My daughter is a slut

This is off-topic.

This will result in her fucking a drug dealer who will get her a smart phone.

That’ll piss her off

How bout fucking chill? She's gonna do whatever the fuck she wants. Push too much, and she'll push back. End up having a kid doing porn

Stop being a jealous woman-hating sperg, her pussy isn't yours and there's no such thing as a "slut" in negative terms because men will fuck and rape women no matter what they wear.

Putting up pics of yoga pants on instagram is not the same as blowing the entire badminton team. Calm down. It's natural for kids and safe as long as they're not putting up or sharing nudes.

thanks for the fap, user

You realistically can't stop her, and even if you do, you'll just push her further away from you and out your influence and into rebellious behaviour. I think the best thing to do is talk to her about how she needs to consider that the way she presents herself to the world affects how people perceive her, and to always think about the long term consequences of what she does. Tell her about how anything on the Internet is on there forever and potentially for anyone to see. Make it clear that you're not angry or trying to control her, because otherwise she'll see it as justification and motivation to do exactly the opposite of what you want. It's mainly tricky like this because she's a. Probably getting a lot of signals from peers and media that it's perfectly acceptable behaviour and b. Because you can't actually control what a teenager does without causing severe hardships to your relationship with them (which is worth doing sometimes by the way). You're just a father trying to help her navigate the world safely. Best of luck OP.

I absolutely cannot stress this enough. My best friend eloped right out of high school and is now dropped out of college with a failed marriage and a kid.

Do not, do NOT, push this over. The hardest part about raising teens is learning when to throw them a floatie and when to let them sink or swim on their own. That might not be the best analogy, but saving her when she doesn't want to be saved can have consequences far worse than fucking instagram.

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How do you unroastify someone? My younger sister (13) is heading down that same road...

She's always on her phone
Always on Instagram or Youtube
Watches literal garbage on both sites
Texts her friends and calls them

And she's developed a ghetto personality and tone...

How????

Boy she is going to ride that BBC hard.

The problem is that society can and will vilify you for trying to do your job as a father. Whatever consequences she might face, she won't face them until years down the road and she has an entire civilization that exists purely to keep her slutty actions going at high speed. No matter how you try to stop it, there's no possible way she will be able to comprehend the damage she faces years and years down the line until it happens, at which point she will likely still be mostly protected from it and just coast as long as she can.

This is why I never want to have a daughter, stuff like this is just inevitable.

She will seek out older men and get used as their Cum dump by them. All because you failed raising her properly.

Having a female child in this day and age is suicide. If I’m getting married I’m either having a boy or an abortion, or she can be a single mother, lol.

sexuality in modern times has a certain public characteristic to it that I find displeasing.
honestly I don't believe she needs a punitive reaction from you nor punishment, it's a kid in her puberty and kids are always horny bags of hormones. just have a talk to her with your wife about how she needs to be more careful about where she uploads such kinds of photos. the internet is not as safe, secure and welcoming as it seems, and she deserves to learn that the good way.

uhhh what scares about having a children that experiences sexuality for the first time? every parent deals or dealed with that. with that attitude, stick to neutered pets

It should be a general rule to never give teens phones or net.

So wait, this was on Jow Forums?

What’s bothering you, her uploading pics or her being someone who uploads such pics? If it’s the latter, confiscation or punishment won’t do much..

So lets say you finds out your young daughter is acting out in sexual ways inappropriate for her age. Instead of using this as an opportunity to have an open discussion with your daughter about sex and integrity you call her a slut. Instead of sitting down and helping her sort through the incredible wave of hormones she's feeling and trying to rectify her true values with the pressure and influence she receives from her friends and social media you go to Jow Forums to stir up an echo chamber with a bunch of turbo-virgins. Instead of actually teaching her something about her body and how the world will treat her based on her presentation you insult her mother's parenting, make no constructive effort to do any of the guiding or counseling that comes with being a father and punish her. In the future she'll make sure to avoid speaking with you about anything and everything of importance, grow to resent you and eventually hook up with a piece of shit exactly like you who will burn her nipples and face fuck her while she wears a toilet seat around her neck because her shit-for-brains dad raised her to associate all of her sexual urges and identities with punishment, fear and shame.

