Why do you guys think young women tend to be more into "femenine" guys then shift to liking very alpha males as soon as they become adults?
I was a teenager around the time the emos were what the girls were going for. Now you see the same scene stars but with beards and muscle.
Been trying to find a read on it but most of what comes out is people shilling betas.
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It's called maturing and changes in what's 'in'
They're more approachable/less scary, they're also usually prettier since imo women are better looking than men in general. I'm in my early 20s and still like cute guys, it seems like men that have beards are just trying to hide their weak jawline most of the time, still don't like them and probably won't ever like them. Muscle was always nice, like abs and being "firm", being too muscular is pretty gross looking, unnatural
Sure but I still see the younger crowd going for girly looking guys. Just look at the YouTubers they go after.
My situation is that I've been dating this guy since I was around 17 and I met him when I was 13. We've been together for almost 10 years now on and off. But for some years now I've felt that he's too emotional and femenine for me. It seriously turns me off when he starts acting like it and even during sex it happens. Yes I've talked to him about all this numerous times. But I don't want him to change to please me but because he's actually maturing and acting his age. He's 3 years older than me so he's almost 30. Feels like a waste throwing a 9 year relationship away.
>The problem is that I have buyer's remorse about my dating
Oh, boy. Here we go.
If every cock tastes the same that's probably a bad thing.
how is he too emotional?
>young women tend to be more into "femenine" guys
That's just a cope by ugly/old guys.
I'm 20 and the same.
Bruh their taste changes depending on the time of the month. 100% their taste can change in a few years.
>M26
>5ft10
>overall small frame despite doing sports since 16
>little bodyhair
>put on muscle slowly
>people tell me I look younger then I am
All that didn't even make me realize I was low test, what made me realize was who's attention I seem to draw. Masculine gays, gay asians, girls around 16-18, women over 45, "high test women". Being a low test male sucks
Taking birth control.
Birth control pills will drastically change the kind of guy a woman is attracted to. She'll prefer men with some feminine features and this attraction will suddenly stop when she ceases the pills.
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it's really amazing how a few cm's can drastically change your attractiveness
He cries about everything. He gets mad if he cries about something like a game or a movie and I don't. Makes a big deal out of petty situations. Still depends on everyone around him even though he moved out.
Personally around the age, between 14-18, I was more attracted to feminine guy. Because they felt non threatening. This is a opinion shared among my girlfriends, but not everyone of course, but a majority.
But later on in life, my taste matured. Now I'm really only interested in more manly men, I don't mean like a cave men. But I feel men who constantly think with their emotions instead of logic thinking, is a huge turn off. I already am a woman, I'm not interested in dating another one.
Not saying a man can't be sentimental, a man who is willing to open up and be vulnerable with you is a privilege and can't be exchanged for anything in this world.
But a man who doesn't have a backbone, who will let other always walk over him, never have an opinion of his own and will cry at the most mundane shit is exhausting to deal with.
Though I tend to avoid men with beards, unless it actually taken care of, by trimming. Otherwise men with beards kinda give of the signal of being unhygienic or a religious fanatic, both I will not touche with a ten-foot pole.
Though muscle is always A++++
I know I mentioned looks in another post but I really meant personality wise. I'm just wondering if he's going to stay the way he was when he was 20 which has been the case for the last 5+ years.
Thanks I completely agree with everything you said and I feel it's the same thing that has happened to me. I don't know if a guy can change like that.
He does always tend to put emotions over logic and he doesn't know how to deal with many situations when it's happening to a person other than him. It feels like a waste to end such a long relationship but I feel like I've waited a long time now for him to mature. I'm also afraid I won't be able to find anyone else since I haven't dated in a decade. It sucks but I'm forcing myself to be okay with it at this point.
I heard some men actually mature at 35-40, or when they have their first kid. So dunno, wait a couple of years if you can stand it and see if he changes? If not then, well, you have my condolences.
Congratz you are with a basedboy
Now that your looks are deteoriating, you better find someone more suitable, because that guy will never change.
Unless some bad trauma happens in his life.
Comes from a male. I was growing up in shitty family with problems, and i have trust issues, oftentimes im cold and distant and my empathy levels are almost non existant. So im not best matetial for any relationship. But at least im not a bitch like you described
It's okay if a guy gets emotional. Hell, I teared up when I saw that short from Pixar at the beginning of Incredibles 2, but that's mostly just because I missed my mother.
It's bordering fuckboy territory if you try to force your emotional state on others. Sounds to me like he's overly sanctimonious. At best, it's obnoxious. At worst, it's manipulation.
Yes please don't misunderstand I want someone apathetic. I don't care if he cries with movies. But he would say that he didn't feel connected with me if I also didn't cry! He even used this as a reason one time he broke up with me.
Trust me, I'm not trying to misinterpreted.
I'd say break it off. He seems like he's trying to find reasons to leave while you're trying to find someone to stay. You can find someone who respects your volition, especially if he's broken up with you before.
Also, it's not a waste. Take what you've learned. You can't get time back, but you'll be more efficient at what you're looking for. Take it from someone who's happily married for 8 years after a relationship that went nowhere for 6.