How do I get pussy? I'm 20 years old, employed, full-time student, I'm almost out of debt, I workout...

How do I get pussy? I'm 20 years old, employed, full-time student, I'm almost out of debt, I workout, write and produce music, what else do I have to do to get pussy?

Do I just have an unattractive personality or something?

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Get a part time job and see if someone darable works there

Do you even approach girls

How do you do that?

Tinder.

get laid you sexless virgin incel loser lol

Do you use Tinder? My reasoning for not using it was to minimize STD risk

Uh, you walk up to them, have some small talk, throw in some teasing perhaps compliments to show you're not here to be just a friend and then you ask for their number

Teasing is something I haven't tried, compliments haven't worked yet. How would I go about teasing properly?

The mentality you approach this is pretty important to do it right. I would say, first, tease a girl out of self amusement, to make yourself laugh. Second, don't give a fuck how she responds to it, otherwise you will end up not doing anything and filter yourself into silence because you keep questioning everything you want to say. Teasing is entirely dependent on the moment and your creativity man. One time we had PE class and we were sitting there bored and one of the girls said "This is boring, I want to get changed and get out here fast" and then I said "If you're in a hurry then just change.. here" and then we laughed and that's like an example of teasing. See you can't memorize this shit because it's very individualized. Approach it in a way that you are trying to make yourself laugh.

As a side note, compliments only work on girls who are already into you most of the time. So if you do want to drop a compliment when she's just neutral and not sure about you yet, make it genuine and not superficial, not just about her appearance. Something that she clearly put effort into.

As another side note I want to say that verbal game is great and all but confidently touching a girl at the right moment will always be leagues ahead when it comes to creating sexual desire.

I don't see how this could work out. What do you talk about with strangers on the street?

The money stuff isn't important and they way you write it isn't positive anyway (debt, having to work while trying to study) so forget about that.

The rest of the stuff you do isn't really important either. I mean you produce music, if someone casually finds out about it they might think it's neat and like you slightly more, but it's not a huge factor. What actually matters is the time you spend going out and interacting with other people either as a group (like you would have as a kid making friends) or in any kind of chill normal way.

>I want pussy
>But I am afraid of STDs so I don't want pussy
You aren't making any sense.

okay so I'm like a notch above OP and am confident speaking and what not, but this physicality stuff eludes me.

Can you give some insight into when should I touch the dame and where ?

SAME problem but I’m 25 and I have a good paying job and my own home and there’s nothing I want more than to just meet a girl and finally have a good time.... been on tinder for some years. Honestly, and all it’s accomplished is heavy depression and a loss of confidence since swiping everyone only bares me one or two very obese (200 lbs +), not cute girls when I actually would honestly give 85% of my tinder feed a chance. Since I get no matches I’m kind of forced to assume it’s my looks. Andy advice for me?

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No I talk to people from University. People in my lectures. Strangers at events.

Your achievements do not matter to woman. I have seen broke retards hanging out with rich girls. You have to act proactively.

Are you the autistic guy who was posting a profile full of selfies/mirror pics and the cringiest chat up lines?

Start slow and gage her response. She can either be neutral, receptive or rejecting you when you touch her and based on that reaction you proceed. You could be talking to a girl and when she says something funny you laugh and touch her shoulder. If you are on a first date and you haven't broken the touch barrier yet, you can just go straight in for the hug and when you start walking somewhere you can casually place your hand on her lower back for a few seconds. Start with something that isn't too provocative and when you at least get a neutral response (which is basically her not reacting at all to your touch in any way) that's already a green light. Escalate from there. A receptive response is when she smiles when you touch her and maybe even touches you back. If she shows you that she didn't like that you just btfo and should probably focus on a different girl. No need to ever waste your time on an unreceptive girl.

Now I resent not talking to people while I was in uni. I've tried to chat with coworkers but they seem uninterested. What kind of events are you attending? I literally just sit in my room after work.

Since you're a student, try joining some clubs on campus. If there's a club for something you're passionate about there's bound to be some women there who are into that too. If all else fails, try going to Zumba or some other active thing. Not all, but a fair number of girls there are hoping for someone to notice them.

Just be yourself, be nice and look for someone you would like to hang out with.

Romance may or may not happen, but if a girl likes you as a person, I can guarantee the *least* that will happen is she'll introduce you to single friends.

Good luck buddy, and have fun!

You shouldn't ask me what events I attend, you should ask yourself what you are into because when you do the things you like and meet people that like the same thing you will not even have to pretend to like them, trying to get them to like you. The social interactions will just flow more easily. Personally, I just look at the flyers all around campus and go to whatever event/club that mildly looks interesting. Sometimes with friends, sometimes alone. Just chat people up and when people ask you if you are alone you can just say "yeah none of my friends wanted to go but i really wanted to see this".

You ever made friends with dudes? Same process.
You meet them any which way. Some will hate you, some will think you're alright, some will like you, some will want to bone. It's an odds game.

Increase the odds by being socially involved in places and activities that you enjoy.

dog is that you?

Another user but thanks this info is gold

It's always the personality
Almost always, anyway. Probably 95% of the time

Okay, so my social activity is ultimately what makes me the most attractive. What is sexy about that?

I don't fucking know anymore man.

So test her through touch, got it.

B. My nibba, lighten up a little and don't focus on tinder so much. That place is shallow as hell.

Definitely not, this guy is clearly willing to accept that he needs to change himself a little. Bundy wasn't.

> Okay, so my social activity is ultimately what makes me the most attractive. What is sexy about that?

People mostly like those that they share a bond with, emotional connection, familiarity, friendliness etc. In contrast they are more cold towards strangers. I think this is being human 101, but sometimes people on Jow Forums seem like they grew up in a cage.

Op look up book of pook
You are in good spot still save yourself

How do emotional connections, familiarity, and friendliness translate into sex though? Wouldn't it be seen as crass or deceptive to try to fuck after establishing such a connection?

Got it, I'm a catch and I need to prioritize myself over some pursuit of ass. But I gotta admit it's lonely