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your daughter's insta please, so we can assess the situation.

befriend all her friends on instabook or whatever and post pictures of yourself in her yoga pants mimicking her poses

Good post tbf

how about you stop being an insecure incel loser

>>>/LGBT/

I'm curious what your argument against having honest, open conversations with your children about their sexuality is.

Either she rides you or she rides every nigger on the street. Your choice user

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Wholesome....
I wish my parents were this nice to me.

Her being slutty is less a problem than her dad posting a pic of her on Jow Forums

Thank you for being a voice of reason user ;;
t. femanon

Marry her off, she's doing your job for you

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ive never got why chicks do this. every time i get on snapchat or instagram i see girls half naked in yoga pants sports bra or just wearing no bra in see through clothes

i dont get it are they just trying to get fucked or what? it may seem weird but be more leniant not on letting her be a slut but just try and be chill and see what happens before you crack down hard as fuck because girls are stupid. my parents were always chill with letting me drink a little bit in my room or smoke some weed and even do smaller drugs and i ended up alright. better than most my peers so far

the more you do it the more shes going to want to be a slut probably. ask her why shes doing it and see if you can get around religious or events or something that are good. she's probably pissed off at some douchebag ex or something she'd probably do way better for herself if she found a nice guy instead of a douche. hurry up it wont be long until shes half naked at raves and festivals

then college after won't be fun either.

>ive never got why chicks do this.
Attention and validation. I believe at a young age they don't 100% understand the moral implications. They don't realize the predatory nature of the men that follow their pictures... It's one thing to send pictures to someone you're in a long-term committed relationship, but posting provocative pictures for everyone to see, that's a problem.

Perhaps OP's daughter is not receiving enough validation from both parents and this is making her act up.

My son is a retard who collects pictures from underage girls. The cops came and made him delete the CP, but he somehow managed to get Google to recover the files. He’s nearly always at his grandpa’s house since I’ve tried to exercise any parental control over his porn. Grandpa refuses to cooperate in preventing access to cp. I feel your pain. Haven’t the faintest idea what to do but wait for a knock on my door from a pissed off dad with a shotgun.

god i wish my daughter got blacked

let me at her, she won't ever seek male attention again

Wow

>ive never got why chicks do this

have you never see a picture of a dude flexing for the cameras either?

>The cops came and made him delete the CP,

uh

cops do more than just make you delete your CP if it's actual CP, cool story bro

Your son would be in jail if it was actually CP.

Just think. One day in the future after she’s had her fill of random cock, she will meet a nice guy who has no idea about her slut hole past. She will lie about her past, he’ll believe her, and she will get her way.

This is a woman’s world that we live in. They can get whatever they want..

>ive never got why chicks do this. every time i get on snapchat or instagram i see girls half naked in yoga pants sports bra or just wearing no bra in see through clothes

The answer is multi-layered but relatively simple. Children don't know who they are. They don't know what their value system is. They don't know what it takes to be a productive, well-adjusted person and they don't understand the long term consequences of their decisions. They do, however, know that they want approval. Incidentally, we are now living in a society that does not demand intelligence, empathy or any kind of integrity for its approval. A nice body will suffice.

So, as a result of this constant barrage of sexual soliciting children are programmed at an early age to associate their value as people with their sexual value. A child posts a proactive picture online and she doesn't understand the long term implications, who may be looking at the picture or what the values of such an act may imply; all she knows is that people like her. All she knows is that with every like and follow and word of affirmation from friends and strangers comes a rush of endorphins from her pleasure center that affirms in the most rudimentary way possible that she has value.

