So is tinder any good at all for finding a real relationship or is basically just for quick hookups as I have come to...

So is tinder any good at all for finding a real relationship or is basically just for quick hookups as I have come to believe?

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the latter

Mainly for hookups (as it's reputed), but some still try.

Bumble's crowd is more focused relationships, but only the women can message men, not the other way around.

It's mainly for hookups but in my experience, most girls want a date before that happens. I've noticed that a lot of girls get fucked up emotionally about using it like that though, and seem to crave a relationship. If you hookup with a girl you really like, I think chances are good that she'd be open to continuing in a more serious manner.

Tinder is for losers.

Get courage and meet girls by yourself.

Tinder is dead. I used it back when I was 18, and got laid all the time. Now at 25, I tried it again, and I got maybe one decent bite, and couple numbers that never led to anything. But, it wasn't nearly as popular as it was when I was younger.

It has a reputation for quick hookups. I did have a coworker who met her long term relationship through tinder, and I believe a couple of people on Jow Forums have posted about having long term relationships that started on tinder, but generally speaking yes it is mostly for hookups and most of the people on tinder are only looking for that.

If you're looking for a real life authentic relationship, I really don't think you can beat just what happens in your life and who you find along the way

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>Bumble's crowd is more focused relationships, but only the women can message men, not the other way around.

What's the point of Bumble anyway? It's supposed to give women an even bigger advantage, as if the dating app game needed to be any more skewed towards women.

Anyone got real experience with it and isn't going just by reputation?

>Bumble

Lol. They say the same shit about Match. One of my friends has been searching hard for a serious gf. All of the girls he’s met off Bumble and Match just wanted to be “casual”. They say casual because they refuse to accept themselves as the sluts they are

>you hookup with a girl you really like, I think chances are good that she'd be open to continuing in a more serious manner.

This is possible. However, that girl may have fucked a bunch of other dudes before you, and gaurenteed to have current orbiters messaging her

>All of the girls he’s met off Bumble and Match just wanted to be “casual”.

Shit, I'll take that. It's an upgrade compared to not fucking responding at all, which is what I get on Tinder and Badoo most of the time.

What year was it when you were 18?

The women go first thing means nothing. They send you "Hey" and expect you to come up with the conversation. Nobody has any problem with the guys-message-first schema.

How do I get a good pic for TinderBumble? Mine have been terrible for a while but I don't have good pictures of myself.
All I do over the summer is work.

>The women go first thing means nothing. They send you "Hey" and expect you to come up with the conversation. Nobody has any problem with the guys-message-first schema.

That's kind of what I expected. So is there any meaningful difference between Tinder or Bumble in your experience? Does this at least cut down on twats who are just collecting matches, or do a lot of them expire anyway (I mean it supposedly unmatches you after 24h of no contact, unless I read that wrong)?

Will you just download the app already to see for yourself and stop reposting this thread OP, ffs. Like seriously, if you're wondering if tindr might be good for real relationships in 2018 you should get a doctor to test you for Down Syndrome.

I lost my virginity with Tinder.
Some key differences:
>The cultural perception that Bumble is for relationships is strictly enforced by the women there. This is boring because in my time a Tinder girl has a 1/30 chance of giving you sex tonight. Probably more if I wasnt an autistic retard who botched a few dates.
>Women on Bumble just look better. Whenever i'm on Bumble I start to feel bad because there are so many 9/10s in the world. Tinder looks alot more like the girls I just see around town.
If you want an actual relationship use Bumble. I have gotten laid on Tinder 3 times and had one Bumble girl express serious interest in me as a bf. However in my experience actually getting to know someone over the phone is quite like watching paint dry and I often find i'm not up for it.

>This is boring because in my time a Tinder girl has a 1/30 chance of giving you sex tonight. Probably more if I wasnt an autistic retard who botched a few dates.

Define "my time"? As in, a couple of years ago?

It seems to have gotten much worse since 2 years ago when I last used it where I live. Back then I found my first and so far only GF there (we recently broke up). I never got a lot of matches, but still much better than what I'm getting now: literally FIVE matches in a month, with only one of them replying.

I know I'm fat, but I'm not morbidly obese. I've been told, and not just by my ex, that I have a handsome face and my beard and long hair are selling points for some women. In my description I admittedly don't pretend I'm not a couch potato, but deceiving them in that regard is only going to lead to issues down the line.

Yet the results I'm getting are as if I was fucking deformed or some shit.

>literally FIVE matches in a month, with only one of them replying.

I should probably have added this: I live in a city of around half a million in Central Europe, and I have run out of potential matches in a 20 mile radius.

It's good for girls to advertise their social media.

Tinder is the fast food equivalent of relationships.
You are unlikely to find a SO on there.