What would you do in this situation?
What would you do in this situation?
Gavin Ross
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Adrian Perry
"ok" and drop it. she said no in every way apart from typing "no", because that will become an all-night thing.
Ayden Hughes
I usually try to explain why it sucks cause I already planned for earlier and try and see if they're willing to sacrifice the extra time to see me. If not , ngl I get pretty butthurt
Luis Lee
Wait until they get back to me and reschedule it only once if they say they can't make it.
That said she suggested a specific alternate time, so she's probably not just flaking on you.
Grayson James
Just go to a strip club.
Brody Martinez
Smells like a shit test...
Grayson Howard
She offered an alternate time.
>9 or ten sounds good, let me know
And then leave it be.
Checked but wtf how is it a shit test? She offered an alternate time with no fuss.
Asher Hernandez
She's not duckin you she's just putting her friends ahead of you.
Fuck you zoomers are so autistic the white race is doomed
Jeremiah Ramirez
Seconding this.
My suspicious is that she's going "hunting" to this party, you are her second option at best. Don't expect her to call you tonight.
In any case reply with just an OK and DO NOT FUCKING TEXT HER until after the weekend, I do not give a fuck if you spend the weekend cycling between playing video games and thinking about her, do not fucking contact her and do not fucking let her know what you did with your weekend, if she asks lie and say you went out with someone else (if you're too pussy to pretend you went out with a girl pretend you went out with your friends).
In any case wait until she contacts you OR at least wait at least 3 or 4 days.
Brody Thomas
I'm not white
>but she is
Lincoln Perry
fpbp
Hudson Miller
Well then live post as it happens...
(She’s trying to see just how needy are you are).
Samuel Fisher
Some context, gave me her number saying to text her at the bottom of the last message (I hope I cropped this right)
Christopher Barnes
wtf are you still posting for?
>9 or ten sounds good, let me know
or
>"ok" and drop it.
Stop overthinking and go do something else.
Brayden Lee
Already did the first one thanks for the input everyone
Matthew Cox
She's probably annoyed that you didn't want to go out with her that day and is pretending to have netter things to do
Sebastian Rodriguez
The only problem I have with the answers in Jow Forums like this is that, while they safeguard your egos from rejection, they also stunt any real relationships that might have been possible.
Angel Cruz
Tell her to enjoy her evening, and go talk to other women. She's just stringing you along at this point.
Dominic Wright
She wants to fuck. If she didn't she'd delay to another day. Say, "Well later would work well. Why don't we try to meet around then?"
Who cares. Are you trying to be in a relationship or fuck OP?
btw, 7pm is very early.
Asher Watson
Just to add, no one "grabs a drink" at 7pm. 7pm would be dinner, and I bet if you said that she would've said no. It's usually pick her up late, grab some drinks, verify both of you aren't crazy, go back to her or your place and fuck. Like I said, the fact she wants to meet late tonight means she's dtf. Get some drinks, dance, be silly, leave around 1am or whatever and fuck her
Luis Davis
I would relax because she gave you a good update and it seems like she gives a fuck enough to even say something. I think generally girls have to actually care in order to respond or they'll just leave it be and swipe through the 40+ other messages they're getting from guys. Take a breath my guy.
Daniel Brown
This is the part that you don't understand and that I wish wasn't true, it doesn't matter if you're looking for a relationship or just want to fuck, the first steps are always the same, you need to gran the female's attention and present yourself as a worthy man who takes no shit from anyone, how will you keep her from cucking you if you get into a relationship if she knows she has you at the palm of her hand any time she wants? Fuck why would she want to have a serious relationship with you if she has you at her will even without having to give you anything in return?
Jace Murphy
im gonna need some pics to make a better decision on how you will best be maximizing your sexual potential with this broad tonight op.
Jordan Allen
Pics of her or me?
Jacob Perez
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Ian James
if she doesnt put me first, im not going to put up with her.
Blake Ortiz
Does it really make sense from a girls perspective? Especially if you don't actually know one another
Levi Richardson
I disagree with you. He has her attention, she's rescheduling AND rescheduling for tonight. He message her at 1pm! People that meet to fuck aren't caught up on this crap you're saying. They try to figure when they're both free and meet. They'll avoid meeting at 7pm because they don't want a relationship and that "date" is a waste of time.
I don't know how many girls you've dealt with but if you text them 1pm on a Saturday to meet at 7pm, they're going to say no.
I see you're talking about a relationship a lot. I'll tell you this though. Girls I've met the night before on tinder that I'm fucking that night, are laughing at a guy texting them, while they're naked with me, trying to arrange a date with her to go to a baseball game. The girls laughing saying, they've taken her out on multiple dates and she's making him wait for sex. I don't know which guy you want to be, but I'd rather be fucking her within 24 hours and only spent money on a bottle of wine from the gas station.
Jacob Watson
This isn't a bad mentality, bit the timing is off, if you haven't made her your girlfriend she won't really care to make you first.
Adrian Scott
That girls doesnt take anything seriously. I dont trust her.
Jonathan Allen
she isnt going to begin putting you first until youve proven to her youre worth prioritizing. she isnt going to do it for free, and she isnt going to take a chance. you ask, she tests, you ace, we fuck.
ok is almost too passive aggressive, and could be read as insecure. you also cant ghost at this point.
the frame in this situation is that shes just one of many other women you have sexual opportunities with. shes testing you for all of this. an ok lmk is at least more open, but the idea you need to be conveying is that if she isnt free, you have a backup.
anons are right, whatever you send, if she doesnt respond, you ghost. its your only chance. meeting at 7 was risk. i get it, more time, more sex, dont want to stay up too late, etc. i hope the venue was a bar. women looking to hookup dont give a fuck about that shit. you meet at night and you stay up until the sex is done.
Kayden Turner
Well, trying again on Tuesday
Ethan Collins
She did not expect you to say ok to that and knew she did not want to meet you but tried to play it off.
She is probably not too into you. When a woman is into you she would either be honest from the start or make time. Do not get your hopes up.
Josiah Russell
Fuck the other user OP. Go for it.
Charles King
I know we are dealing with women, but seriously, she offers to reschedule instead of just ghosting. Are you suggesting that she is just going to continue rescheduling if I agree to tuesday?
James Cooper
based reality blowing out of the water, now is my new best friend.
Brandon Baker
This post is a great example of the reason why people with limited life experience shouldn't give advice.
Nathaniel Sullivan
Nigga, agree to Tuesday and see what happens. Why in the flying fuck are you sitting here playing psychic and trying to wildly speculate into the future with a bunch of turbovirgins on the internet? These dipshits know nothing about you or her and are literally just projecting their perspective of women onto you without having any clue what they're talking about.
Get off the internet. Wait until Tuesday. Jesus, man, how old are you?
Joseph Hughes
Kevin Cook
BASED
Thomas Evans
Why is it a still? Is there a version with the actual footage?