Why do boring...

why do boring, lazy and unmotivated guys who are often unattractive and socially awkward and mentally ill want to get a gf when they are usually glaringly unsuitable to be someone's partner? I see these thread all the time

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They think it will make them happy.

Yeah you're right, guess I should just go and kill myself then.

but it won't because relationships require work and dedication just like anything worthwhile does. if they can't take care of themselves and improve then it means they hypothetical relationship wouldnt last anywaya

Biological imperative, it penetrates pretty deep into depression.

this is another thing very baffling. why do these guys automatically resort to suicide? improving oneself is more logical

Because no matter how much we improve ourselves the goal always moves away from us.

Sounds like my life user lol. Almost 100% on point and thats fucking sad.

They don't realise that they suck. They only see their own good points and only the flaws in guys who have success with women.

That's not entirely the truth. They see their flaws, but the lack of motivation from depression stumps them.

They haven't thought that deep, any solution will do. Cognitive bias leads them to this due to

it's the magical band-aid to their depression. having a cute gf and sex will solve ALL~~~~ their problems with NO effort necessary! /s

because every guy wants a gf. Why would they not want a gf? That's retarded.

I think it boils down to affection.

I know I'm glaringly unsuitable that's why I don't even bother trying. Life is easier this way.

btw I'm not the one making all those threads.. I know seriously the front page is like 90% "I need a gf help" threads

That's how it's always been on Jow Forums. Welcome !!

the simple thing is they hate themselves so much that female approval seems like the only way to find any shred of self-worth in themselves. but they can't improve by themselves because they're heavily depressed and therefore never get a girlfriend because of this

the brain doesnt work like that, when someone does something wrong, the brain berates you for it and suggests giving up and moving onto something else, and depressed people give up so easily. if the brain instead told us "don't give up, keep persevering" when we worked on things, it would be easy to do that, but that requires the drive and confidence everyone here seems to lack

Where would you even start to improve yourself? I mean I lack motovation, but I lost over 100 pounds just cutting back. So, I still have sounds of perseverance.

This. Why would a guy suddenly not want to sow his oats just because he's depressed? It's hardwired into us.

I actually want to know why girls go for emotionally unavailable guys that clearly only want them for sex over and over and over again. Thats the larger mystery

They don't understand that because they see the "front of house" of relationships as it were

These are people who will balk at cleaning their rooms or kitchens, or mowing their own lawn, or spending a day deep-cleaning their home
They're the kinds who want to blame something beyond their control so they never need to take responsibility and, therefore, never need to do work.

Because everyone generally wants someone to keep them company and give them regular sex

Because it's something they think will soothe their suffering. I understand that though, I was there. And not only unnatractive/mentally ill guys wants a gf, every guy that is under a dry spell does so, and unnatractive/mentally ill girls also wants a bf.

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