My girlfriend died during child birth. My kid got hit by a car a couple weeks ago by a car. I spend nearly every night drinking while I live with my parents and work a shit job. What do I do to fix my shit life
My girlfriend died during child birth. My kid got hit by a car a couple weeks ago by a car...
That's some horrible shit. If anything, only time can really sort you out mentally. If you've got close friends, I suggest spending a lot of time with them.
I don't really any more but thanks.
sweet jeebus that sucks.
Then divert your effort into making new friends, I'd say. I had some bad shit happen in the last year or so (Not nearly as bad as yours) and I had only like three super close friends, and currently have about 15 other friends / acquaintances that I enjoy spending time with to keep my mind off of life stuff if I ever need to get out of the house. It's worth a shot making new friends if at all possible.
How did you guys meet if she died at birth?
I guess. It's hard. Friends are far away now.
The army. I got out shortly after it happened. Grandparents were watching her while I was working. I don't blame them though.
I realize you're shitposting now. Sorry I've been drinking.
Definitely try to make more friends if possible, man. I know it's probably different to your situation, but I'll relate things to myself as best as I can to give advice; The best thing for me mentally when trying to get over an ex, was to find another girl to get attention from to keep my mind off it. Maybe attention (even if not for sex) from other women will keep your mind occupied for just a while so you don't have to be miserable for a brief time?
This is what happens when you watch anime
Thanks. I can try but I don't really know how besides Tinder. I guess it can't hurt.
I wish it was that simple.
Find someone you can give a nice, big, warm, soft, hug
I don't really know anyone anymore, but thanks user. My parents just kind of pity me now.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qty7IP8wlXM
Give your life to a higher cause.
That's terrible. Im sorry to hear that man. Depression is a heartless bitch. You might need to just get out, and not give a fuck about what others think. you've gone through a lot fucked up shit in a short amount of time. Drink a little less. Go out and hike or walk around more. Also socialize more too. It could work.
stop drinking, exercise, psychotherapy/grief counseling, daily meditation, read something interesting.
sorry about your lose, OP. Hope you're hold up, rooting for you.
That sucks but you shouldn't have let your kid get hit by a car.
That's on you.
you gotta just fucking deal with it, pick up the peices of your heart and start over. Thats all you can do, unless you want to just wallow in your filth, which wjll only make you worse.
My idea for if any thing like this happened was to try to Join the Foreign Legion. Failing that I'd go and bike around Iceland in the Summer where it's 24 hours of sunlight and take my time. At that point debts and such aren't a big deal, just bike the road and see the sights.
Defenseless anus...
Let that shit go, nigga. Women are replaceable.