Should a guy give up on finding a girl if he's just not handsome nor smooth ?
Secondly, should he give up if he got rejected maybe over 100 times face to face ?
>Inb4 talking to girls is easy, just don't be ugly.
Should a guy give up on finding a girl if he's just not handsome nor smooth ?
Secondly, should he give up if he got rejected maybe over 100 times face to face ?
>Inb4 talking to girls is easy, just don't be ugly.
I don't know if I would give up per se, but maybe don't focus all of your autism energy on getting a girlfriend. Women are like fish, you catch them when you're least expecting.
I can't say I've ever caught a fish by accident.
Watch, once you truly give up and just seek happiness for yourself women will notice and come out of thw wood work for your attention.
I have a good friend, he's not handsome, has relatively low intelligence, speech impediment, but he has a good heart. He went on 100's dates. He is now married and has 6 month old son.
Not OP but I hear this all the time and I'm a little skeptical of it. It wasn't until about 6 months ago that I started giving a shit about dating and for my entire life before that I never got the least bit of attention from girls. Not calling you a liar, just wondering where this idea comes from.
Not OP, but I'm willing to bet you're friend has a great job/career and makes a nice amount of money (has a pretty good salary)
He was a substitute teacher in a shitty city when he met her. He is now a shitty teacher in a shitty school with shitty kids to babysit. She comes from a family with money. People should never give up.
Literally anybody can be handsome
You need to invest some time and money into your appearance
Because you didn't talk to them before
If you're just doing what makes you happy and you talk to women without trying to date them they notice that shit
They assume you have value, thus it makes them attracted to you.
I get a ton of attention at work from a whole slew of women because im focused and serious about my career.
Women are much smarter than they let on.
This doesn't work. I mean they come but as superficial "friends", not as someone who wants anything ever remotely like a relationship.
I have a friend who has no looks, no personality, is a manlet, is not interesting, has a shitty job, yet girls think he's cool and he has a 10/10 girlfriend. Nothing makes sense.
>Should a guy give up on finding a girl
If you don't go for it then you know for sure you'll never find a girl, if you do you might actually get lucky.
Put another 0 on that 100, what's the worst that could happen? You already know you're ugly and you can grind korean MMO's when you're too old to walk.
>what's the worst that could happen
Not OP but
>wasting time
>wasting effort that could be used for something else
>emotional damage
>lowering the self esteem even more to unhealthy levels
>have a friend who has no looks, no personality, is a manlet, is not interesting, has a shitty job, yet girls think he's cool
Why even lie about this stuff ?
How the fuck is a girl suppose to like such a guy ?
That's right, she won't.
what if thats just your interpretation of him tho n he is actually interesting and has a good perssonality and is unconventionally attractive and you're just shitting on him cause you personally think he sucks
>Women are like fish, you catch them when you're least expecting.
You only catch fish when you go fishing therefore you only catch women when you go womening.
If you got rejected 100 times to your face you're either only asking 10/10 girls when you yourself aren't a 10/10 or you're just walking down the sidewalk asking every girl that passes. Both are the wrong answer and you need to figure out how to stop both bad habits because you expectations are way higher than reality and you're just going to make yourself miserable or you're the creepy dude asking every single girl in a small social circle if they want to date you. What's your ethnicity?
I don't believe you. I sealed myself off from women for years. If that were true, I would have noticed
This is why you are an incel. You lie to yourself instead of accepting reality.