ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything - Princessfag Edition ™

The incessant judging. I'm autistic as hell and all guys I know are accepting of me but all girls including my mom and sister never hesitate to point out all my flaws even though I'm not threatening their safety in any way.

There are no normie women who aren't constantly online anymore. They just use normie social media but they're still always online

i mean our sense of online, like posting on Jow Forums, and sometimes reddit

It's not like men are better, they just have negative masculine traits rather than feminine.

Is this dad bod?

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true, but they were asking why men don't like women, and that's one of the reasons why. i'm sure women don't like men for things like aggressiveness, being too horny, being aloof etc.

>i'm sure women don't like men for things like aggressiveness
user...

lel i know, but i meant like physical aggression that puts them in danger. then again, some like that too. another reason why some men dislike women

Women like a little aggressiveness in a hot guy. They don't like a guy who abuses them or otherwise has bad anger problems unless they're mentally dysfunctional, and they never like it in unattractive men.

double standards, hypergamy, fickleness, pickiness
and they put all of that into practice with complete shamelessness

Is it socially acceptable to approach a attractive girl at the gym? In efforts of going on date/getting to know them.

nah don't do it. unless she's been giving you signs, or you guys have regular contact, just don't do it. you're both there to work out, not be hit on.

this. If men treated women half as shittily as women treat men, then women would probably stop being such stuck up cunts all the time.

>Ladies, is there a secret all girl website that catalogues men as date-able like some kind of black list or something. Feed my paranoia
The website was LuLu, the paranoia was justified women were going behind our backs and talking shit about us.
fuck that, approach women anywhere any time you want. Worst that happens is you fail in which case you're no worse off than if you never approached her. Forget giving a shit about bothering her or if she wants to be left alone. If women didn't want men constantly approaching them then they should stop expecting men to always approach them.
The biggest reason men fail with women is they have this mentality of "respecting" women when women only want a dominant man who's going to be assertive with her. Don't fall into that trap, fuck the #MeToo nonsense and hit on girls wherever you want. Just don't be creepy or a sperg about it.

It's weird because for me it's the complete opposite. Most men are assholes to me and think that's perfectly okay, most women treat me nicely. They probably sense some hidden gay vibes from me though.

everyone judges what is socially acceptable differently, so the term is a bit retarded. only basic things like not assaulting people or shitting in public are universal

*not shitting in public

You've never been to India I see

not human so they dont count

what would you do if your boyfriend had this as his phone wallpaper

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Take a picture of yourself in a similar outfit and change his wallpaper to your picture. It'll let him know you don't like him checking out other women but also show him that you'd rather him check you out

he's an ass man, clearly he wants you to BRAP in his face.

No, don't get confused by those people. They are too scared of rejection. Make a move if you like a girl. Sometimes that is enough to spark attraction because it puts you on her radar and shows her you are confidant.

Saying "I do."

Nope

>sometimes reddit
Never Reddit. Get out.

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A cute girl started working at my work a couple months ago. I asked her out after she had been there for 2 weeks, but she said she had a boyfriend. I was like okay, whatever there are other fish in the sea and moved on. In the last week though, she's been more flirty with me than normal and touches me way more than necessary. Like if I have my hand on the counter and she comes over to ask me something, she'll put her hand on top of mine and lean in so our shoulders are touching to do it.
Why is she doing this if she has a boyfriend? It's starting to bother me and I find it distracting when I'm actually trying to work.

how did you meet your current bf

School through a mutual friend

Online.

men are better though. We actually want to treat women like equals, and the only reason men are sexist is because every woman we know lets us know that she'll never date a man who treats her like an equal.
Sexism exists because women want it to exist, and we have to manipulate women because women only want to date manipulative men.
> i'm sure women don't like men for things like aggressiveness
kek!

Sour grapes

I understand what you're trying to say, but I would say its more cuz some women (not all or even most) want to be treated as equals in every way. then they still want to be paid for at restaurants have the door held open etc.

No. Dad bod has an actual gut, maybe a little muffin top. You'd have to put on 20-30lbs to get yourselfa dad bod. Go look up Leo DiCaprio dad bod and you'll see what one is.

