Whoops

I really wanted to leave on good terms. Am I (blue) the one in the wrong here? I know I'm probably too nice at the end but I didn't mean to piss her off or anything. Oh well lol

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>Wish you werent so vague on things
>Is equally vague

come on nibba

this. communication is lacking

passive aggresive shit
>le im feeling great XD
pathetic, you werent even nice, just fake and reeking of asshurt

Just wanted to give her a taste of her medicine. She was acting like that for a week straight. She kept telling me that she wants to fix herself, and when I asked what she meant she said "idk" communication on her end was terrible for the past week so that's why I decided to stop talking to her.

No. She told me that like 3 other times in the day so I wanted to clarify to her that I'm feeling okay and that she shouldn't worry about anything. I'm kinda glad I pissed her off so she doesn't have to worry anymore.

Be the bigger man, don't be petty

you sound like a beta faggot
man up

You need to be 18 to post here

Bro you text like a bitch...

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In the heat of the moment I worded things badly. I didn't meant to be petty at all. I want nothing but the best for her. I stopped talking to her because she was too vague and boring. It's like she didn't want to tell me she wanted to stop talking to me out of fear that she didn't want to make me sad or something. When I asked her if she wants me to stop talking to her she told me "I had a busy day." That doesn't tell me anything, so I hope you guys could understand my frustration from this perspective.

you should've stopped after "So.. bye"

Sex might solve whatever. Just be a man and say " I want to fuck,"

At least have some constructive criticism for me instead of "man up." How could I improve myself as a person? I'd really like to know, thanks.

I completely agree. Thank you.

Lol, I don't know if that would be the best idea honestly. We talked for a month and we never ended up fucking because she wanted to take things slow, which I was fine with.

Shouldn't have said bye or anything tbqh

You're probably right. I've only had a handful of relationships, I'm very bad at these things as you can tell and I want to get better.

Stop being passive aggressive and trying to drop hints. Stop being so self righteous and hurt without actually talking about your feelings.

Should I apologize or just let it go?

Then go with the flow. It worked for me.

I give you both a -1,000,000 out of 10 for communication.

Someone pls

Clearly bitter and resentful at her breaking-up/rejecting you. Just let it go.

I broke up with her though?

You where the one not ready to say goodbye or give closure . Even at the end you put two dots after bye..

I don't get you guys
It's like reading between the lines is a fucking non-option for you
Damn son. Like no shit you fucked up, she's giving you one liners and all of your replies are fucking novels by comparison

Just fucking move on, stop dragging it out
I hate guys like you. Fuckin' ruin it for the rest of us. Now she's gonna expect every break up to turn into this catty shit.
I legitimately thought blue was the girl in this situation

you’re being passive aggressive at times and the two of you are texting when you should be taking. the girl doesn’t care because fuck her.

Holy shit OP this reads like some sitcom where everything's good and every time the other person is about the leave the room you say something unnecessary and dig yourself a deeper hole. It's like you wanted to call her out and get something out of her but pussied out and started back pedaling every time she didn't respond how you expected.

This
There's a deliberate language here, this "just go away" but then you reply with a wall of text after that.
They probably felt bad for you.

Nigga*

In both the texts and Jow Forums posts, you're passive aggressive, saying things you don't mean, wanting the other to do something for you, morally judgmental, and you avoid responsibility.

The solution is to be curious, patient, kind, only say things you truly mean, do not put moral blame/judgment on someone, and do not try to make someone do what you want.

Can't be bothered reading the thread because I suspect it'll be autism central, but holy fuck do you come across like an ass.

Cringed so hard my face imploded. You're paying my fucking medical bills OP.

My dude, first time posting on Jow Forums, but I have to be honest.
You're extremly insecure in how you try to not get her mad.
There's so much wrong, it's also the reason she's leaving you most likely. Fake being secure till you actually do, to achive this you need to start lifting. You're basically a bigger pussy than she is. Be the prize, be confident.

Go to reddit and read some /TheRedPill/, you're basically the most beta you could get at this point, anything is better than this.

I don't have context so I can't really say who is right or wrong here, but I can tell you now that you didn't handle this right.

If you want a response, don't act dismissive. You're being vague yourself, and you're acting like you don't care what they have to say ("It doesn't matter...") and yet still complain about wanting them to talk?

You can't tell them it doesn't matter and then expect them to give you a proper response.

You both kinda suck at communication dude.

If you want to talk things out, or if you want them to open up and be honest with you, TELL THEM THAT. They aren't a mind reader, and by the looks of it, you're not the most approachable person to have these kind of conversations with.

You need to work on being honest with yourself. If you want them to have an open and honest conversation with you, tell them that.

lol you sound like a woman

just be direct dude

>I'm feeling great
two texts later
>I'm stressed out and tried
my ex (female) used to text like this it drove me fucking crazy

You're gay

>"STOP BEING VAGUE"
>is immediately vague himself
>"I'M FEELING GREAT!"
>immediately admits he isn't great and is actually frustrated
>proceeds to fish for reassurance they she really cares about him after takling down to her
>apologises all the time despite feeling like she's the one in the wrong
>that ellipsis at the end

She's got bigger balls than you do. Stop being such a whiny little faggot

Damn you're a passive aggressive faggot.

whats the context OP? hard to tell anything when we don't know whats up

That double dot at the end shows you that you still live her..

Did I really misspell that word? I have problems of my own, it seems

>Want to end on good terms
>Meanwhile outright state you're glad you pissed her off and wanted to behave childishly to get back at her