I'm pretty lonely and want someone to cuddle me. I can't get a pet because of where I live.
Should I just hook up with random guys on tinder and pretend they actually care about me while they're touching me?
I'm in my late twenties and have never had a relationship and don't have many friends
Bump
The intimacy you desire will not be provided by guys on tinder.
wanna add me on snapchat op?
I'm 23 and love cuddles and just chilling on the bed/couch watching movies.
If you're decently clean, hygine-wise, I'll cuddle you.
From northern IL, reply me for discord if you want.
If you have soft features and you're not a boring introvert and a negative asshole that just pretends to be nice and you're actually of human emotion and keeping me charmed and positive like I will do to you then see you.
I guarantee that if you do this you're gonna end up feeling worse off than you do now.
It's not worth it.
Came here to say this. I know it seems like it's a good idea OP, believe me been there. But it's not going to work. If you're like me, you'll end up feeling dirty and used. They won't actually make you feel less lonely.
I guess there's no solution.
There is a fucking solution, and it's called not being a fucking idiot.
>I'm pretty lonely and want someone to cuddle me. I can't get a pet because of where I live.
Ok so we identify a problem here– you feel lonely. Alright, that's relatable, I'm sure we've all been there in different capacities. Not really sure how having a dog piss and shit over your house will help but it's a distraction at least.
>Should I just hook up with random guys on tinder and pretend they actually care about me while they're touching me?
This is such a fucking stupid idea, you really need to pay attention to the fact that you thought it. Firstly, your problem is that you feel lonely. Casual sex is only going to make that problem worse. "I really want to save money, so should I throw all my money out of a car window every Thursday and pretend I'm putting it into a high-interest savings account?"
>I'm in my late twenties and have never had a relationship and don't have many friends
So like, again, your problem and your proposed solution are two, incredibly different things. You feel lonely because you're lacking in a support network– chances are you've probably neglected that for a long time and need to work slowly and progressively to build this up. That means you need to do more things that involve people and that are outside, and you need to look at your relationships and see if you want to make them stronger– you could be sitting and complaining about how no one likes you while also denying any opportunity that comes along.
There are plenty of people who feel the same way. You can have FWB but for cuddling and normie shit you know? I broke up with a girlfriend because of normie shit and we realised after a while that we kind of just needed each others company more than actually loved each other. She'd sleep on me whenever I went over for boring shit like tea and movies
U fat OP?
Thanks
I wouldn't know how to find someone like that
Either open up to a close friend or if you're willing to go the long slow road a stranger
This has to be a bait thread, there is no way a women can't get a boyfriend.
Based.
No chance with any of my friends because we're not close at all and I get the feeling they're disgusted by me
Well, it happens.
>Well, it happens.
You must be really fat then. Just lose some weight and there will be dozens of men hitting in you.
I'm 168lbs 5'6
Guys only ask for sex
Stop whining, at least you can have sex without paying for it.
I find it extremely hard to believe you won't find a guy on Tinder to be a cuddle buddy as long as you're open and direct about it
>hurr durr guys are all negroid apes who want to fugg
lmao grow up