Femanon here. This has been bothering me for a while, and I haven't told anyone. But the other day, after my boyfriend went out drinking, he came home and asked me to have sex. I said yes because I'm usually in the mood, and it was really good. Consenual, he didn't hurt me and I got off tons of times, but when he fell asleep I just burst out crying, and I don't know why. Icould barely control myself I was crying so hard. It was nearly a panic attack. Anyone have any idea why I did this?
Femanon here. This has been bothering me for a while, and I haven't told anyone. But the other day...
Hormones.
Because you got a glimpse into your future. After a while, your relationship will progress into exclusively mechanical sex, and your boyfriend will progress into alcoholism.
Maybe you are pregnant
Probably.
I don't think it was anything like that.
Nope, that was a day or two ago and I just started my period today.
Bingo. Give this user a prize.
Fuckin drunks
You're human. Your system can be fucky. Emotions occur for no reason a lot.
Nah man, he barely ever really drinks. We do once and a while together, but he went with just his friends this time because they were going to a bar and last time I went they kicked me out because they thought my id was fake. (Even though it is real...)
>I just burst out crying, and I don't know why.
Consult a psychiatrist.
because you're aware that he got horny while out watching other qt's?
>just started period
As I said, hormones. Are you this unaware of your body?
I guess.
I'm not able to at the moment. I've had sime things happen in the recent and in the past, but, I thought I was over it all. I'm afraid if we have sex again and I cry again he'll see, and be hurt because he thinks it's his fault. It's not.
The thought hadn't crossed my mind. He doesn't really ever seem to have eyes for other girls but I guess it's a possibility. That wasn't why I was crying, though.
You overwhelmed your central nervous system from sex and have a ton of estrogen from being in your follicular phase of your menstrual cycle. (8 days prior to period)
My girl burst into tears after being tied up, banged choked and vibed at the same time. It overwhelmed her cns and she was fine a minute or two after.
>I'm not able to at the moment.
Well try to remember that you DO need to see one and do so as soon as possible.
I'm embarrassed on your behalf at that comment, you sound so stupid
I don't know about that. It was pretty vanilla sex...
Yeah, probably not going to happen.
What are you talking about? OP had sex two days before her period which is when estrogen usually peaks. Calling someone stupid without any evidence is childish.
You were peaked out on estrogen, fucking anything could have made you emotional. Pic related.
Why are you ignoring everyone telling you it was hormones? Christ.
I will randomly burst into tears over nothing or inane crap before and and at the very beginning of my cycle.
Not ignoring it, it's just that it's never happened before. I've been cranky around my period but never really weepy, and after we had sex I was sobbing. Like my chest hurt, I was so sad. But I had no reason. So it had to just be hormones. I don't have much experience- This is my first relationship and I lost my virginity with him only a few months ago.
Your hormone levels will vary vastly as you age.
Because you raped him
He was drunk so he couldn't concent
You coerced your intoxicated boyfriend into non consensual sex
That's anxiety. Anxiety is your limbics system thinking you're in danger or under threat. Like as if you were in the wild. It's subhuman and not too smart.
It's fine if it never happened before. Something set it off. It could mean something is worrying you, it could mean absolutely nothing.
You could have underate a few days in a row and it thinks you're entering a famine and gonna die. Who knows.
Oh shut up with that feminist bullshit. He was coherent and initiated it. We know each others boundaries and have already said that sex while intoxicated is okay. We were laying down together when he aaked me to. I asked him multiple times if he was sure and if he wanted to, and continued to while we had sex. It wasn't rape. Not everything is rape.
I think he was trolling.
>woman crying after sex
>"there must be something wrong with me"
Lmao
Probably the most likely here. I've been very anxious lately and having panic attacks more than not after a bad drug trip a month ago. Plus I am on my period and ky grandfather just died, and I've yet got the oppertunity to cry. I'm sure my emotions are just going wild, haha.
>He told me it was ok to rape him
I hope you wake up with two dicks in your ass someday after you passed out from drinking
Lmao hope so. My sisters a feminist and gives me all these bullshit ideas and they're so stupid u g h
??? I don't understand.
Yeah I had a major anxiety disorder well into adulthood, learned all about it from.a psychologist, and surprisingly Buddhism is pretty on the same page.
Emotions come from a pretty primitive place evolution kind of built onto. It chatters and chatters non stop. Thoughts and feelings can easily be wildly innappropriate in subject or feeling, but that's just kind of what it does. Ideally you should just try and figure out where it's coming from (family stress sounds likely). If you can solve it, solve it. If you can't, ignore it.
No greater release from stress and emotion than recognizing that it's just a thing and sometimes you can't do anything. It sounds hopeless but getting that through my head actually made me the oppositive extreme of anxiety disorder. Calm af.
I don't think you know what rape is pal.
one of the female gender debuffs a d -20% emotional stability, and they cry to purge of the overflowing levels of emotion wether happy or sad.
luckily men dont have this debuff, but have other negative class mechanics.
Love
brainlet
Crygasm.
Or
Hormones.
You crave something more than just sex. It's a relationship that is based on pure carnal desire. Maybe you're looking for a relationship with more depth.
There could be a lot of reasons why you may be feeling down, and maybe that state of vulnerability triggered t for some reason.
There's not really a point in over analyzing it. Human emotions are not always rationally brought abot