How can I tell if I'm destined to never get a girlfriend?

How can I tell if I'm destined to never get a girlfriend?

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There's no such thing as destiny. Your life is a series of events that were or weren't determined by you. There are reasons as to why you don't have a girlfriend that ARE and AREN'T within your control.

If you want a girlfriend, change the things that are within your control, and learn to accept the things that aren't. The person who loves you will learn to accept them too.

Wanting a girlfriend for the sake of wanting a girlfriend is retarded; the significance isn't from being in a relationship, it's about the person you're in a relationship with. Ask yourself:

>Do I want to be in a relationship with X, or do I just want to be in a relationship, regardless of with whom it may be?

If it's anything but the latter, you'll only be settling.

there is no destiny, you make your own future, go out and talk to girls

>destined

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Sorry OP, hate to break up your pity party, but that's not how this works. If you want a gf there's nothing stopping you but yourself.

Bullshit. There are clearly things rigged against certain people, such as genetics and socioeconomics.

Better give up without trying once, right?

Yup, you're right, no point in self improvement, just give up right away

You can never be completely certain but there are tell tale signs such as reaching advanced ages without getting any female attention and such.

There have been those who tried and failed despite their best efforts.

Yes, know your place on the food chain and accept it.

99% of people I see who claim they're undateable "because of genetics" actually look perfectly goddamn fine, some are even highly attractive. When someone says that, it's almost *always* a sign of severe self-image issues or even body dysmorphia along the lines of anorexia.

One half-assed attempt years ago and then giving up is the same as not having tried at all.

Doesn't mean they don't exist.

I never disputed this.

Sorry but I'm not falling for your just world fallacies. Either acknowledge how real life works or keep reeing everytime someone dares to tell the truth.

>le just world meme
You need to stop going on Jow Forums. It's poison for your mind.

So, just to get this on record, you're saying we do live in a just world?

That is a loaded question. It has no answer. It is a retarded excuse for Jow Forums whiners to never try and continue to wallow in self-pity.

Well why waste your time and effort on something that's literally impossible?
And when people say anyone can get a gf, yes sure, anyone can. But not everyone can get a gf that's compatible enough. When someone says they want a gf they mean a gf they enjoy being with. Anyone can score with someone who has extremely bad looks or an extremely bad personality.

No, but blithely dismissing a hypothesis with "that can't be true because it's not a just world" is dumb as fuck.

If your hypothesis is "everyone can get a girlfriend bar none" then you're wrong. Simple as. That statement says nothing about the effort one puts in or their odds. It's just a fact.

What is literally impossible?

I think anyone can get a girlfriend ehich is evident by all the short/ugly/poor dudes who get laif as well. You just have to try and for some reason people don‘t get that trying means becoming more socially and emotionally intelligent and putting yourself out there actually approaching women.

I'm just stressing on how it's impossible. In this case there's a guy and even if he lowers his standards to the max, no woman that fits his standards would be willing to be his gf. That makes it impossible for him to find a gf.

The few you see aren't ALL of them. That would be like saying "anyone can become a millionaire because I've seen someone do it!"

Why do people assume that the only reason guys fail to get a gf is because they don't approach women? I'm not OP but I've asked out 5 girls and got rejected every time.

Pardon my French but this is such bollocks. Maybe if you’re a chad or a badboy you can cold approach women with moderate success, but regular average Joes have no chance.

>anyone can become a millionaire because I've seen someone do it!
Honestly that's a true statement and an apt analogy. Anyone can be a millionaire but not everyone.

Not what he's saying.

>only ever asked out 5 girls

Thanks for proving our point.

I got rejected by my oneitis on Friday and have now realised am over her. Asked out another girl today and we're going for a date on Sunday, if you don't ask you 100% don't get I guess.

Dating isn't a numbers game for most people no matter how many times you faggots desperately try to tell us it is. Fact is, if someone has to resort to asking that many women out he's probably really unattractive.