>be me sitting with my friends
>we talk and laugh as usual
>this one guy shows up who knows a few of my friends
>i fucking hate his type
>they start talking about some story they shared
>they talk and i keep quite cause i didn't know how to chime in
>he targets me and says "why are you so quite user?"
>manage to say something at last
>stay quite again
>"people who are quite creep me out"
>say "is it wrong to be quite?"
>conversation goes on for a bit, i say a few things then leave early
I knew he was the type to bother me if don't say anything for a while.
How do i deal with this cunt? I fucking hate people like him, i feel like if he ever starts talking to me like that again i'll sperg out and make him my enemy, but i don't want to create enemies.
How do i neutralize situations like this and make this cunt leave me the fuck alone?
Why are you so quite user?
You're just angry because you're embarrassed. Calm down. It's as awkward for them dealing with you as it is for you dealing with them. Seriously.
It unironically bothers people when you sit there and just watch them converse without participating. It's like you're just openly eavesdropping.
Seriously, make some sounds next time. "Hmm" or "That sucks" or "Haha, what a story". How hard is that?
Also, you have to be at least 18 to post here.
Huh. Mhm. What a shit reply. Mh. Ahhh. You really are retarded. Uhuhuh ohhh I came.
Wtf why is being silent bad. Also eavesdropping? Really?
Mhm. Aha. Ooohh.
Well i talk normally like that with my other friends, i interact with them, they know me. It's just this one guy who got bothered by me being silent that one time.
Also, what's there about my post that makes you think i'm underage?
I think you may mean "quiet," not "quite."
Quiet*
I'm not saying interact. Just go through the motions. It's really rude to just fucking stand there and gawk while other people are having a conversation.
Why is it rude? friends of friends some times join in and just sit around without saying anything. It never bothers me.
Why would you be bothered by someone minding their own business?
>someone minding their own business
You weren't doing that though. You were sitting with the group and probably watching the conversation without contributing to it. That's not minding your own business, that's being weird.
Or worse, sitting in the group and acting like you're not part of it. That's also quite rude; you'd basically be snubbing the guy who's trying to talk to your group.
Social interaction is mandatory. Get used to it. It gets harder once you're an adult.
>Uhuhuh ohhh I came
user
Easy with the reddit spacing there, boomer.
>That's not minding your own business, that's being weird
You might consider that weird, but most people don't mind it actually.
>You might consider that weird, but most people don't mind it actually.
Apparently enough people dislike it that the reactions to it are causing OP social anxiety and making him want to harm people. I think the results of his faux pas speak for themselves.
I bet he doesn't look people in the eye when he speaks to them either.
I never said i was gonna harm people
Also
>I bet he doesn't look people in the eye when he speaks to them either.
I think you're projecting here
You think anyone follows that rule. 18 years. I’m sure kids are here. Hell, one if you anons in this thread might be a kid.
OP is a kid.
I'm not a kid just because you want me to be
You're literally underage. Fuck off back to the middle/high school lunch table where your story clearly originated.
I'm in a fucking university you absolute retard
What, a university hospital psych ward? I'd believe that, you probably started self-harming after your spaghetti leaked all over the lunch room floor.
Mentally you seem young. Now that that’s settled let’s try to help the poor guy.
He's already been helped. He just keeps insisting that acting like an autist during his lunch hour is normal, and the other guy was a big mean bully for being uncomfortable around him.
>you probably started self-harming after your spaghetti leaked all over the lunch room floor.
Man you sure love to project all your life problems on others don't you
Fuck you. Fuck off. Mod better ban this guy.
We now know that OP's one takeaway from the high school psychology class he took in the 10th grade (this spring) was to say "projecting" instead of "no u" because it sounds better.
>project all your life problems on others
The spaghetti is literally POURING out of your pockets just here. I can only imagine what you are like in person.
>be me sitting with my friends
Found your problem.
Why are normies so afraid of silence?
Was this always a thing? In older movies they aren't talking non-stop with quips every second but in new movies they are, I wonder if our culture changed or was it always this way?
I feel like you'll be considered quiet soon if you're not an over the top retard like modern youtubers, that's the future of normies
>Why are normies so afraid of silence?
Spotted the autist.
The problem isn't silence. The problem is taking up the position of being a conversation participant (i.e., watching and listening) without participating in any way (including nonverbal participation).
If you're going to be part of the conversation, you need to participate. If you don't want to be part, go away. Trying to do both at the same time is eavesdropperish and quite rude. That you're either incapable of understanding this or unwilling to accommodate how others behave in order to make them feel welcome is why you're getting called underage; it's extremely childish, and is the type of behavior that will get in the way when you start college and try to have a career.