Ye. My country might not get btfo this time.

dddddddddddddd

Are you Australian?

Im a guy. How do I take control but not be controlling when it comes to relationships?

Women:

If a girl generally talks to you at work, small talk here, some jokes there, getting to know each other a little more, etc, does that mean she has interest? I genuinely do not know, and have never once picked up on hints a girls dropped (even when I was already in a relationship I couldn't pick up their hints about things). I just don't want to waste my time or hers in any way if she isn't interested and make it weird if I were to ask her out or something.

That's way too little information for us to tell. If she talks to you then she likes you at least as an acquaintance. If she's asking personal questions and sharing personal information then she probably likes you at least as a friend. There is no way for us to tell if she likes you as anything more than that just from this though.

It's just a recent thing. She started talking to me the last couple weeks, even gave me a few compliments on my looks (my hair specifically). I wouldn't say we've been talking about personal questions or anything, just small talk. But I mean, she approached me or initiates conversation all the time.

Like I said, I'm completely oblivious to this kind of stuff, except for the few times girlfriends have been overtly sexualizing their hints (like grabbing my ass or whatever).

Women, why do every one of you love Harry Potter and 75% of you say it's your favorite book series? It's a children's book series. It's not awful, but get some adult taste in literature.

It's been 3 months, why would she unblock me?

She's the one who broke things off in the first place, but should/can I contact her?

On Jow Forums.

I've only seen two of the movies and haven't read any of the books.

Because we do.
Because it is.
It is and it isn't.
You're right, it's not awful.
I do have some adult taste in literature.

>I do have some adult taste in literature.
if your FAVORITE book is a Harry Potter book, out of every book in the entire written history of mankind, I'm not so sure...

I love HP because I grew up with it, it's THE book series of my childhood and early teens. It was a nice read, it was relatable, it was easy to fangirl on.

I read 2-3 books a week when I'm not busy with school, and none of them are young adults. I still think HP is rather fine.

Stand your ground. Say no when necessary.

Don't be a stupid dick, tho. Use judgement.

Considering I also love A Brief History of Time, Capital, Atlas Shrugged, among others, I'd say my taste in literature is fairly adult oriented in taste.

>ayn rand is adult oriented

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It takes an adult mind to possibly even possibly comprehend objectivism and the ideas behind it.

and A Brief History of Time is aimed at laymen, it's not exactly a literary masterpiece.

True, but I still consider it to be a well written book that explains the physics of time.

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Is it worth putting in effort? Chicks apparently like my looks and personality, but I've never been in relationship. What should I do?
Or should I keep doing nothing?

Why keep doing nothing when you can do something?

Because past attempts left me with the impression of it not being a worthwhile thing to put effort into

Ladies, what's a good cold opener guys have used on you on dating apps that worked?

If you want a relationship - make a move, ask girls out. Improve yourself.
If you don't, keep doing nothing.

Wanna come crack open a cold one with me and the boys?

Trying to get a girl I knew from Tinder to break up with his bf. Said she 'never cheated' even once and is a 'faithful girlfriend' but we made out the last time we met. Would actually having sex with her make her feel guilty enough to finally break up? Because I'm 95% sure the next time we meet we're going to do it. Thanks.

Jokes about things I have on my profile.

>Improve yourself
I was doing that anyway

I loved the world and the writing, it was really easy to immerse yourself for hours. I tried the so called adult literature but I found the stuck-up-my-own-assness and agenda pushing of majority of the writers way too obvious and in turn extremely offputting. I haven't read a book in years and I don't feel like I'm missing out.

It's not worth putting in the effort - until it is. I hope this makes sense to you.

no it does not

So 2 weeks ago I cocked something up real bad with the girl I have an interest in. We have this on/off dynamic, and I've been told by a mutial friend that a while back she would have been in a relationship with me if I were sober.

Anyway, 2 weeks ago she invited me to a picnic her department was throwing and I accepted. I was anxious, so I got a bit drunk to try to loosen up but it backfired and I embarrassed her in front of her classmates/friends/department. After that she didn't respond to me until now with pic related.

