Is turning into a human barbie the only way to have a guy have eyes only for you?

You don't seem to get it. There is nothing you can do to prevent your boyfriend from getting a semi when that waitress with big tits walks by. Accept this and move on.

No. The girl I'm into isn't really that attractive her personality is just super fucking cute and compatible with mine.

>boyfriend
Looks like she wants not the one, but a sugar daddy.

Maybe if you're still stuck in high school

that sucks..I am only attracted to one guy at a time. when I had a boyfriend he was ldr and I only had eyes for him and dont get turned on by anyone else. If I ever find someome perfect enough tk date me again I will reset and only think that about them, expecting it to be that way forever.
If guys cant be truly monohamous, then isnt it cruel for me to want a boyfriend, a monogampus boyfriend? im a healthy traditional minded girl. I want to be a submissive girlfriend and reproduce as im naturally entitled to.
Guys would probably complain about not having a dream girl like me yet I cant get what I want in return? to be the only one he finds attractive. the constant chase. that equals security to me.

If it helps guys are usually only romantically interested in one person at a time. As in its 'easy' to get a guy that loves only you but nigh impossible to get a guy that only find you attractive. It's like wanting him to never speak with another woman.

Sorry for grammer im not retarded its just late and I dont use autocorrect on my phone

Is it rare to have a guy only love you? And I still feel like finding other girls hot is cheating because that means for a short time they want someone else. Therefore for a certain amoint of time whther its seconds or minutes they prefer someone over me :/

And your telling me that even if I looked like pic related in my post and never argues a guy would still notice some random whore on the street? Isnt that fucking greedy?

If a guy loves you, in 99% of cases he loves only you. Let me ask you this though,if a guy were to notice that a girl had a good fashion sense, would it be cheating or is he just noticing something.

She looks like a 40 y.o without wrinkles
>Guys would probably complain about not having a dream girl like me
This is expected, because of the board we're on, but you are incredibly deluded. It feels like you are stuck in a fantasy world, you should talk to more people irl or something, maybe see a therapist
I'm the opposite, my bf says every woman except me is unattractive, it feels like he's lying, I've told him that I would be okay if he thought it because it's normal but I have issues now because of it. At the same time it's pretty great because he treats every girl and guy the same, no matter how they look, of course he treats me better though
Avril lavine (?) isn't that good looking, she's okay, but there are plenty of better looking women. Doubt you would see them on the street, though. I think guys have low standards, they just like breasts and ass, if a woman has something sexually appealing they will look, it doesn't mean she's prettier

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>Guys would probably complain about not having a dream girl like me
This is expected, because of the board we're on, but you are incredibly deluded. It feels like you are stuck in a fantasy world, you should talk to more people irl or something, maybe see a therapist
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Thats not cheating because fashion isnt a natural characteristoc of someone. One time my ex told me that sometimes he sees other cute or hot girls yet he claimed to be very loyal. I see those girls as potential replacements for me.
So if I had a guy that loved me 100% with the same mentality as I just mentioned, who wanted both sex and affection from me, and I randomly went distant on him sometimes because of resentment, do you think he would ever feel guilty for feeling that way? Because I feel like depriving him of all my affection like cuddling would be giving him a taste of his own medicine.

Why would you being attractive suddenly make him go blind?

who would you consider prettier than avril lavigne?
And the guys having low standards thing is kinda making me think. That is true and I guess it sucks. Imagine having a guy that just happens to have stamdards for you. Sounds like its what you have if he isnt lying.

because I set the bar so high no other girl compares anymore.

So if fashion sense were an inherent characteristic then you would expect your man to completely lose his ability to be aware of the quality of any other woman's fashion sense? And you think that men being aware of how attractive other women are is equivalent to depriving your partner of all affection whatsoever? Come on now, this just isn't reasonable.

A girl doesn't have to be more attractive than my gf for me to notice that she's attractive. And even if she were better looking relationships aren't all about physical attraction.

btw what do you look like mrs. ideal?

This post is so insecure I'm surprised it hasn't fallen off a ledge.