As I said, she doesn't understand the implication of this value. All she understands is that it is there and that she tapped into an effortless, immediate source of validation. When this process is not addressed in childhood these people grow up into adults who have only ever known one way to establish themselves as people of value; sex.

and then people call me a judgemental prick because I don’t want to gf a girl who was promiscuous

I don’t know. I didn’t see it. Something about dirty pictures from girls at school. But the cop made him delete it and he recovered it with help from Google, he told me. I can’t stop him because grandpa buys him electronics and let’s him do whatever he wants. He hasn’t stayed the night at home in a month.

Maybe get a divorce and never se your daughter again if you can’t handle the fact that she’s growing up and wanting to be full of herself. For fuck sake it’s 2018 ya prick, pipe down and leave her be. Also she might find power in showing this side of her. If you can’t treat women and girls right when you start fucking don’t reproduce at all because you’ll end up bei a terrible father figure to a daughter.

>Also she might find power in showing this side of her.
What fucking power? Power is measured in three ways; amperage, horsepower, and distance advanced in 24hrs of combat. Slooting it up on instagram generates none of these.

i mean you ask Jow Forums how to parent your 13 year old. this one is your fault, dad.

>Something about dirty pictures from girls at school

Who said that?

>. But the cop made him delete it and he recovered it with help from Google, he told me

bullshit, again if this is actual CP a cop won't just wave his finger at your and make you delete the pics from your phone's folder

>bullshit, again if this is actual CP a cop won't just wave his finger at your and make you delete the pics from your phone's folder
The cops are not going to drag some kid out of class and slam him with sexual predator status for the rest of his life over nudes from his classmates even if they are underage on the first offense. Come back to reality.

This can and does happen; happened at my high school in 2010. Dude had to register and everything

I don't know you but I highly suspect that people call you a judgmental prick for reasons that go just beyond your preference in women. I've met very few guys who were vocal against dating women that displayed any sexually compulsive behavior that showed any empathy at all or chose not to use their value system as a weapon to demean and belittle other people.

There's something you need to understand about psychology; it doesn't make much sense and is often counterintuitive. Firstly, studies have proven that the same endorphins that are released in our brain when we eat sugar, have sex or do something enjoyable is released when we receive likes on social media. It is a source of pleasure and pleasure is a source of serotonin. Serotonin, as we all know, is the corner stone of addiction. Now, having your pictures liked on instagram may not be affirming to you but you have to remember that not everyone is raised with identical value systems. To children that were raised in chaotic and/or oppressive households that made them feel powerless something as little as getting a bunch of followers on Instagram is MASSIVELY affirming. Children that feel out of control or not in ownership of their bodies and sexuality through some kind of outside chaotic influence, whether it be abuse, early sexualization or overly punitive parents who refuse to speak about it, they over compensate for this chaos by creating sexualized environments they CAN control. For some bizarre reasons being able to reenact the traumas of our past gives us a sense of control that we didn't feel we had when the traumas occurred. Your perspective is the equivalent to asking why a blind person doesn't love movies. How could they possibly understand a sensation they were never exposed to? How could a person who was never taught to value themselves beyond their physical form possibly understand how to develop healthy sexual identities?

>The cops are not going to drag some kid out of class and slam him with sexual predator status for the rest of his life over nudes from his classmates even if they are underage on the first offense.
Bull fucking shit. This happens literally all the time. They've even charged young girls with producing child pornography for posting nudes on the internet. Use some fucking Google, kid. You have no clue what you're talking about.

I could say the same to you and dredge up just as many, probably more cases where the judge threw out said charges because it'd fuck them up for life.

Do you live in Brazil or something?

The United States, where the role of the Judge is to interpret the law and apply it in the most effective manner for the benefit of society, not apply it verbatim sans context.

Yes, I'm sure judges have thrown out tons of cases. That has nothing to do with the fact that what you said was patently false. Keep them goalposts right where they are, user.

