ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

he wants to bang you. and you know that.
tell him you'd appreciate fewer such jokes

what people seem to not realize is the way our behavior as humans actually works.
we don't set strict goals to blindly follow, this would fail more often than not.
Instead, we just open our possibilities.
So this guy here is sexually frustrated. He wasn't able to do stuff he always wanted and now it seems he's at the dead end, since he already has a gf.
so he begun to "search through the sphere of possibilities" - he informs the environment that he's ready for kinky sex and stays open to any signals that he might receive it.
Be certain that you're not the only one he's trying this with. Be certain that he's not fixated on fucking you, no matter what. He's just carefully approaching the possibility, so be also certain that he is willing to fuck you, if only you show him the green light as well. If you persist and won't give in, he'll give up sooner or later and pretend it was only a joke from the beginning.

Do tell him to stop, if that's what you want. This has nothing to do with any kind of accusations. You want him to stop joking, which he is clearly doing, no doubt about it.

oh, and also remember that his actions are most likely not conscious (or only partly conscious)

>Since we're moving on I just wanted to say, thank you. I'm glad I met you and I feel like I learned a lot about myself from us hanging out. I hope things go where you need them to soon. I wouldn't doubt that you're going to have a great life ahead of you so be brave and take care.

Is this too pathetic to say to a girl who ghosted you with no explanation a month ago after you used to text continuously for 6 months? I only want to say it because I don't like the idea of leaving on nothing when I'm likely never going to see this person again.

Gf is away on holiday

I told her I loved her 4 times today and she hasn’t said it back once. I’ve complimented her on the pictures she took of herself. But I showed her a pic of me and she said I looked scruffy lol (I don’t take it personally, I am scuffed atm)

S-she hasn’t cheated on me right? H-haha

my moms dead you necrophiliac

Well, shit. Like I said this felt sudden, he never flirted with me before, he'd just say I'm pretty out of politeness at most.

I don't see him that way at all so if he does continue with this behaviour next time I'll let him know... It was a bad idea to talk about themes like sex with him.. Thanks guys

well, it's her who ghosted you, right?
this means she probably don't even want to hear from you at all.
It's maybe a bit much, but if you feel like saying so, who cares? it's your life, do what pleases you

I have a crush on a friend of mine who's leaving on monday, we would not see each other for more than a month.
We hanged out two days ago and chilled but I didn't know he was going to leave for so long, how much of a move would it be if I text him asking to meet up explicitly because I want to see him?

>I told her I loved her 4 times today and she hasn’t said it back once.
Calm down, man. I don't blame you for getting uneasy that she hasn't said it back but four times in one day with no reciprocation, that makes it abundantly clear that you don't say it to let her know, you are just fishing for her to tell you she loves you already. Not a good look and if she does indeed have doubt or whatever about the relationship, it's only going to make her feel more suffocated. You don't have to mimic her every move but slow your roll. You aren't going to bring her out of her shell by bombarding her with affection from afar.

pretty obvious, very nice.
I would feel really good if I received such a message

It’s funny (and sad) that earlier in the relationship she was the one smothering me with the “I love you”. I didn’t tell it to her all the time but she thought I was being cold towards her so I made myself express my love more and I think It’s made me quite dependant on it like her at the time lol.

It’s sorted now, She told me she loves me a lot. I-I feel smitten.

Thanks for reading my drivel user

Aww, that's cute, enjoy it user. No problem.

Beta as fuck desu.

She ghosted you. Sending this would be retarded, like if a girl dumped you and YOU turned around and said "it's me not you"

You're hoping to regain some of the power you lost when it happened and maybe even hoping just a little that she'll text you back.

