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This is probably going to sound like I'm trolling but I'm being honest. Guys never ask me out and I'm wondering why/what I'm doing wrong. For a woman my age (late 20s) I'd say I'm a 8-10/10 depending on someone's type. I used to model and left for the business world only because I wanted to do something more serious. Even in the modeling industry, I have an incredibly rare but desirable body type - tall, blonde, with a natural 18 inch waist and DD chest. I always dress up very feminine everywhere I go.

I notice guys staring at me all the time but they never approach me unless they're like a male model type themselves but ironically I'm actually more attracted to more average type guys - not very tall, not very fit, sometimes older than me, and despite staring, these kinds of guys never approach me. But really, most guys just don't approach me in general. I don't think it's because I'm unfriendly because I'm actually a very confident, friendly person who will say hi to anyone and start small talk with anyone. I've made a lot of guy friends this way and they don't treat me like one of the guys, just like a feminine girl friend, they're very protective of me, but they never ask me out. The few times I've asked a man out they've always said yes and seemed very excited.

But I haven't asked many guys out because I guess I'm used to the idea that the man leads, the woman responds. Also since I don't party or go to bars, most of the men I meet who I'm attracted to I meet while they're at work and I don't know whether asking them out would be inappropriate or not. The few times I've asked a guy out it was by giving them a piece of paper with my number on it while I was at work but I don't really know whether this is okay or not.

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Is it because I don't party or go to bars? I have a lot of friends who get approached all the time and I know they're not more attractive than me - some of them are quite fat with kind of messed up faces but they do party a lot and go to bars a lot. What's up with this and what should I do if I want to meet a man for a serious relationship?

Hot girl = probably taken.

Pretty much, exceptionally rare for highly intelligent and pretty girls not to be taken after they're like 21-22.

If you are really really hot and don't approach men/show interest then you are most likely taken. In addition, you are 9/10 and I am 6/10 so you are clearly not interested in me, you are out of my league and you will laugh at my face if I talk to you.

Just make it clear you are not in any relationship. I don't know, set your relationship status on facebook as single, put a post or two about how you are jealous for girls who have boyfriends. Accidentally mention ONCE in a conversation with a boy you like that you don't have a boyfriend. (Trust me, you will mention it only one time, but if he is into you he will think about it for weeks and build up courage)

Date me instead.

I'm average af
Live with my parents

Your the type of women I actually approach! I always hit on them even if I know their probably taken (because hot). The way I see it is if I don't see a man with them or the man is not lovely dovey their fair game to me. I'm respectful about it too. You'll probably run into someone like me soon! I'm probably a 7 but I approach the hottest women because I don't like regretting not hitting on the hottest girls.

Why exactly don't you go to parties or bars, OP?

its simple, average guys put you on a pedestal like you are out of their league. There was a report on it and how we tend to date within our league.

Hot girl = most likely taken
Hot girl = most likely going to flat out reject you if you are not even close to her level.
good looks = intimidating
Everyone who has the balls to approach but doesn't look attractive = OMG YOU ARE SUCH A CREEP! in today's world. (I have a landwhale of a friend that is a total UGGO, tell a decent looking guy that hes a creep simply because he wasnt up to her high standards. I have rejected her on numerous occasions )

Not to sound like a dick but good looking ladies have a hell of a lot more power in first approaches these days. If you want to get someone, don't be afraid to make first contact. Its seen as more backwards but almost any guy will instantly open up and say yes or be more willing to talk.

18 inch waist lol bait

also if you appear confident guys without that level of confidence will be intimidated

>I have a landwhale of a friend that is a total UGGO, tell a decent looking guy that hes a creep simply because he wasnt up to her high standards. I have rejected her on numerous occasions
user landwhale is just trying to signal to you that she holds you above other men.

>Guys never ask me out and I'm wondering why/what I'm doing wrong.
Ask guys out then?

Could be anorexic, she's a model after all

I think it's hilarious that people are responding to this. It's obviously an average guy role-playing.

Do you realize an eighteen inch waist is about the size of a 10 year old child maybe younger?
She would be a child size 10.

She could be fucking holocaust tier emaciated anx think it's normal, and that's the real reason men don't approach

I think it's an old dude role-playing. A 28 inch waist I might believe.
24 inch waist is an extra small. 22 is like XXS. 22 is like a kids large.

Land whale detected. These measurements can look healthy

The reason men don't approach is because either a) old dude role-playing or b) kind of a bitch. Notice how op made light of her fat friends getting dates. Because only thin models should have dates/sex.

I got that from day one. I am just generally nice to people. No need to be mean or be an asshole just because I can. I have no doubt about what you say. I am not looking to be with someone who communicates through heavy breathing.

You realize if you measure your neck it's probably 15 inches and you think that's adequate for an adult waist. Clearly science is not your strong suit

Made light of? Lol it was a neutral observation. You have no idea what mockery sounds like. Of course this thread would bring out bitter land whales....

My neck is like 6-8...

- some of them are quite fat with kind of messed up faces

Yeah I'm just saying it's less that fatty holds all men who don't fit a certain standard in disgust and more that she's desperately trying for your attention

Inches. Men's necks are typically between 14 to 18ish inches in circumference. If your neck is 6 inches what breed of dog are you, because you're not an adult human.

So tell me, how would someone observe and ask about this disparity without offending your special snowflake sensibilities? You can't ask why people less attractive than you are getting date while you're not without mentioning that they're unattractive ...

A small female. They can be child sized you know. Male and female measurements can be pretty different

Insulting would be "man these fat disgusting slobs are getting dates and I'm not what the fuck gives" that was put politely

Less attractive is subjective for one thing. Second of all I think the implications are that these women are having casual hook ups, not finding a husband.
Third of all, op is expecting the men to take the lead and like ring her doorbell at home with a dozen roses, never having met her.

Lol@man logic.

Ok, then op should either state her theoretical height and weight with her double d tits, or admit that her 18 inch waist is a lie or a typo.

She said she was tall. If she was petite I'd believe the waist measurements, but a tall girl with tjat measurement is ridiculous

Its not that subjective.
"They beautiful for who they are and I beautiful for who I am why do they get asked out and I don't" wouldn't actually get the point across ...

No the question was about being asked out - same for OP, same for friends unless the friends are also getting a dozen roses at their door. Asking out or approaching = taking the lead

There are plenty of hideous people who have dates. People don't stop dating or screwing simply because they don't look like models.
I mean, I don't know if it's even on anymore but check out Jerry Springer or something. Hideous people screw frequently.