18 and engaged...

You won't listen to me though so just sign your youth away. You're only young once retard. You should spend time learning the proper syntax of the English language so you can properly negotiate contracts in this world of commerce

No we have had serious relationships before

Look, we havent signed anything yet. And idk if she will be by my side in ten years. She has really bad medical conditions that get worse everyday. But i do know she will stay by my side no matter what

Thats what i was thinking at first. But her moms were fucking old school as hell and it rubbed off on her

This, this, this, holy God damned, This.

What the fuck is wrong with you kids?
You think just because they fucked first or better that that means you should marry them?

Life isn't like fairytales. Well, it is but it's more Brothers Grimm than Disney.

This is why some people wait until after marriage.
Only sadly, it's often unsaid that marriage is best left until after you would count them a friend.
As in a real friend who would be honest with you even when they know it would hurt you.

I get that that's not how attraction and human nature work, but thats how those concepts and ideas work. Loyalty honor and duty. If you have to be taught these things, just stay single and admit your a ho. Man or woman, you'd be doing the rest of us who are these things a favor. Quit trying to be like us because you never will be.

But this faggots engaged as a teenager so

>My fiance won't let me
>My fiance's mom
>Wanting to spend the night with a guy friend
You're too young and immature to get married.

This, Op. Fucking this. 21 isn't even old enough for a ring. The only reason your grandparents stayed together that long is because "decent people just don't split up like that".

Bullshit

So did my ex. Seventeen years later(we split after seven) she's still alive. She's also still wailing about her issues instead of doing things to improve herself.

>18 and engaged
You're gonna feel really silly in 10 years.

How long have you two been dating that you've both been in "serious relationships" in the past?

You're not going to listen to us. You're not going to listen to the 50,000 people and blogs on google that give their own experiences on marrying young.

Honestly man, do it. Marry her. 2-3 years later, when she feels like she "misses out on the college experience," she'll either cheat on you, divorce you, or "a little bit of A, and a little bit of B"

Once you get married, you'll never leave your house again.

"It's not proper for a married man to go to the bar with his friends!"

"It's not proper for a married man to go to baseball with his friends!"

"It's not proper for a married man to take a roadtrip with his friends!"

If you marry her, you're going to marry her mother too.

Stop and think about what you're doing. Don't just follow your heart.

"The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it?" -Jeremiah 17:9

"For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander." -Matthew 15:19

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Neither of you are really wrong. its okay for different people to want different things, have different expectations, and different desires. it doesn't make one person wrong or right, its just a difference of opinion. some people think its great to see their partner every day. others think its better once a week. neither is really right or wrong. its just differences.

that being said, she is being a bit silly. for the rest of your life you aren't able to just stay the night at a friends? its less common as an adult sure, but you are only 18. This is indicative of a bigger problem for you man. you still have the oyung mindset of 'im going to crash at a friends house' but you're already engaged, even worse to someone who wants you to skip this phase of your life and be committed only to her.

it is a dangerous mindset she does have over all, if this sort of thing carries over. Be careful OP. your friends will be there for you after the divorce, but not if she forces you to stop seeing them beforehand. its how a lot of women turn their husbands into slaves. without the support of their own friends and family, they refuse to divorce, because then they have no one.

you are 18. you cannot say that you had serious relationships before. its hard to consider the one you are in 'serious' other than legally.

the only reason his grandparents (and all of our grandparents) stayed together was because there simply wasn't another option at the time, and when the option started to reer its head people were too codependent and set in their ways. older couples werent more in love or any of that bullshit. they just didn't have much of a choice in getting married and too late a choice in getting divorced.

despite the weird spacing, this guy knows whats up. at 18 and engaged you can't say that you had a serious relationship before. either you knew her for a few months and then popped the question, or you knew her for a few years and didnt even have the chance to date much before.

either way dumb move.

Dude. Ive fucking seen it with my own eyes. She is getting weaker and more and more problems every single day. She doesnt wail about her problems she trys to overcome them. Im sorry your ex was a cunt. But dont sit there and act like you know what im going thru

You have a point. And i agree.

Yeah, married men tend to go home to their wives every night. I wouldn't want my husband to go out for the whole night.
It happens sometimes but it is SO rare, and only if he's travelling to another state or something.

But married men aren't 18, normally. So probably she could cut some slack to you. And probably you shouldn't marry at 18.

Engaged isn't married. A husband's duties don't kick in until you're a husband.

Also, you're a fucking idiot for being engaged at 18.

Just... why? What is the point of getting married at a court house without having a wedding?

That's what I said. How old are you?

I didn't read the whole thread. But if you're still having sleep overs why the fuck are you engaged... holy shit kid.

But I do.

At least half of why your with her is only because your afraid of her dying and to be honest, unless she's literally the girl next door who rode the bus to school with you all those years and would ask you to walk with her while she walked her stupid dog every night for years,
At your age you wouldn't care too much if she hadn't played with your dick.

Also dude, you replied to yourself.

>19699159
Maybe you would care but i guarentee without the suck you wouldn't be caring this much until she was in the ground.

Im with her because i love her. U dont know the shit we have been thru. She wasnt the girl next door. She wasnt some whore who touched my dick. She was my best friend throughout high school. Been by my side when i saw my dad die in frony of me and when i couldnt get a job and dealing with a 1,000,000 other things that went wrong in my life. U sound like a. redditfag who thinks they know everything.

I wanted to spend the night with my friend before he heads off to the military. Its not a sleep over with video games and pizza.

I dont think u understand the situation

Ik i shouldnt marry at 18 but given the circumstances. I want to.

I would say she isnt like that. But ik i would sound stupid

She's right that a husband should come home and sleep in the same bed with the wife, but you're both fucking retarded for getting married so young. Jesus Christ, what's wrong with you?

She doesnt have a long time chances are she will die at 30. I wanted to marry her cuz i knew in my heart she is the one

>18
>enganged
Is this a shotgun or wtf is wrong with you

>cuz i knew in my heart she is the one
Your heart doesn't matter faggot it's what her heart thinks of you that matters
Cunts will rip yours out and shit on it and won't give a fuck about you if shit happens.
Oh and ripping your wallet too.

this

>all these people losing their shit over op's age and telling him it's going to end up horribly
lmao my dad was 17 when he married my mom at 18 and they're STILL together 30 years later. i'm sure that's better than your 80% divorce rate western fags

You contractually obligating yourself to her, which is all you're doing because you aren't having a wedding, isn't going to change whether or not she dies. It won't change anything in fact, other than your legal obligations. So what is the point?

Congrats, your parents played the relationship lotto and won. Only their prize was an autistic child that dicks around on a Bangledeshi embroidery forum and refuses to move out of their house. Bet they're thrilled how it all turned out.

>autistic
no
>dicks around on a Bangledeshi embroidery forum
i don't even use this website that much.
>refuses to move out of their house
i don't need to 'cause thankfully my parents aren't ruthless westerners who will kick me out once i'm 18 and still don't have enough experience to become an adult by himself
you're just butthurt because you parents are old and probably were divorced too and all your arguments are meaningless

My grandparents started dating at 15, got married at 16 and had their first kid at 17. 70 years together and counting.

OP shouldn't listen to the retards crying about his age. The issue is the controlling mother/fiancee and her expectations during the marriage.

^This by along mile

>once I'm 18

Please come back when you finish up with puberty.