Question for men

Usually when men are asked what their sexual preferences in women are in bed they usually say they want her to be sumbissive. However, whenever I read posts from males boasting about a great sexual experience they had in the past with a woman in this website or others, it's always "she was crazy in bed". So, men, which is it?

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Sex changes throughout the "session". Sometimes your just lucky enough to get with a person who doesn't just lay there picking at their nails.

>Usually when men are asked what their sexual preferences in women are in bed they usually say they want her to be sumbissive.
>Which is it
False premise.

you can be both crazy/freaky and submissive

me personally i like mommy-tier sex

"Submissive" doesn't mean "lie down and don't move". If a girl enjoys getting slapped and having her hair pulled, she is being both submissive and "crazy in bed". Loud screaming is "crazy" without being either submissive or dominant. Basically, to me, "crazy in bed" means that she is really into it, is clearly horny, really wants to get fucked and is willing to try out all kinds of things. Submissive means that I'm in control of what is happening.

probably means she did whatever they wanted or asked. for example they suck your dick like a freak but also let you fuck their face.

Variety is good. For me. That’s the thing; everyone is different. It’s fun sometimes when a girl initiates sex and takes the reigns. Then sometimes is fun to just dominate. Also, sex doesn’t have to be this polar opposite thing, sometimes sex is just two people fucking, super casual. Not to mention, there’s something kind of dominating about a girl who wants to be dominated, like she’s saying “here I’m letting you do this to me because I want it”. Idk. But all said and done, this is a very subjective topic. I think both are the case, depending on the person, and how they fee at the time.

Submissive in the sense the guy has overall control. That doesn't mean the girl does nothing. There's no fun in fucking a sack of flour. This could be pinning her down for some guys while she says dirty shit, or it could be choking, while she holds your arms etc. All are submissive in the sense the guy has control, but at least they require the other person to participate.

Both... I love small rag doll like women that I can toss around and control in bed, some guys love a woman that is aggressive and shows them a hidden passion.

The whole lady on the street, freak in bed concept will go far for most men.

>they want her to be sumbissive

submissive = boring.

If a girl just lays there and has ano ambition to like grab my dick and suck on it without me asking her or do anything without me having to tell her what to do it's just boring.

Also just in terms of positions I always prefer the girl to be on top. Missionary is sweaty and awkward and I hate staring down a girl's asshole during doggy style.

she was crazy submissive in bed, kek

Don‘t sleep with guys who need you to be submissive. Role play is awesome, but you should see it as what it is, a ROLE you PLAY. Meaning that you should be able to switch things up.
Anyways, regardles of gender, everybody like two things when having sex. Feeling desired and like you‘re actually enjoying yourself.

>submissive = boring, let me be the submissive sissy bitch instead

kill yourself, you pathetic shit

I can't take submissive women seriously. Sure, they're good for a fuck but I can never actually respect a girl who lets me degrade her and treat her like shit just so I can get off.

What kind of dirty shit do guys like to hear? I'm always scared I'm going to say something bad and it'll mess up the whole experience for him.

>let me be the submissive sissy bitch

Who are you quoting, there's nothing submissive about a guy who likes it when a girl actively participates in the act of sex instead of being a ragdoll waiting for instructions.

Encouragement

Constantly letting him know he's doing a good job, you're enjoying it, and what to do next.

>So, men, which is it?

Men say all sorts of things about what they think they want, especially those raised on porn. Just Bee Yourself

Sauce: I am one.

The actual answer is that preferences vary from person to person and in different contexts so someone who likes submissive girls one moment will gladly get dominated by a woman who's attractive enough.

If I say I prefer asian women, do you wrongly assume I mean submissive women or do you rightly assume I find their facial aesthetic to be the most pleasing?

>So, men, which is it?
Both, dummy. What, I can't like more than one kind of sex?

>A man who define his ideal woman as submissive

Now, why would you want a weak-willed guy like that as a partner? Some sort of manbitch who can't deal with a bit of competition, so he instinctively seeks out someone who will lay down flat?

You don't actually have to date the most normal guy you can find you know. Try to find the guy who isn't intimidated by women instead. He's probably the better catch.

it's not about submission it's about being enthusiastic

if you're enthusiastic about the sex it'll be a great fuck

Submissive in life, crazy in bed. I don't know ow what's so hard to understand.

My old girlfriend was so attentive to my penis with her mouth. It was so wonderful how she'd kiss and lick and suck my penis and balls and perineum. She would stroke my shaft, wet with her saliva, staring me in the eye with her sexy eyes. She liked me to take her from behind. She loved it when I came and let me cum anywhere, in her mouth, on her face, in her vagina and her bottom, on her skin... She would eat whatever semen was left on her body. Sex with her was so good.

Being submissive and being crazy in bed aren't exclusive. You can be both.

I'd rather assume you're an obese incel faggot who jerks of to 2D traps in his mom's basement. But hey, that's just me. The only asian girls it's normal to find pretty, if you're a white guy, are the koreans who had facial surgery to look like white women. Otherwise you're just fucked in the head; totally unnatural to not prefer your own kind.

As for you OP, what I (and I assume, most men) like in a woman sexualy is feeling like I'm giving her pleasure. Like I'm sending her to exstasy with every thrust. Nothing worse than banging a starfish.

Get a load of this triggered white roastie.

I think its best when the girl seems super into it and visibly enjoys it.
Its boring as fuck when the girl just lays there and does nothing.
But I do see your point...
I dunno, i guess when a guy says he likes a submissive girl, he means he likes the girl to be the submissive role because ex naturally has a male domination role.
Best way I can put it is the guy wants to be the fucker and the girl to be the fucked

>guy wants to be the fucker and girl wants to be fucked
Elaborate plz.

I really like to fuck. I'm selfish and would do as I please if I could.

Being able to be both is key in any good relationship. Submissive when you need to be but dom when you need to be

i want a dominant strong female, but not hardcore

A lot of girls act like blow-up dolls in bed. Human interaction is nice.

Maybe they're two separate demographics, dumbass

In my experience it's just her letting me know I'm fucking her good. Other times she says how her body is all mine to enjoy. In my case the current girl has some fantasies of being taken advantage of so that sometimes comes out. Honestly just start with encouragement and saying you enjoy whatever is happening, how it feels, etc.