I lost my virginity and I feel empty inside. I don't know if it's society makes such a big deal of it or what...

I lost my virginity and I feel empty inside. I don't know if it's society makes such a big deal of it or what, but it just didn't feel special(my dick didn't even feel much, just her thighs grinding against mine.) but I also feel like I've lost a part if me. Not sure what to think, pls help Jow Forums.

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Wow, it's almost like losing your virginity changes absolutely nothing.

What were the circumstances? Were you in a relationship with the girl? Do you have any romantic feelings for her? Do you find her physically attractive?

Youll be fine and youll live the first time wont be the best and you feel this way because u have some type of high expectation towards it

Move on, beat better punani and get skilled to at what u do! Or find a skilled girl on the punani beating

>Not sure what to think
Become gay?

To be a little more clear, what do you think is missing?
I mean I haven't touched a cooch, and I'm don't see the significance of losing one's virginity, but I do understand what virginity symbolically represents.

You’re still a virgin. To me, losing your virginity is finding your deep-seated lust and allowing it to ravage your partner. Find someone you like next time I guess?

The first time is just like that.

You've learned the secret lad, sex is not that great in a vacuum and is more or less a tool to put down social undesirables

First times always suck. Always.
Society memes up virginity super hard, you fell for the meme.

this, once you realize what sex actually is its kinda a disappointment from the beliefs you had prior to experiencing it

well was she special to you or was she just some girl who "let you smash" or whatever?

oh bullshit, my first time was great

I don't really get this mentality, my first time was great. I can see why some people might not have a great time, but to say it's a fact written in stone is kinda a silly generalization.

Anyway, OP, try not to worry about it. Sex as we know it is largely overblown. When you put something like that on a pedestal and have it in your face constantly it really puts the pressure on.

Take it as a lesson in the future -- make sure it's something you really want to do before you do it, and assess WHY you want to do it. Also, it's one of those things that gets better the more you practice and the more you communicate with your partner. You're still you, you haven't lost anything and you haven't fundamentally changed as a person.

Honestly, if you peel away all of the societal pressure it's really no different than any other pin in your life -- losing your baby teeth, first time eating a big steak, first time riding a bike, first time going to a waterpark...these are things some of us remember, yeah, but in the long run they don't really mean anything or modify who we are as people.

I'm not saying everyones first time will suck, rather that actual sex is much different (in most cases) to what you thought it would be like prior to experiencing it

>I'm not saying everyones first time will suck
>First times always suck. Always.

dude lol

Where did I say that it always sucks? All I said that often the experience isn't what you expect, doesn't mean its for the better or worse, just different. Did you accurately predict what sex would be like when you first lost your virginity? Maybe try reading and comprehending a post properly first before posting some ignorant comment

Too much porn and fapping, you lost the feeling in your dick, you need a break from that shit

I obviously wasn't replying to you then, ya dork. I was also quoting

>implying I was meant to read your mind that you didn't mean to quote me over this taiwanese basket weaving forum

>what is context clues lol

First time is awkward. It felt good and I do wanna do it again. Only problem is I just can't find the motivation or money to even waste on stupid ass women.