I've never had a gf and I'd like to meet women. I've approached women in college but I was always shot down. Now I'd like to try again. I just have some questions:
1) What's the best way to meet them? I was thinking bumble would be the most convenient?
2) I am really short for a guy, and I know this is a dealbreaker for many women. I'm pretty comfortable with myself, but should I just list my height so I don't shock women when they first meet me?
3) What's a good first place to hang out with a woman?
1) Bumble isn't a bad choice, you'll get the instant gratification and encouragement if you they match you. It's always better to meet someone in person first imo, but that's not usually a spontaneous thing.
2) Don't sell yourself short (that was unintentional, it really was) on your profile, if they have no sense of you as a person then they have no incentive to go out of their way for it. Just own it when you meet them.
3) A good date that's interactive for both of you is best, if you can find a way to demonstrate your own thoughtfulness and abilities (cooking for her, showing her how to dance,etc), then even better.
Ryan Flores
Meeting women through a hobby or something is the best. It will be more difficult to tell if they're just looking for a fuck,relationship, friendship, or neither, but it will be nice to actually be social with women.
Isaiah Brooks
Thanks guys. Honestly, I'd much rather meet women in person, but I have no idea where to 'naturally' meet them in hobby context
Adam Gonzalez
local game store? library? retail store related to ur hobbies?
Lincoln Nelson
>local game store >meet women I don't think you have ever been. Women don't have hobbies.
James Watson
I do have a game store near me and I play warhammer a tiny bit, but no women are there. I was thinking some kind of art thing, I'll have to look around
Cameron Nelson
around here the m/f ratio at gamestores is like 7:3, you'll find one eventually
James Lee
>library? retail store related to ur hobbies? Unless you're going to a place that organizes events I've never really understood this advice. Take the library, most people there are reading or are in the process of checking something out and fucking off. The idea of interrupting them just to try to score a date sounds incredibly awkward to me.
Leo Martinez
Unless you are like 5'2" your height is irrelevant. Just don't think about it.
Juan Diaz
I’m actually that height
Not even joking. What do I do
Nathaniel Rodriguez
Be awesome. As in confident, funny, nice. And get some muscles.
Jackson Johnson
Thank you! I appreciate it. Will definitely work on those things
Shit nigga, you've been over before it even started. This shit just ain't fair.
Andrew Nguyen
I know you’re right- the odds are stacked against me. I’m not going down without a fight though
Cooper Long
That's the spirit, dude
Blake Anderson
I'm so sorry
Mason Price
Also, I know a guy from my high school that scored super hot chick and is with her still today, he was like 5'0''
Carson Scott
I really doubt this. It's not nice to give false hope, you know?
Nathaniel Evans
I'm serious, that shit happened.
Noah Morgan
Thats your problem. Just wait till a 3’2” steals your girl
Aiden Sanders
I appreciate the feedback guys, but just one more question. Should I list my height in my dating profile? I’m quite comfortable with my height but I feel like I should be honest with women, but I don’t want to seem insecure by listing it?
Adam Sanders
Look, unless your looks are exceptional, you don't stand a chance on the dating sites, but feel free to try it. Try meeting women through shared activities.
