Married to girl for 4 years

>Married to girl for 4 years
>She was a single mom when I met her
>We have a kid of our own now too
>Haven’t touched my penis against wife in 3 months
>Always “tired” or “busy” or just simply “no thanks”
>Got rid my female friends years ago because she said it’s inappropriate
>Women still hit on me periodically but I’m faithful
>Discovered Jow Forums and trying to make it
>She gets shitty attitude about me and sneers “What, are you trying to look like a bodybuilder or something?”
>Tries to shame me into not working out
>She’s gotten a bit chubby
>I know that if I dared mention her weight or eating habits she’d burst out crying

How swole do I need to get before I can start humping her again?

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I'm sorry op. You fell for the oldest trick in the book.

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by the time you are half as swole as arnold, you will be destroying her pussy on a daily basis, then again you would start to doing it from time to time, then by the time you are half as swole as arnold, she will aready have left you, fuck her kid, is not yours so is fine

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NEXT

you should be humping her now, ditch that one before you regret staying many years down the road. you already made the ultimate mistake in marrying a single mom, correct it before its too late

>marrying a single mom when you're not a single dad

theres no way to get past that imbalance

Time to think about how you can come out on top in a custody battle for your kid. She's trying to punish you by withholding sex, turning you away from your personal goals, and keeping you from your friends simply on the basis of their gender. That's neither a good partner nor a good role model for your child.

SAME AS IT EVER WAS

Get some scales with BMI etc.. make an issue setting it up...get her to stand on it at some point...indirectly shame her into loosing weight.... don't hump that piggy until she has lost some weight and toned up...leave if she doesn't......or it will drive you mad in the long run

>having kids
>having kids with a women who has a kid with another guy
>marriage
>'chubby'
>putting you down with things you want to do
>would cry if you helped her with her health
>'NO THANKS'

damn op, you got leashed baaddd. Imagine being in a sexless nagging relationship, your basically a single guy but with limitations on the things you want to do that dont have any effect on anyone

is she white? are the kids white?

>She was a single mom when I met her
Dunno what you were expecting desu.

Why does every guy keep falling for this meme?

My gf keeps buying my favorite ice cream and cookies and gets mad when I say I don't want them even though she knows I'm on a diet and trying to get fit.
>she's gotten a bit chubby too
I think they're just afraid you'll leave them for a better model

> married a single mother

You fucked up on step 1. Just leave her and/or start fucking other broads.

Not putting up with her shit is a sure way of making her hump you again. Like
>>I know that if I dared mention her weight or eating habits she’d burst out crying
If you actually did that, and told her to not be a fat fucking slut and take care of her self cus you are not interesting in fucking a fat pig then she'd be mad at you for a minute but she'd respect you more for it long term and her pussy would start tingling cus you put her in her place.

When she shames you for wanting to lift just ignore it, do it regardless of what she says, she'll probably turn the shaming up and try to sabotage you, but dont fall for it. Keep lifting and keep doing. The fucked up thing is that she just don't want to lose you, so she sabotages your attractiveness, but the problem with that is she is not fucking attracted to you. So you have to push trough the resistance and make your self attractive again. That will do two things, she will respect you for doing your own thing and not letting her boss you around, but you will also be more attractive and have other women wanting to fuck you. When she sees that she will start fucking you good to make sure you don't fuck anyone else.

Whatever you do, remain attractive, keep your fitness, keep your style, keep your charm, never let her destroy that. Once you get that shit back she will start fucking the shit out of you. And if she dont.. Well... You got options ;)

Your gf sounds nice you faggot, mine doesn't even buy little snacks for me anymore.

>single mom when i met her

thank you for tyhe cautionary tale user

a whores a whores a whore is a dumb whore
theres at least 10 ways you can avoid having children and thats preconception

Timestamp her and we will help you

Just fuck escorts bro. Stop spending money on the roastie and take your business elsewhere. Until she comes around, the money you would have spent on her in your social utility agreement can be spent on resources that give you what you want. It's just business.

I do this whenever I have a long term gf who starts being a sexless cunt. They either evenually come round and you've lost nothing important while you waited, or your relationship just turns into a weak shadow untill one of you has the bus fair to end it.