Should I not care of seeming too romantically involved? Or keep it still quite friendly since he's leaving?

you should do what you feel like doing
stop playing games

Do girls GENUINELY love boys? Sorry if this is a strange question but I often feel like love is one-sided (boys love girls and girls use love as a means to an end). What's to love about a boy anyway?

i don't want to make a new thread so i need insight from fellow femfags,
when i try to masturbate, i can only last for a few seconds of pleasure and then after i get wet, my vagina and legs get sore and i can't go on anymore.
but i never see women complaining about how long they last?? i only see men do. is this really not a usual problem for women? is it a sign i'm unhealthy?
p.s.: i'm a virgin, never got anything inside i only rub the outer area

Of course women can love men. For my first relationship, I had so much love for him and it broke my heart when he left me.

And that last question, you ask it because you can't see it from another perspective. What is there not to love about a boy?

Yes.

>What's to love about a boy anyway?
What isn't? All the reasons why you love a particular person boil down to who they are as a human being, not to gender. Sexual attraction is vital for love but love cannot be reduced to simply finding someone attractive, it has to do with what someone sparks in you, wanting to look out for them, feeling like life looks brighter in their company, you name it. Those all have to do with interpersonal and individual characteristics and are not universally set in stone for men or women. Hell, even between two people a dynamic is fluid and changes.

christ.
genders are not so different, bud.
yes, people are capable of genuine love, whatever that is. regardless of gender and many other factors.

I'm a guy, but have you tried avoiding your clit after you get wet? I've slept with girls who would get too sensitive to have it directly stimulated

Not entirely sure if this is the same issue I had but I think it's worth mentioning. I was a late bloomer and when I started masturbating I always ran into the issue that a switch was flipped in my head at some point and my arousal vanished (it felt like suddenly waking/sobering up) and I felt mildly disgusted and weird. This happened close to orgasm. After some time I figured out it was - I guess subconscious - fear of climaxing and letting go, and I got over it by giving myself a forced orgasm (my first) by keeping the showerhead in place even though my entire body wanted to cringe away from the stimulation at some point. Once I knew what I was "working" towards, I never had the issue again.

Having said this, I don't know if you'll recognize this and I don't recognize your description of soreness. Are you sure it's not something that has to do with clenching your muscles? Clenching can make it easier to feel aroused and stimulated but is ultimately counterproductive.

Women can have issues with this but it usually has to do with coming very quickly and then not enjoying further orgasms. Having said that I am quite confident that it's a hang up or certain habit of masturbation on your side, I strongly doubt you're somehow unhealthy. Did you try different positions and different stimuli and does that make any difference?

Ladies :
Can I just be nice and boring? Is there a type for me out there?

This girl didn't like the last guy she was with only wanted to be friends with benefits, but sucked my dick after dating for a week. Then literally a few minutes later asked if I wanted to be her boyfriend. I told her it was way too soon and we have to see, and she said she understood.

Now she wants me to come over later. What the fuck is going on? Does she want a relationship or a fuck buddy?

She's just into you. Go get some pussy if you want it but be careful as she could easily fall for you

There are nice but boring girls out there. You might be perfect for them.

I entered two relationships that lasted over a year each with girls I fucked the night we met.
no problem about that

I think so. I just have to find one. Hopefully someone pretty.

I’m white with good career and all I get are usually single mothers on dating apps. I’m 27 and fit. The fuck is this ? I’m 5’6 which doesn’t help I know.

maybe other girls don't care about your career, but some other factors

Is it morally wrong to date someone for experience instead of attraction?

Morally wrong?
Idk.
But it's not a great idea. It'll probably end with the other person getting hurt when you inevitably leave them.

The girls you want to date won't be on dating apps

>when you inevitably leave them

Just because i go on one or two dates with someone doesnt mean i am in a relationship with them

Girls:
if you consider a guy to be your best friend, does he have any chance with you if he were to ask you out? Is the friend zone an actual thing?

No, it doesn't. Going on a couple dates is fine, but if you say you're only doing it for experience many girls will say you're wasting their time

Guy here. Friendzone is a state of mind. She either has romantic interest or she doesn't. Only way to find out is to ask her out. If she turns you down, oh well. You can be her friend IF you can be her friend. Not an orbiter hoping she changes her mind. Not a hapless hopeless twat that thinks "it's better than nothing". If you can be her friend, be her friend. If you can't, don't.

