ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like ?
>What do girls/guys think about
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, .

>I'm an insecure/suicidal/anxious person who doesn't leave home
Watch these and follow these channels:
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>Guys insecure with their 4+ inches dick
Fuck off

>Why is there no new thread?
Create one yourself. You can use these macros: imgur.com/a/y6BF2

Welcome, faggots!

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Girls, do you like when a guy rubs his face against your tits? Because I love doing this. I love booping the nipple with my nose.

Why do you prefer faggots over princesses?
Princesses > faggots

Why don't men see women as human beings?

Do you mean men or do you mean incels, PUAs, and womanizers?

We see you as human beings, we just however see you as lower forms because on the aggregate women have different thinking patterns. Look at Europe and American before spics and niggers ruined it. Women got the vote and everything became liberal and men had to cater to liberal ideology perpetrated my female bought patterns.

Soldiers dehumanize the enemy to make remorseless killing easier.
I think objectification of people is the more sober way of looking at the world. The default way of perceiving people as special and intrinsically good is our brains way of preventing us from becoming sociopaths.
Our existence and success is most at stake during war and reproduction. When a man is rejected, it's essentially an insult to his worth as a man. The only way to cope with this is to devalue women, since accepting his low value as a man would crush him.
No people think of relationships (supposedly one of the most valuable things) this way because it's too disgusting to penetrate the threshold of conscious thought.

I think that's the world record for fastest derailment of a thread!

But prove me wrong tho. Pro tip, you can’t. We hate whores. It’s against our biology to marry whores. They have higher chance of stds and greater chance for promiscuity. Men are the romantics and more responsible ones. We had to teach women how not to be whores and to be good women.

Once society got safe enough, they came out and starting demanding gibs. You look at the feminist movement, and this is it in a nutshell:

The right to have unlimited sex and to kill babies, and have laws to protect them from backlash of men who find that disgusting. They were set up as queens, given everything they could possibly want.

I'm not saying that you're wrong. I'm just commenting on how every thread like this derails into hating women.

Is it some conspiracy, or is the fact they are still wired with primative brains to go after the most brute, aggressive, and manwhore of male and they can’t evolve to the society we live in?
Female subconscious thought pattern: “I have to get the tallest man with the biggest muscles or else my offspring won’t survice”.

Men: “she can’t be fat(unhealthy) and she can’t be a whore (unhealthy white and greatest chance for guaranteeing your offspring)” we are the simple ones.

Why was I born a woman, and have an inferior retard whore brain? Can I become something better? Should I kill myself and hope to be reborn as a man so I at least have a chance?

I'm 22 and live with my parents. If I get girlfriend am I supposed to have sex with her, and where?

This didn't even come close to being decent bait. Try harder next time.

I'm serious, if you believe me or not.

Girls:
I've noticed when talking with girls they will give this sort of maybe blank expression but stare really hard into my eyes. One girl started to flirt with me so it sort of confuses me. Yes ima bit of an autist so sometimes I can't read signs to well when a girl likes me.

I know I'm good looking, but recently I feel like my face is looking a bit more serious than usual. Could this be scaring girls or do some girls react like that under certain circumstances?

It means their brain turned off. Girls are kinda dumb so it happens occasionally if something is too complicated.

Stop wondering whether or not a girl likes you and worry whether or not you like her enough to ask her out.

Inherently, women don’t know how to restrain themselves and realize we live in a modern society with laws and civility. There is no more of a need to go after the most buff guy. You’re safe now because white men have tamed beasts and created medicine. Just reading history on how we got here should make you realize that men with average muscles and average penises invented some of the best designs and inventions to change the world... all because he was motivate because of you were a good little boy, you can go home and get some guaranteed pussy and procreate.

Now we have men lost, not sure how the hell to reproduce, because every damn girl is on tinder getting their ego inflated with 1000 messages from men per day. Even whores, pregnant, and with a child get hit up by men 8/10 and above.