This
Also, try reading No more mr nice guy, it is exactly about your problem

Women are complete bullshit. Basically if you want an ounce of respect they must fear you, fear for their physical, financial and emotional safety. If you're girl doesn't think that you can drop her and find a better piece of ass in 2 hours than she is going to walk all over you. You have to keep the power and keep leveraged. no more of this "sorry baby" or "why don't you have sex with me anymore?" and more "shut the fuck up" and "honestly I don't care if you fuck me or not because someone will." If she is trying to sabotage your gains, call that shit out on the spot "haha, you're pathetic, you're so lazy that instead of trying to improve yourself to stay on my level, you literally attempt to sabotage me". Good women aren't born, they are made, by strong men.

They'll squeal at you like a pig when you begin to put your footdown, but don't backdown, make sure you double down. Get crazy bro, break some shit in the house, make her fear for her fucking life (but don't ever touch her in a violent manner).

why do you think the other guy left her?
kek

>married a single mom

Dipshit

>marrying single mom
>dumping your babberbatter in her as well

the fuck were you thinking

Seriously. What an awful mistake.

>Get crazy bro, break some shit in the house, make her fear for her fucking life (but don't ever touch her in a violent manner).

Dude.

OP I'm sorry to tell you that looking like a god won't get you any more play. Women are fickle and after 3 months I'd fucking kill myself and her.

She got what she wanted when you married her and gave her a baby. Why would she give you sex now? What would she gain from it?

Because it's one of those memes that happens far too often, and we all know how triggering it is, and just how sweet and delicious the bait is.

sup bro?

This x1000. You fucked up from the get go.
>raising someone else's kid
Literally a cuckold

talk to her and ask what the fuck is up, talk it out like an adult you sperg

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Being this naive

>talk it out like an adult you sperg

Do not do this! she is not your co worker, or your boy, she is not your equal. She is below you on the totem poll, and if you don't make this clear, she won't fuck you.

If this isn't bait, I apologize to you for having a controlling, negative person as your wife. Hope you have a prenup.

She sounds legitimately depressed. Slip some xanax in her coffee.

If you ask women why they won't Fuck you anymore they just say "is that all a relationship is to you?"

>she is below you

That's really unhealthy thinking regardless of the situation.

Thiiiiiiiiis

It's the natural order of the world you dimwit. "they" have told you your entire life that women should be treated as an equal, so I understand why it would seem "unhealthy" to you, but I assure you, it is 100% necessary in order to have a happy wife/gf. Have you ever seen how miserable "equal" couples are? or couples with dominating females? let your experience be your guide, not what you were taught in school.

You are a child.
Is it wrong to think this person is below you?

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ask for frozen greek yogurt. chances are she just wants to spend time.

if you arent a literal warlord you just arent alpha enough. im sorry but this is the reality of our lives

>married a single mom

>Have you ever seen how miserable "equal" couples are?

No.

Yes. Even if they make terrible decisions, it doesn't affect me so I don't want to think of them as either above or below me. It doesn't matter, and I don't want to just use it to make myself feel superior.

Saging because this thread isn't about fitness.

>how a beta thinks

>shes makes excuses
She's not attracted to you
Well not sexually
Figure out why
Ask her for fucks sake

Also her reactions shows that she's a bit jealous and wondering why you wanna look better

???

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OK user. Hope you feel better saying that.

You need to just force yourself on her. It’s not rape, it’s your wife. Women want you to act like a man, stop asking and just fucking do it.
Think about the long game for a moment. If you don’t do it she’s still gonna be a sorry cow and cheat or you will end up on cheating eventually because you’ll get too much female attention from all your gains. What’s she gonna do? Call the cops on you?

t. loser
Some people are better than others, to think otherwise is to lack all objectivity.

Dump that bitch.

Dude lmao just

When you say it like that it's definitely rape.

However changing the way you have sex for a rougher approach could work

>Saging because this thread isn't about fitness.
did you really think this was Jow Forums?

This.
How is that a relationship where you support her with money and safety, where you get no sex from her, other girls and are limited to not do things you want? I am not saying dump her, but you are in a prison