Living with family friends in another country for a few more weeks. Feel a lot of sexual tension between me and their son, but he’s an introvert. I’ve tried subtle things (he sees me in a tshirt and underwear evernight) and he seems interested but think he’s abit too much of a pussy to make a move. If you were in his situation, how would you like to come on to by a girl. I don’t care if it sounds like it’s from a bad porno, it’s been 2 years since I’ve been laid and really like this guy. If I don’t have sex in the next 2.5 weeks I’ll be disappointed with myself.
Living with family friends in another country for a few more weeks...
1. Watch a movie with him after dinner (and after you've changed into your underwear obv.)
2. Rub his arm or thigh
3. ???
4. Fug him
what are the ages here?
I’m 21, he’s 23. I know we are old. He’s a film geek, very tall 6’5, maybe abit insecure. Hasn’t had a relationship. I used to work as a model and still do the odd job. Worried that’s why he hasn’t made a move. I had my high school education at home due to anxiety so my social skills are stunted. We are both as socially retarded as each other.
Create a situation where you "accidentally" touch him. Then take it from there.
How do I get a bitch to leave me alone? I fucked her good, and now she won't stop messaging me and asking me 20 Question shit like what my favorite color is and shit like that. I'm a fucking basement dweller and not even Chad. I would rather her hate me than anything. They ignore me till I put it in, and then they just won't fuck off.
Girl, you are a 'girl' and must be at least above average attractive if you're working as a model. As a guy i wouldn't give a shit what you're working, what matters is your looks desu and our chemistry.
I'm an introvert too and in those situations, i would possibly even not approach as a guy, but jerk off with that romantic feeling in my chest. That's probably what will happen if you don't make a move.
I'd recommend to be blunt. You're two attractive oddballs that have (almost) found each other. He probably dreams of you more than you dream of him. There's always the possiblity of awkwardness, i don't know you/him. But there's no way around it, just be blunt, there's no magic trick that gets you around that.
Well well well my son. The thing about women is the more you avoid her the more she is going to cling to you. Women are attracted to people that are not interested in them. It’s fucking weird but my friends do it constantly. But yeah, sex for a girl is a lot different. You’re letting somebody inside your body. But yeah, cut that shit out now before she gets super attached. The more honest you are now the less angry she will get.
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Well im sure that the boy is too much of a sissy to ask, id reccomend asking him. But you should choose ur own way how u gonna do it.
>the more you avoid her the more she is going to cling to you
Wrong. Ive been doing this all my life in every friendship state with a girl and it never works they just ignore and move on.
Unless you look like a model.
Or unless she is crazy, you never know
How would you like a women to come onto you sexually user?
The majority of my friends fall for it and so do I to an extent. Maybe it has to be a atleast average or slightly above average looking girl. One that is used to guys coming on to them all the time. No matter how attractive somebody is I don’t think I’d ever go for somebody that approached me. It has to stem from friendship. I guess the girl thinks, why hasn’t he hit on me, then it makes them insecure and more interested in you I guess.
This. If he's a pussy and you're attractive he'll never make the first move. I'd bet a hundred bucks that he goes back to his room and jerks off thinking about you though.
Depending on how introverted we're talking about you might have to start with the physical stuff. Sometimes words don't work at all. If the guy is inexperience he won't know how to respond, I've had girls directly tell me they liked me and wanted me but because I didn't know to deal with it they left feeling hurt and rejected (and now I'm a 27yo khv lol). Be as direct as possible and take the lead, grab his crotch and unzip that dick. Again he might not know what to do so you'll have to stay in charge.
Or if he's not as bad as me it might be unecessary. Who knows.
I think he does. I’ve made a game out of flashing my underwear at him when wearing a dress and it makes him so flustered. It’s a lot of fun teasing him but all I’ve gotten back so far is him not wearing underwear under his football shorts around me. Full wang outline. Should I take that as a hint? I want something out of this game already.
just ask him if he wants to fuck, god damn.
>Should I take that as a hint?
Yes. Just jump on that dick already. If you're attractive there's no way he doesn't want you, male sexuality doens't work that way.
Showing yourself to him in a tshirt and underwear is not a subtle hint. That's maybe someone who has a different standard about what's appropriate to wear, maybe teasing or trying to be provocative, but what it isn't is an invitation for him to say or do anything sexual.
You are a guest in his home. Even if he has only a basic idea of social behavior, he probably feels the obligation to make sure you are comfortable. Even if he weren't shy, it's unlikely he would risk making an advance on you that might be unwelcome and thus make the rest of your time staying there uncomfortable.
You need to make it clear that it's something you want. Aside from simply talking to him about it, you can try getting into his personal space and touching him, especially if you're able to find an opportunity to cuddle up to him where you can put his hands on you where you want them.
A guy who is very inexperienced may panic if he gets an erection.
I'd really suggest you think about what you're ok with past just getting laid while you're on vacation. Just looking for some fun? Willing to try turning this into a committed relationship? It's something you may need to talk to him about.
I think panic from an erection has already happened during a hug, normally we hug pelvis to pelvis but he kept his crotch far away and leant over like a crazy person, very out of the normal. Very solid advice user. I’m not some heartless bitch, I would obviously hope for a relationship out of the situation. More obvious. Got it.
Thought you were a guy, thought you were recounting plot points of call my by your name
At any rate, just do that
>ohtoseewithoutmyeyes.mp3