Should I stay or should she go? I caught her with a bunch of juicy messages on her phone. She admitted to cheating on me for the last 3 weeks. Said it was my fault. No remorse. Been together 6 years and have a 3 year old son. She lives in the house I own. Love my son more than anything in the world
Cheating gf
I hope you have proof.
Kick her out, don’t settle for someone that cheated on you — she will only continue to do so.
File for divorce if married, request a TRO (temporary restraining order) if necessary.
You all can still raise your kid together in a sense, but this isn’t someone that hasn’t you’re back anymore.
I’m so sorry.
Also, make sure to save proof and to save it in multiple places. Shit, send a hard copy to your in certified mail with instructions to not open it and hold it for you.
No proof. She got her phone back before I could send screenshots. But she admitted to me and her sister. We’re not married, should I have got proof? And thank you- it’s very heartwrenching
Why do women always blame their partners for their actions? How cheating on your bf is your bf's fault? What the fuck?
Yes, you should have.
Do you have a joint phone account? If you do, you can pull her records.
You could also call her sister to talk about it and record it.
I’m sorry, but this is relationship ending. If you stay together, you’ll never trust her again.
I’m sure the messages are long gone, now. She’s good at deleting evidence. But I never ever looked at her phone. Always gave her privacy because I trusted her. Had a suspicion, gave her a chance to come clean, then snatched her phone off the floor
Yes I have a joint phone account, but she is the “account owner” so I’m not sure if they’ll give me records. Would proof help if there was a custody battle?
Have any of you guys given a cheater a second chance?
>we're not married
Then give her 30 days notice to get the fuck out of your house
My gut tells me it’s done and over and she needs to go, but my heart is looking for a miracle reason to work it out for my son’s sake
Yes, they will be extremely helpful.
You can also make her sister testify under oath; however, there’s a likelihood she will lie.
If it’s a joint account, do you not have access to it? It’s literally impossible for users to delete those records as far as I’m aware.
I’d also immediately set up a separate phone acct so she can’t spy on your texts.
Gave her a 30 day notice as soon as I found out. She said “I’m not going to sign this” I said you don’t have to. There’s no place for you to sign
I’ll call the phone company today. Maybe I can tell them we’re married
>You could also call her sister to talk about it and record it.
Excellent idea. I'm so glad cellphone have the option to automatically record.
Thanks for the input, guys. I have my answer
everything has been said
>She admitted to cheating on me for the last 3 weeks. Said it was my fault. No remorse.
>have a 3 year old son
kill her
kill her now
Do you want your son raised around such a horrible person?
Cheaters will cheat again and again and again...
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me