Ask her out though. Always. The chance of her saying yes might be 1% but that's a he'll of a lot better than the 0% you'd get from not asking at all.

My gf doesn't moan during sex.. any suggestions?

Girls: What actually makes a guy interesting? I'm into cars, vidya, I'm a musician, I've traveled around the world etc but somehow none of that is interesting.

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She could very likely be nervous or embarrassed. Turn the lights out and talk during sex. Be vocal yourself. Hope she opens up.

None of that is particularly unique though. Lots of people have travelled the world, made music etc. What's so special about you? Also, are you attractive?

I guarantee your problem is delivery.

>I BEEN ALL AROUND DA WORLD YA NO
isn't interesting

A casual, contextually relevant anecdote about that time you took a picture from the top of Mt. Fuji, is.

I'm decently attractive apparently. I match with a lot of women I figured would be out of my league at least. I'll also note that I don't drink or go to clubs, not because some straight edge shit, just because I'm not into it at all.

Wouldn't just dropping something like that come off as a bit of a show off?

>Wouldn't just dropping something like that come off as a bit of a show off?
Have you ever had a conversation before? You're aware of how they work, yes?

Gf has been doing an internship on the other side of the country for a month now, she barely texts only in brief spurts maybe once a week and hasn't ever called.

She says she's really busy and apologizes but I feel neglected. She says she'll make more effort to talk but I'm just not seeing it. I get that she's busy but she skips prescheduled skype dates with me to go out to dinner with her fellow interns.

How do I tell her this is really bugging me without coming being clingy? Am I clingy? Should I just suck it up for 2 more months till she's back? Do I just stop trying and let her reach out to me instead?

what's special about anyone?

Give it another week or two so she can go "huh, it has been over a month, that's fair to be mad"

retarded question

i want to start hitting on Jow Forums girls
tell me how to get a femanon gf

Listen, if you feel something, you should communicate it to your partner. Stop trying to tailor yourself to your partner, its not conducive to a long-term partnership. Be straight up to her and tell her that you understand she has been super busy, but that you are feeling neglected.

You don't.

Well I have been, like I said she just says she'll put in more effort but it hasn't really changed

Should I straight up tell her this is gonna be a dealbreaker?

>met new girl
>roughly known her for 2 months
>kissed like a month ago
>fucked like a dozen times since
>text or call or hang out daily
>casual dinners like Taco Bell to romantic nights out

So we're dating but not official boyfriend and girlfriend.
I'm crazy about this girl.
Her birthday is next week. Here is what I plan to get her.
I just wanted to get a sense of too much, too little, just right.

>flowers
>dinner
>teddy bear
>alex and ani bracelet ($30?)
>a box with 7-11 tier gifts like kit kats and snapple, things she loves

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The ones you would actually want anything to deal with are already in relationships.

Tried this and it turned out to be a trap. Be careful user

Too much. Flowers and dinner is enough. Teddy bear and gift basket is enough. Everything else is too much. Pick one of those combos

>implying thats a bad thing

There is no generalization. She either has a crush on you or doesn't.

I went out with a girl this week and we had a good time at dinner. She’s from the south and I’m not sure if she’s just being polite to me.

I think we were both a bit nervous when we met over dinner (she was more nervous, she was concerned about how she looked IRL vs Bumble, where we met)

Anyway she and I texted off and on since a few days ago. This morning she texted me first and said she hoped I had a good day today.

Does she kind of like me?

Continuing contact after a first date is always a good sign. Don't wait too long to set up a second date though, give it a few more days and go for it.

I'm about to go on a trip on Monday and I hung out with someone on on Wednesday. I'm kinda scared that it's me

Girls who are princesses, are any of you single?

Thefuxk you mean ?

Presumably you want to date someone who is your equal, yes? Those girls aren't on dating apps because they're either taken, or don't have a problem finding dates irl.