The issue is there will most likely (99.99%) be someone who eventually crosses your and your current boyfriend's path that is objectively more attractive than you. Taste among people doesn't differ so much that for someone you are the most attractive person in the world if you're not at least a general 8.5/10 to begin with.

What you're asking from a guy is to voluntarily ignore other women. Is there a guy out there who will do that for you, yes and no. Now you have to deal with the fact that generally speaking the onky guys who will self-correct for that kind of behavior aren't the ones you're probably attracted to.

Good luck finding someone, I guess.

>who would you consider prettier than avril lavigne?
Most k-pop stars, probably because they have better plastic surgery in Korea. It looks very natural, so if you're going to get it Korea might be a good choice.

Idk if basing a relationship off of looks is a good thing, you will get wrinkles and if looks is all you had what happens then? I met my bf online, and I didn't even send a picture until he told me he wanted to date me
People tell me I'm good looking, sometimes I see it, other times I don't. At the very least I'm proportionate, skinny, with soft features. I don't want surgery on my face but am considering a BBL, leaning towards no though, desu

I can't speak for all guys but for me personally, but I'm only truly attracted to my gf and all other girls mean nothing to me even if I find them pretty or whatever. It's just animalistic instinct to cop a look at a pretty girl, but it doesn't have to mean anything. Even if I notice a girl is pretty, I don't feel anything towards them and I pretty much instantly forget about them. I love my gf and there is no one else I am more emotionally and physically attracted to. Some guys are obviously worse than others at looking at other girls but you have to understand that even the most loyal guy in the world will still notice attractive girls, it's just built into our nature.

I don't think OP can accept this.

Kpop stars? but they arent even white so they all look pretty much the same. But thats just my opinion. Are you asain?
Tbh you sound like a decent girl on the inside and outside and im happy that your healthy and have a nice bf.
Yeah, I get told all the time that im fun to chat with etc. with people online who havent even seen my face. I guess I want a lot of meaning in a relationship. I feel like if I havung a special connection with someone and we loved each other more than anything, its almost lile prppf having it show in my appearance that to whoever, im superior to other girls in both personality and appearance if that makes sense? Seeing as guys are arguing they wont fall in love with another girl because another girl wouldnt vibe with them on the inside. I feel like they should go hand in hand and maybe could in a special instance. But it seems its not like that and it makes me lose hope.

This makes me feel a little better. But when you see a pretty girl is it like just noticing that by definiton they would be considered pretty or is it truly a personal preference in which if your girlfriend wasnt in the picture you would want them alot?

How did I get like this? Please adv someone help me I know im not the only girl like this I guess its kinda abnormal that a lot of other girls arent like me? And this shit makes me depressed

You probably watched movies like the notebook too many times, to be honest.

im starting to think that the only way to counter being hurt because of this and be validated is to be a complete whore like with with genuine guys who value me to make up for it or something

>but they arent even white so they all look pretty much the same
I think even European/Caucasians look similar, it's just genetics
>Are you asain?
No, I'm not, I just like k-pop
>Tbh you sound like a decent girl on the inside and outside and im happy that your healthy and have a nice bf.
Thanks, feelsgood
>Seeing as guys are arguing they wont fall in love with another girl because another girl wouldnt vibe with them on the inside.
There are plenty of women that a guy would be compatible with, but he choose you, that's important. I think it's more genetics than anything when men look at another girl, their bodies tell them that they should mate with her, it may change when we evolve more. I think it is possible though for him to only want you, he may look at other women and think for a split second "she is pretty", but you are the one he wants to come back to every night

maybe this means I really am more evolved

It's just noticing that they are objectively pretty.

>if your girlfriend wasnt in the picture you would want them alot?
No, not really. Not in the way you probably think. Purely surface level physical attraction doesn't mean as much as you might think.

initial?

Fuck off k.p

Hell no

>deserve the best

IF SHE BREATHS...

Why do you only want one guy? The whole point is to have choice and choice gives you freedom and freedom give you upward mobility to have the finest guy for your life at the moment.

