasnt fertile and we have 2 kids now not easy but there is options still

If someone actually wants a child, they have a human right to create one. Personally, I absolutely never want to be a father. That is not for me. But if someone else actually wants to have kids, that’s their right

Knock up an other girl or something and raise with your gf.
Reverse wife's son meme, anyone?

Dude you're a kid yourself. Chances are you'll go through several more girlfriends before kids are even close to a good idea. Even if you do stay with your childhood gf forever there are other options - plenty of kids out there who need adopting/fostering, IVF, surrogates...

It's only been 3 months, she's still healing. That sort of trauma can take years to fully recover from. If she can take a few steps now, even painful ones, she could make a close to full recovery.

Focus on her healing before you worry about kids. You're only 18 so you have time. Once she's gitten her quality of life back you can start thinking about fertility options.

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>I'm meant to be a man
In sickness and in health, cunt. What you do *now* is what reveals your measure of a man.

I would consider you a piece of shit if you left. This is where she needs you the most.
Like, if either one of you changed psychologically or there was conflict etc then leaving would be a consideration. But leaving her just because she got hurt? Weak.

Also, medical tech is advancing to ridiculous levels. You can still probably have kids via surrogate etc; she will probably be able to become Adam Jensen; But that's besides the point.

>this faggot
have fun never having a family of your own that will love you and nurture you in your old age. You will die alone and unwanted in the nursing home like a animal. plus the only people who need to stop having kids are Africans, the Chinese, and the Indians, and I'm assuming OP is none of those

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thanks!
man, i love my money, that ny money is spent solely on me, my free time, my freedom, the ability to get what i want without anyone elses input, and the ability to die on my own terms, not dictated by someone else?
whats that? im "missing out" on 20+ years of financial slavery to a woman and kids that might return that "investment" once every blue moon? unless she divorces me and takes the kids, possibly making me a proxy slave? oh noes, what will i do?
you kiddiefags really are delusional

I'm so sorry for your suffering user. I understand your pain is very real. You're not pathetic for crying.

Here's the deal. Surrogate mother is a good way to try and make it work. Obviously wife's body is destroyed. But yours isn't. You can make the most of it. You're young and you have heart. You're going to face hell but don't do it alone. Support groups. Family. Anything you can do to bring normalcy back to your lives.

You're both incredible for coming so far. Don't forget this. If you have faith at all, rely on it.

money isn't shit user, and your post reeks of jewishness. luckily you won't breed, so that's one less money grubber in the world. have fun with your empty house and cold dead objects, your "hobbies". The pompousness of distain for a family in fear of losing wealth, that is hilarious, and a self removing trait. You probably couldn't find someone that would want to be with you in the first place.

If you care about the present rather than the future, I highly doubt you have anything knowledgeable to say about "investment" in general.

damn bro that's a sad story.

it may sound like a sci-fi to you what I'll say, but I've been to a high-tech conference last week and there're some companies which develop deep learning in new medical techniques and medications, and hopefully by some point in time between 2020 and 2025 it'll take a week or two to develop new drugs instead of years. you can do some research about your girlfriend condition and what are the plans of the world of medicine for curing it.

wish you luck to get through this!

>oh noes
>kiddiefags

wow :^]
you certainly seem stable and not at all like a retarded manbaby neet

Adopt, be foster parents, etc.

Holy shit dude it's been like 2 months and you guys are 18.

Chill the fuck out, you don't even know how much she can rehabilitate yet because the damage is still fresh.

As for babies, there's all sorts of artificial ways of making kids these days, and these technologies keep on improving. Who knows what sort of stuff is available in ten years when you can actually start considering having children (because you aren't a child yourself anymore).

Cripes.

My dude if you really love her help her through it and adopt someday

The megalomania of your ilk never ceases to amaze me.
Drop your useless carcass off a cliff, if you're so worried about brains being subjected to consciousness.

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