Man, I was just thinking this the other day, an old friend of mine who I have on IG has pictures with some new guy talking about how much she loves him and how he's the world an shit, and the last time I saw pictures of her with someone it was some other dude. So I went into her pics and looked and all her old pictures of that guy have been completely wiped, it's like he never existed.

I felt so bad for that guy and I don't even know him.

You seem cool user

Dinner + flowers is the basic for me

The box is just a sentimental gift. Like the box is from a store where we first met. kit kat is what we had the first time we kissed.

i could do without the bear or the bracelet (she has 3, just wanted to match with a 4th)

i think i'm just crazy about this girl cause we've been hanging out or whatever. she's scared of thunder. so the other night at like 3am she texts me "im scared"...."i know youre probably sleeping but the thunder is scary"....."babe"....it was the sweetest thing

That's a bit much. Dinner and the last thing would be enough.

>my moms dead you necrophiliac
kek

Thanks man. Maybe it's just because women don't like any of those things really. I've got great car related anecdotes but I don't think a story about the transmission in my friends car grabbing the wrong gear and stopping the wheels would have the same impact as it would to a guy.

Girls like my personality and have stopped dead in their tracks when they got a good look at me on multiple occasions, but I can't crack the mental seal to want or feel worthy of a gf. What should I do?

vidya and cars are terribly boring, for most parts
music is entertaining, but not interesting. that should be enough tho
traveling is super interesting and women love my own stories of world travels, so you probably just suck at telling stories or kept your ass in hotels or something

go to a therapist

I don't know what there is to say from my trips. I interacted with people, went to local stores, tried various foods and actually managed to hookup overseas (accents are more powerful than I expected). I also went to a few underground jazz clubs even though I'm not a fan of jazz but just went for the experiences. None of that seems particularly interesting.

Whenever my gf dresses like this she gets a LOT of attention from thirsty douchebags. How do I stop feeling so insecure?

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well, I hitchhiked through northern and central asia and had like a million crazy experiences and situations.
pretty sure you could also say something interesting about your trips, if only you were smooth with your words.
just center on the other person, not yourself

buy her a hijab

This isn't directed at a particular gender.

I can't into photography or good cameras and don't want to waste time trying to learn.
Can I just hire a photographer? But then, I keep seeing all those profiles that look fake and boring. Can I try and ask them to make it more you know... not like it was out of a yearbook so much or oversold to the point they could be underwhelmed when they meet me offline? I don't care about faking my profile, I just want it to make me look the best that I might normally look.

Are the photographers that specialize in helping with this kind of thing? How do I look for this? Has anyone here done it?

I wouldn't say I'm unattractive (and don't care what you have to say about that), but my photos are just no good and naturally I feel weird just going up to some photography place and saying I need a photo for... actually, come to think of it, what do I ask them for? How the fuck do I just get an image that looks like it fits on Tinder and shows my interests without making me look like complete shit? How do I even set it up? I guess I need to come up with the scene myself? How do I... and it has to be something that can be brought into a conversation easily? Why is this so hard all of a sudden

Forgot my image to shut up people trying to say anything to the contrary.

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>Completely forgot that Jow Forums even has a photography board.
>Never even visited it before
Oh yeah... that place. That place exists. I guess I can try there.

I should I just give up and use tinder to find a girlfriend ? I know its mainly used for sex so should also just give up and use it to lose my virginity? 19yo I am good looking it's just socializing with girls to the point to were you ask them out is tricky idk if were just friends or have more something more than that. I try to use my brain more than my heart.

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Boi if shes texting first then she definitely liked you

If you play your cards right she'll be on your cock next weekend.

tinder is not that bad. just learn how to avoid the actual sluts/gold diggers, who are just a minority

All girls are sluts my dude. No magic unicorns.

You've admitted that you've had casual sex, which makes you kind of a slut. He can't see you as his pure little sister figure anymore, so he wants to bang you since he was sexually frustrated anyway.

good, job, this kind of thinking is exactly what is going to bring happiness to your life

Why do women say they don't are about looks but actually care about it just as much, if not more than, men?