Pairbonding occurs with multiple men and they have issues staying with one man.

I don't care about having a buff guy, but when I say that I am just told that I'm a woman so I don't know my own thoughts.

Good point user. I needed that.

Everytime I try to ask my crush out on to a date, my whole mind shuts down and I can't do it. How do I stop this from happening? It happens even though I'm confident she'd say yes.

Just do it

Remember she is just a female, and your fear is silly. The less you care and the more provacative you are the better you’re off.
At the end of the day they are just a wet hole.

Such is the way of the chan.

Do only dumb sluts lacking vocabulary describe EVERY SINGLE attractive guy as "cute"?

Women, up to how fat would you consider dating?(that you personally think)? Like waist measurement wise?

No woman is autistic enough to have a waist measurement to give you.

How do I use my handsome face to get a sweet girl to let me hug kiss, and cuddle her?

How the fuck am I supposed to know a waist measurement? Also the fact that you're asking this means that your probably too fat

I want a FWB situation with girls, but I'm also into being affectionate, passionate, and sometimes i really just want to hug a girl or fall asleep with my head on their lap. Is there a way to do this but keep everything strictly FWB? I really have no desire for a relationship, but at the same time I'm not gonna be a boring stick in the mud. Don't get me wrong, I'll fuck like a FWB for sure, but ain't nothing wrong with kissing, and cuddling.

Women
Does it get old being called beautiful?

>I want the benefits of an emotionally intimate relationship but with 0 commitment
It's not impossible but probably not.

Why are girls always flip flopping and changing their minds like every second

Why do women see men as nothing if they aren't they're perfect idea of a partner, they don't even consider having a real friendship

I'm a male that hates himself, could I still get laid despite my self-loathing?

Guys how much of yourself do you show to your girlfriend. Mentally speaking of course.

I wouldn’t know but it sounds nice.

t. Virgin

As little as possible. Just my sense of humor and personal interests.

So I installed OkCupid yesterday, what do I do now? Like, just message girls I have I high match percentage with even though I don't know what they think of me? I got only one like and don't even know from whom it was.

I'm having crazy sexual chemistry with this girl and it's going pretty well. But she just asked for a relationship a week in. I'm new to this shit, isn't that too soon? Do people just rush into relationships after a week of meeting each other? I told her give me some time. I'm actually open to it but she literally pushed herself onto me and it's overwhelming.

Why do you lie on the internet user

Yes but don't do just that when you're down there

Girls;
I've been told ever by one girl that she likes it when a guy is sleeping with her and gets a boner. And it touches her/presses against her back.

Is this pretty much a universal like?

I remember controlling my direction of boners early sexual years because on TV and shit they'd make fun for a guy "pleasing his dick into my back" now I'm older I feel like I care less.

But is it really weird?

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No point in lying man, do you have any advice though?

Hang out with her do stuff decide if you like her, tell her that you can't just jump into something like this but you do have feelings for her you just need to get to know each other more

Girl here.

Should I tell my crush (guy) that I really don't like his friends very much? His friends insult me every time I'm around.

Yes talk things out like humans

I need to hold back my emotions though. I always feel as if I get too dramatic.

Tell her you wanna take things a bit slower. Let her know when you are ready to be in a relationship with her.

Yes. Communication is key.

You cover it really good all over your head so you hide the fact you're braindead. :)

Why his friends don't like you?

Not weird

>another all men post
Why are all women cheating cunts?

To girls:

Would this girl still have some feelings for me?

Haven't seen her for 2.5 weeks now. We broke up because she looked on my phone and saw me messaging my ex. I was seeing her for 2 months, about 4+ times per week, exclusive etc, we were pretty much bf/gf.

Since then, she deleted me off everything and has only spoken to me regarding a holiday we had booked. I have tried to break through to get her to talk about what I did but she just leaves me on seen when I mention anything other than the plane tickets. She won't even respond. Just ice cold.