Because I like to focus on one person because im not a fucking whore.Is too much freedom always a good thing

Increased opportunity isn't exclusive to positive outcomes. You also have more chances to fuck up.

no, just dont be fat and be a bit open
forget crushes, women are retarded, you are 99% choosing an idiot and the relationship will fail, let men hit on you

what kinda male is that who waits like a women to be taken

I still can focus on one person but not to the point of obsession or dependence. Both make you blind and stupid and immobile, increasing the chance of being taken advantage of.

If other men desire me the object of my desire must treat me with respect or he will be replaced.

I have eyes only for my girl no matter what. And no, "human barbie" is not the beauty standard most men are after.

Jesus, girl, don't listen to the sick incels here. I'm gonna tell you what's up.

Because of the way the humans evolved and developed different strategies of mating, there are three categories of people in this world :

-women who are hypergamous by nature (not your problem, obviously)
-men who are polygamous by nature (they're the ones you want to stay away from, who'd cheat on you no matter how pretty or awesome personality-wise you are)
-men and women who are monogamous by nature (that's you, and that's the type of guy you're looking for)

To make sure the guy you're into is monogamous too, you have to try and see if he commits to stuff early on. If he backdashes when you try and introduce him to your family, when you talk about marriage or kids, etc. then chances are he's not.

That'd be it for the general advice.

So you dont EVER check out other guys even in a relationship?

no
this is very encouraging. Are you sure thats all you have to say? Any more red flags or examples? personal experiences?

wait user im serious wait how did yoy conclude this are you one of the monogamous by nature if so will uou unironically be my boyfriend

I mean yeah I guess there probably are other redflags. I'd say with some people it's obvious they're not monogamous, while with others it's way harder to tell.

I am indeed, and if you lived nearby and we had at least some stuff in common, I probably would.

no
in fact here in the Midwest you just have to not be an obese cow
then every man in the room will have their eyes on you

At the beginning of a relationship the guy will probably not be looking at other women. When time goes by eventually he will and that's just natural. Doesn't mean he's planning to cheat, he's just noticing other women again. You're telling me when you've been long enough in a relationship you eventually don't notice cute new men around you?

work on your inescurities instead.

Women who are obsessed with their physical appearance usually never have anything else to offer.

>want to know if guys like that are out there.

Yes, and damn it you do sound perfect.

nah, I prefer asian eyes. So if you barbied up, it'd be like purposely making yourself as unattractive as possible.

>sweet personality
>he will clutch onto me and think of other girls as peasants

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HAH HAH HAH

Look gal, men have sex drives that dwarf those of women. Read up on accounts of FtM gender transitions. Almost universally, the women remark how much stronger the sex drive is once they start taking male hormones.

If it helps, men have a tendency to be emotionally faithful but physically voracious. We can look at a woman and fuck her without being emotionally committed to her.

My girlfriend is bi and we both agreed we'd stare at a girl's tits if they were out in public.

>I deserve the best
100% this is your problem
if you aren't the best, don't ask for the best
it's just that simple

The problem with this kind of ideology is that you build a pre-determined pedestal for people to fall off of. One thing is respect - another is the perfectly natural human flaw. When someone is upset they might disrespect you without even thinking about it. And at that point, you can either a) work it out with that person and talk to them like a mature adult or b) "replace" them like some immature child who can't handle problems anymore because of being with too many people

you become saturated of people and because of that you become completely and incomprehensibly blind to the fact that people grow.

That said, when you are in that mode, you encounter others who are too. because of that, you self-validate your own stupid ideology that rewards instant gratification and isolation instead of patience and understanding

dont get me wrong, shitty people are shitty, but that you think that choices or reducing people to being "replaceable" or otherwise is healthy, is fucking comical. people are just people, flawed and inherently prone to failure. but how you overcome these facets of life, and how you do it with another, is what a truly good relationship is all about

people are overtly jaded and bitter because they dont have patience, our only true virtue. because of that, people at large represent this shitty mentality, and boom - you have stereotypes about relationships that poison how we think. ever have friends try to pressure you into breaking up with someone? they parrot this shit - oh theyre not good enough, oh they shouldnt do this, oh they shouldnt do that - completely ignorant of how their own shitty pathology leads them to be harmful to each other. true toxicity.