Why tf wont my girl post me on her social media we have been dating a whole damn year...

why tf wont my girl post me on her social media we have been dating a whole damn year. should i be pissed and calm my pussy ass down. shes extremely active on that shit high key addicted

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Some girls are weird about that. Did you bring up being "FB official"? Like have you actually talked about it and she's said she doesn't want to, or are you expecting her to just automatically do it?

she always says she doesnt want to and she doesnt need to explain to me why. shes lowkey popular on instagram and posts constantly throughout the day even with friends.

because she's getting attention of guys, if she were public about having a boyfriend, random guys that are drooling over her that don't know she has a boyfriend would stop or decrease in numbers

this, fuck women are weird

It's likely she enjoys the attention. Whether you see it as a sign of thotistry or innocent attention craving is none of our input and solely your call. Do as you wish.

idk man. all i know is i feel like shit

For me, that wouldn't be acceptable. A lot of guys wouldn't give a fuck, but that would annoy me.

Is this an actual girlfriend that you're in a real relationship with, a girl you've just hung out with and hooked up a lot, or some girl you know solely through the internet that you agreed to be boyfriend/girlfriend despite never meeting in person?

I'd like to think she is a real girlfriend

Well here goes nothing.
1. You are incredibly insecure and needy about it. And your tone here kinda tells.
2. If you want something act like it. You want to be part of her social media life? Tell her and negotiate and compromise. If she doesn't want to then consider if this is a deal breaker for you and consider breaking up; otherwise you will build resentment and will break up anyways.

Why does she do this? Not important. What matters is what you want and how you can get it. If not possible, consider alternatives.

... okay, talk. What do you mean, what's the nature of your relationship? Do you live together, have you met her in person, do you see each other regularly, is it long-distance or primarily online? Cause what you're saying isn't very clear.

>I'd like to think she is a real girlfriend
nigger talk to her wtf

>she always says she doesnt want to and she doesnt need to explain to me why

What the fuck? Is this an american only thing, or is a global thing when in comes to relationships these days? Are you sure she's your girlfriend?

If it's an American thing, it's not something that normal American women do.
Every single girl I know who gets a bf almost immediately updates her status on Facebook and gets a profile pic with her standing next to "her man" with her palm on his abdomen, symbolizing that he's hers.
And I mean, every single girl. My friends and I laugh about those pics because of how fucking basic they are.

An American girl who doesn't want to announce that she's in a relationship all over the internet is doing so because she doesn't want people to know she's in a relationship. Why she's doing that, you have to figure out for yourself.

But what kind of a relationship is that where a partner does something you don't agree with and pulls the "doesnt need to explain to me why" Are they 12?

No fucking clue. That kind of non-argument (i.e., "you're not entitled to even ask") is kind of endemic to young women these days who think that's what feminism means.

I agree, I'd feel like shit too. I don't want to nudge you in a direction that would backfire on you, so please take everything we say with a grain of salt.

>Personally, this is disrespectful on her part given how active she is, how popular she is, and her attempts to dodge/shut this down. You'd be a fool to believe she doesn't enjoy the attention. Perhaps this means you're insecure, perhaps not, but it very clearly crosses a line that you're not comfortable with. Bring it up to her that it makes you feel uncomfortable, but BE PREPARED FOR A BREAK UP. This is why I don't want to tell you what to do, but a break up is within the peripherals of this situation. If you stayed together and somehow resolved this issue, one party would feel like they got the shorter end of the stick (she might feel you're controlling/lose out on the attention she was lavished with), while the other would have to readjust their trust in the other (your trust in her is definitely shaken up by this).

As in my earlier post, do as you wish. This could be easily resolved if you make the right moves and frame it in a certain way, or it might end in a break up. Godspeed, faggot

Honestly the only reason I'd be okay with this is if she makes a lot of money off social media and having a bf would drastically reduce her ability to make money. That could be the case with certain things like models. Could also be the case with some camwhores, though I'd be reevaluating my decision to date her in the first place if I found out she were a camwhore.

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>I'd like to think
Its not a real relationship then, and you're probably the only one out of the 2 of you who thinks that it is

It just goes to show how committed she is to your relationship now doesn't it?
Fuck her off and find a girl who wants to put you first in their life, not some ditsy Instagram whore who will ditch you as soon as the guy with the rich parents comes along.