She didn't reblock me though after we finished sorting out the plane tickets...

>Would this girl still have some feelings for me?
It looks like she just wanted to sort out issues with the holiday and didn't care to block you back since things are done between you 2 anyway

Can feelings die in 2.5 weeks when you were intensely hanging out for 2 months straight? How come she doesn't want to talk and ask why I did it?

>Can feelings die in 2.5 weeks when you were intensely hanging out for 2 months straight?
Of course they can. She realized that you were cucking her, why do you expect her to give a shit about you or your reasons?

Well I guess this is for both genders
If you're rich and shit, what's your opinion about dating a poorfag guy/girl?

Its been done to me and I went NC on the bish as a way to punish her and give her zero closure. I guess this girl is doing it to me. I know when I did it, I still missed her company and felt like shit but knew she wasn't worth my time.

Things between this girl and I were really good and we had just been on a really nice fishing trip together. The next night she saw messages to my ex telling her that I missed her and that I had sent them when I was with this new girl.... I really don't blame her because if the roles were reversed, I'd want her to catch AIDS too.. I feel so bad because I liked this girl a lot but also just broke it off with my ex and missed her.

So she would be able to just simply stop caring about me?

I would always be concerned that they were dating me for money. Also a prenup would be mandatory.

>The next night she saw messages to my ex telling her that I missed her and that I had sent them when I was with this new girl....
>So she would be able to just simply stop caring about me?
I don't know her personally so I can't be sure, but judging by her behaviour she only cares about kicking you out of her life, and rightly so. My advice? Leave her alone and go back to your ex. You fucked this one up and there's no coming back.

Amen. I know it's over. She did seem to have a ruthless streak in her. She told me her and her ex broke up in December and she was upset, they got back together and broke up again in Feb but that time she "felt nothing". I always wondered about that since it seemed odd. Why even get back in the first place?

I will go no contact now. How do I give up all hope of ever having a reflective conversation with her again? Hope is really eating at me here and I know its fucking pointless. She isn't even right for me. It's just I enjoyed fucking her because it was a new thing.

I would have assumed if she truly didn't care she would be more casual about talking about what happened. The fact she is ice cold and refuses to even acknowledge any of the "Im so sorry and I miss you a lot" messages means that she is cut and hurting still?

LADIES, when you go to the gym, how important is it in a random guy's attractiveness that he can lift a lot? I can barely lift anything at the moment and wondering if that's ruining my potential chances with gym girls that frequent here.

>The fact she is ice cold and refuses to even acknowledge any of the "Im so sorry and I miss you a lot" messages means that she is cut and hurting still?
Not necessarily. She probably just doesn't want to interact with you. You were just some guy who turned out to be a wanker so she's moved on.

Lesson for your foreveralones: someone who is mean to the waiter is a mean person.

Alright so I and my friends joke about me being a legal loli irl but I’m actually starting to feel depressed about it because holy shit looking like a 14/15 year old girl means I’ll never get a bf who doesn’t have some sort of hebephilic tendencies and I’m jealous of my friend and her bf.

Hmm, true. But if I was "just some guy", how come she wanted to take my to another city for my birthday in a couple of months? Why would she spend all that time with me and be all lovey dovey... surely it had to have meant something to her. We were talking about our future a lot too... I just feel sad because of what I did. I wish it didn't end this way.

You will age eventually. Even petite women dont look like lolis at 30 or 40

Underexposure. It's like you're a different species. Guys with sisters will treat you more like a regular person.

She liked you and probably thought you were a bf material. Then she saw the messages and liking turned into disgust. It happens, you can't cuck people and expect them to stay loving and understanding towards you. Whatever she feels doesn't matter at this point anyway. I'm sorry user.

Actually I think I phrased the question too exaggeratedly
I mean, what if you're relatively successful, like average or above average job, and the other person is minimum wage or maybe not even working yet, like a uni kid?

