Why can't I masturbate?
>BF moved away in late April, we will be apart till August 8th.
>We used to fuck ALL the time
>I try to masturbate, it doesn't make me come
>40, 50 minutes and nothing
Why? How do I stop it? I really need an orgasm, I feel so fucking tense and I never come.
try something different. different toys, different type of stimulation (anal, nipples, etc), different porn (read some erotica, or listen to audio porn)
get creative and use porn as a sounding board for your imagination. it will drive you over the edge.
Have you tried a vibrator? I have one that makes me cum no matter what. You might have to buy a bunch to find the one that does it for you, they all vibrate differently.
I tried porn, erotica and audio.
I don't own toys and I don't want to spend money on it, I am saving money at the moment.
I never had trouble coming, I could make myself come in 3 minutes with my fingers, I come 4x times every time my boyfriend and I fuck.
Try another dick.
I'd rather shoot myself than cheat on my bf.
girls aren't supposed to masturbate, theres a reason why once you've got dicked it stops happening.
He is not the first guy I sleep with, I always masturbated while in a relationship before.
Have phone sex with your bf. Masturbate while he talks dirty to you.
You don't really want it. I go through spells where I'm horny all the time and make myself come like 4-5 times a day, and then weeks where I am completely disinterested, try, and can't get into it.
Try cybering with your man. If you can't make it happen, you aren't in the right headspace. Wait until you feel really horny again. It takes time for this feeling to build up
He is unironically on the spectrum and freezes when talking about sex.
Fucking is great tho.
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80 % of bitches don't come from being dicked...
try that nigadick :DD
i heard girls love it :D
I've never been able to get myself off in my life. It dose nothing for me, might as well be running in place that's about the same amount of pleasure it gives
g r o s s
I used to have zero issues with it.
I am really bothered physically. I really want to get off, I feel tense. I don't know.
It's not cheating if it's with me.
I have the same problem. Try finding your fetish. Everybody has 1. For me was lesbian porn. And dont listen to this autistic kids. Great for you for staying loyal
Would you consider it cheating if a dog did it to you?
>mimimi I have to deal with a few months of not getting off
I feel like a shaken soda bottle that doesn't get opened by anybody FOR YEARS!
Were you able to masturbate easily before?
Yes, would come in 3-4 minutes if I was wet to begin with.
Masturbating requires mental focus, at least for girls. Cumming is super easy with a guy you love because you just focus on him and what you're doing, by yourself it's easier to get distracted. Just gotta immerse yourself in a fantasy. It might be good to try to simulate previous times you've had sex with your bf in your mind, I always get the best orgasms that way. Try focusing and visualizing the build up to the orgasm too.
Ok you're a dude who just pretends to be a girl. Women don't really enjoy sex. It's a means to an end for them.
I don't know, orgasms feel pretty nice and I like getting dicked by my boyfriend quite a bit.
Maybe it is a means to an end for girls who are dating guys who don't fuck them well, I quite enjoy the action.
Wew
That said 3-4 minutes is pretty fast, sounds like you're used to getting the orgasm pretty quickly/low effort. Are you getting irritated because it's taking longer while you're doing it? That could be part of the problem
Nice role playing, bro. I doubt there's a single women ITT.
You can think whatever you want about women, but you're just denying biology if you think they don't have sex drives.
I never managed to masturbate from fantasy. I did manage to masturbate looking at his pictures but I am finding it hard now.
I might try from fantasy, tho. Thank you.
Yeah, I am used to super low effort orgasms. Going for 40 minutes is insane for me.
Try to care less about when you'll orgasm and focus more on enjoying the sensations beforehand. It might be a little difficult at first but longer build up to orgasm tends to be pretty rewarding.
To add, you need to feel confident that you will orgasm sooner or later. When I've had trouble orgasming I've usually neen thinking something like "is it ever gonna happen?" and that works against you. If you think of it like yeah, I know I'll cum by the end of this, it's a lot easier.