What do you make of it? Am I fucked? A week before this picnic we spent hours by the ocean chilling and she was letting me play with her hair while.talking about how her friends knew about me.

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Forgot to add that she's going on this month long trip for her studies tomorrow, which is the "before I go" part. This one guy in her class is going with her so that has me all paranoid

>meet girl literally 3 days ago when I get moved to a new area at work
>get her snap the first day
>invite her out
>we end up agreeing to come back to my place to smoke/watch a movie

So this girl is into me right? This is the first day I've been truly confident and I wanna make sure this isn't a mega-friendly girl meme

First time*

I'd say go for it. What have you got to lose?

You're fucked. If she's not going to change her mind before she leaves then what difference does it make? This basically says you're a dick but I wish you luck in sorting your problem out.

>the guy she was talking to/probably seeing casually
>the same guy who she started to take an interest in before she even dumped you and it was her feelings for him that lead her to leaving you
>yeah, that guy
>they're fighting at the moment, or maybe he's not paying her attention anymore because he's onto the next one
>wow suddenly she feels like shit
>she left you but she felt wanted by this third party so it didn't hurt that much
>until now
>you're gone, he's gone
>she's doubly lonely
>feeling doubly unwanted
>thought she could have her cake and eat it too but her cake is now on the ground
>maybe if she unblocks her ex he will take notice and send her a message so that she feels desirable again

Fuck thats how I've been seeing it. Similar problems have happened 2-3 times in the past, but she's forgiven me each time and we went back to having things go great until I do something (usually involves drinking) that gets us back into these spats. After this picnic day I finally realized I have a legitimate problem with drinking, and I've been going to AA and have committed myself to stop drinking. I told her this in a text I sent right before this reply, so I hope she sees the genuine nature of it. I have an incredibly fucked self-esteem and she would always tell me I was an amazing person and I never listened because I was too far up my own ass.

I don't want to lose her in my life, we've had pats but she's never outright ignored me for weeks until this one. Is there no salvation on my end? and How long should I wait to contact her? She's back on the 23rd of July and classes start on the 20th of August. I was thinking around 2-3 days before classes begin

Bf and I had an argument last night about his drinking habits. I got extremely frustrated and cried.

This morning things feel strange and I'm overtly aware of that. It's making me incredibly anxious and I know any attempt to bring it back up will fuel the argument again.

Unfortunately we have plans this weekend to travel to a different city. I feel bad about the disagreement but I want to try and move away from it.

How can I do this?

To other guys, what typically happens when a girl you're looking at out on the street takes notice? I usually get a
>adjusts hair behind ears
>looks away
>ignores my existence/doesn't notice at all

but today something cool happened, she looked away, then looked back again. That's never happened before. Felt good man.

Men, is it true you're less nice to women (even in a professional context) if you're not attracted to them?

I can't speak for other men because I've never discussed this with them, but I have noticed I will go out of my way to help girls I find more attractive compared to those I don't (at work and outside of it)

I try to be nice to everyone because life is shit enough without me making it worse.

Female co worker of mine, always asks me to help her when she could go to someone else, she stands super close to me whenever she wants to talk to, and she always brightens up when we make eye contact. Is there anything there, or is she just nice? She's got a bf though. He was actually in the store, I noticed him waiting around while I was talking to her briefly. Fucker wouldn't stop eyeballing me, even after the fact, very uncomfortable shit.

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I like it but that’s it.
My favourite book is Mygale by Thierry Jonquet.

Objectivism is natural in once one accepts that existence exists; the latter is also natural. Its thinking subjectivism applies to things outside for example, how much one appreciates art. Ignore the media that sells you shit morals to justify their own deviant behavior.

Personally, no. But there are men out there who are like that.

Fuck

Jow Forums should I make a move at all
Or just not do anything

Consider her dead to you, she left you don't let her come crawling back to you as her back up. Furthermore if she's left you once she will no doubt do it again

She probably likes you as a friend. She is in a relationship so consider nothing romantic will come of your interactions with her

No, my country is too shitty to even qualify and I think it's boring anyway.

What was his opening message?

How do I get my wife to stop farting?