And my GF complains about having 173cm height and having "big" hips and shoulders. She wishes she was a cute loli. Women truly will never accept what they have

What does that even mean?

Guys, just out of curiosity: if you had to choose between small boobs and big ass and big boobs and small ass, what would you choose?

Uni kid is fine. Minimum wage is also fine, as long as there was a plan to get a better job and you were actually going to follow through. Any issue would be due to complacency and lack of ambition.

Big boobs small ass.

Small boobs, I am an ass man.

Boobs for sure but not huge, just something a bit over a handful. Big butts are gross.

Is it a good sign if she knows my name even though we hadn't been properly introduced?

Whenever we go out people think I’m her little sister rather than her best friend it sucks so much.

Yes, that's a huge problem

I'm also wondering how to approach my guy in a way which doesn't make it sound like I'm giving him an ultimatum. "I don't want to hang out if [asshole] is around because he regularly insults and mocks me," - is that decent enough or too melodramatic?

So is it just one guy friend being an asshole or is it the group?

That's good enough. I don't think it's an ultimatum, it's a serious problem. His friends are being dicks and disrespectful not only to you but to him as well. If your guy doesn't do anything about it just get out of it

Do you have a picture at least similar to your build? My friend looks like she's 16 tbqh but she's been able to find some pretty decent dudes.

>If I get girlfriend am I supposed to have sex with her
That's sort of the point of a girlfriend.
>And where?
Either be quiet, or go to her place if it provides better privacy.

We're always in a group. One guy is a dick almost all the time. Another one (who is smarter) is nice enough, but sometimes he can be pretty cold to me.

They're not necessarily dicks to him though, but he does notice when this stuff happens and I get the impression he's upset by it (he never directly comes out and says anything though).

Yeah but like 16’s when the jailbait appeal starts I look like I’m in the middle of puberty. I don’t have a pic because I think my search history’d look weird if I typed in 14 or 15 year old girl. It’s also 2 am so I could be misunderstanding you.

Probably not the right place to ask. Jow Forums likely isn't densely populated by beautiful girls who gets catcalled on a frequently basis.

t. Girl who has never been called beautiful before.

Giving me feels here. Same thing happened with my gf, my best friend for reason I don't know hates her. I didn't even see it for a long time but it he did things like shitty jokes or not sharing things with her (like at a restaurant would share food with everyone but never her, and would make a point of it).

I keep the two completely separated. They haven't seen each other in 4 years and I have two different friends groups made of completely different people that all get along together.

Anyway, talk to him about it. Nothing will change if you don't and he might not even see it. It was in front of me and I had no idea at all because guys just don't notice shit talking.

>they don't even consider having a real friendship
Girls are very prone to finding male friends, and friendzoning guy they don't want to date, but don't mind spending time with either.

You sound like you have other issues if girls dont even want to be friends with you.

I you are having sex, I would think it is the right time to consider a relationship. It's not like it has o be this grand long-term commitment, but if you are having sex, but don't want to have a relationship, don't be surprised if she moves on to someone who will.

What can you do though? It's not like you can make significant changes to your body. I'm not saying date a creeper, but if you assume any dude is one who asks you out you're just shooting yourself in the foot.

I'd bring up the idea of exclusively dating to make sure you guys want to make it official maybe.

>They're not necessarily dicks to him though
If he likes you and they know it yet still treat you bad in front of him or not then they're being dicks. Trust me.
If this dude actually likes you he'd stop being a pussy and confront his friends or they'll just keep shitting on him.

>Known each other for a week
>Already knows they have sexual chemistry
>"Why can't I fuck chicks without being roped into a relationship?"
Wew. I think you should have been looking for a whore, not a girl.

Well I'm going to try online dating as per my psychologist's request. How can I fuck up the least doing this?

How many years of evolution would it take for women to have sensible instincts like don’t get knock up by the “badboy” Chad or try to find someone to settle down with before your 30s?