Just spend quality time with her and make her feel loved. Build trust and than tell her you don’t like her doing that with her body.
The other options might salve the problem for a moment but she’ll just be a bigger slut later.

>Yes, I'm sure judges have thrown out tons of cases. That has nothing to do with the fact that what you said was patently false.
Why are you contradicting yourself? If Judges are throwing out the charges based on the circumstances then what I said is accurate. Are they or are they not?

>the Judge

So, was it The Judge or some random policeman who decided to just delete the pictures without any arrests? Your story is falling apart.

I'm not American, but typically in most legal systems you need to get arrested by the police before showing up in court in front of a judge for the due process to determine whether you're guilty or not or have the case dismissed or what.

What fucking story? Are we talking about on a national scale or did focus switch to some specific incident when I wasn't looking?
>I'm going to split hairs like a retard
Cop, judge, it's all the same justice system. Doesn't matter.

>Why are you contradicting yourself?
You made the claim that cops are not going to drag some kid out of class and slam him with sexual predator status for the rest of his life over nudes from his classmate. That claim was false. Police do arrest teenagers for producing and distributing child pornography and some of them are found guilty of sex crimes.

Next, when you were confronted with the fact your statement was false you moved the goalposts back and claimed "Well even if does happen the judge still throws out a bunch of those cases." Yes, cases of all sorts get thrown out all the time for a myriad of reasons but this is unrelated to the fact that a lot of cases do get prosecuted, an outcome that you previously stated did not happen.

That's the same fucking thing. You aren't even trying to be right, you're just trying to win an argument for the sake of winning an argument.

If she lives under your roof, you get control over that little bitch and take her phone off her and then tell her not to be a classless slut.

Up to a certain point, yes. When they start getting old their power fades quickly.

You're not making any sense.

You made a claim that false. You said something that wasn't true. I'm so perplexed how you're not understanding this concept.

It's. The. Same. Fucking. Thing. Cop throws it out, judge throws it out, still got thrown out. Same shit. Doesn't matter.

>What fucking story? Are we talking about on a national scale or did focus switch to some specific incident when I wasn't looking?

>Something about dirty pictures from girls at school. But the cop made him delete it and he recovered it with help from Google, he told me. I can’t stop him because grandpa buys him electronics and let’s him do whatever he wants.

>My son is a retard who collects pictures from underage girls. The cops came and made him delete the CP, but he somehow managed to get Google to recover the files

Try to keep up

You claimed that teenagers weren't being arrested and charged with sex crimes. That claim was false. What do some cases being thrown out have to do with the fact that the thing you said wasn't true?

You are only correct if you substitute convicted with charged, as you just did.
I'm done here.

Teenagers do get convicted of sex crimes for sharing nude pictures. It happens all the time. Your statement is still false. Are you genuinely this retarded or do you just have some incredibly strong reaction to being wrong?

You're claiming that the opposite never happens, which is also completely fucking false.

>You're claiming that the opposite never happens
This statement is false as well. I never said that. I've said several times that cases getting thrown out all the time. Seriously, dude, is english not your first language. Are you brain damaged or something?

Gimme sauce..

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How about you talk about this calmly with you daughter? No screaming and fighting, just mention this and give her a lecture about the dangers of the internet. I also suggest little bit of guilt-tripping to make herself feel bad about it. My parents used to do this and I never end up whoring myself.

Holy shit some people here have no idea what parenting is about. What good would taking away her phone do ? Kids are not dogs ffs, you have to make her understand why it's bad to make these photos and be percieved as slut, not take away means to do photos. What the fuck

Mods on other boards have been using us as the new or when a request for personal advice comes up. It's actually kind of cool.

Also the original thread was

Fuck her. She a slut is ok.

Me byebye you fun fucky

top lel

Horrible post. Get off this board, you're no good at giving any kind of advice.

damn dis nigga

Damn she’s flat as shit

slap her

let her do it. she is old enough to make her own choices