I wanted to make a thread for those of us who aren't so lucky to have anyone to celebrate with, family nor friends.
I made this thread yesterday We can have conversations and so on. I can snowball the conversation, by pouring my heart out about some frustrations I have.
Every day i sit alone in my room/apartment (small apartment), which I got by the government, I barely get enough money to pay the bills from the government. I have no friends, i'm an incel, barely have family, ugly and fat, I'm not very intelligent either.
I have nothing and no one, this fact alone is tearing me down everyday, I feel like a victim of circumstance. Like the odds were staggered against me from day 1.
I got bullied in school, never had what other kids had, went through a lot of trouble, parents were degenerates and so on. How is it my fault that I turned this out this way? Now i'm a burden to the danish society. I'm put in a position where I don't have the necessary strength nor ability to get out. My only way out is by suicide, which i'm so afraid of, yet still easier than other alternatives.
I hate my life, I hate this country, I hate my parents. I never learned how to love, only to smile and kiss the asses of others who had authority over me.
I cannot sleep, i eat like shit i don't know, my thoughts are getting clouded, i'll let the conversation flow down below.
Ever think about changing your life, maybe starting from your diet? There are certain things you might be able to start changing within your power and it can snowball from there. Will losing weight make you not ugly? I cannot say but there is always a chance it cannot, but you won't be fat and ugly.
Merry Christmas OP. That sucks, but you always have the choice to better your self and meet a girl and start a family your self.
Samuel James
Hvor er du fra?
Aaron Gray
Get a job. Any job. The shittier, the better. McDonalds tier. You will have structure in your day and be forced to go out there and do something. As shitty as that is, it is not nearly as shitty as wasting your life away. And it will build you up to take on next challenges. If u don't have the will to do what's best for you, just try to put yourself in position where the pressure comes from the outside.
Dominic Scott
I stayed up all night just so I can start drinking at noon, pass-out by 8, and then sleep all day tomorrow. Merry Christmas
Jackson Ramirez
I lost all of my friends being a retard alcoholic. Not sure why I even own a phone
William Sanchez
All I want for Christmas is the courage to pull the trigger.
I don't intend to patronize you bro but you need to get over this. Nobody respects a self-described victim. If you are fat, that is a choice. If you are unintelligent, then you can always improve your intelligence in some manner.
I used to be rely on self-pity as a means of gaining attention and also justifying my lack of effort and success, but there comes a point where IMO you should be repulsed by self-pity, especially when expressed by yourself.
As for being a burden to "Danish society": fuck Danish society, to a large extent. It doesn't really care if you die in the gutter tonight. It is up to you to figure out what you want from life and what you are willing to put into life in order to attain that. You want a girlfriend? Lose weight, groom yourself, cut out the self-pity, and try to get any job you can.
Alexander Brooks
Nordlige del af djævle oen
Henry Gutierrez
Please try Jesus as your Lord and savior. If you’re already a hardened skeptic, there’s not much I can do for you, you have to come to Him yourself, but he’s slowly fixing the shitstorm that is my life through my faith in Him, He can do it for you as well
Colton Thompson
Merry Christmas OP.
all i want for Christmas, is for all the faggots who bullied me today and tried to steal my username before i took my tripcode, to kill themselves and leave me be.
I'd love to have a lonely christmas instead with family
I'd love to be alone in my house in the village drinking Cognac right now and watching some movie or the coca cola christmas commercial or listening to wham
Liam Torres
Ville have inviteret dig til min nytårs "fest" hvis du var fra Jylland
Nicholas Adams
>I hate my life, I hate this country, I hate my parents. I never learned how to love, only to smile and kiss the asses of others who had authority over me. btw I feel you user. This is true for many. Life can be a victimizing experience
I thinl many feel the same. Add loving parents and having loved and lost, it's an even worse feeling. If it makes any difference, it was just a flick of the switch one day, i found the motivation and rode the wave to pull myself out the first time.
Jayden Young
im with my family but still alone
Julian Young
Hey man sorry to hear your troubles, I truly hope things get better, I wish I could help in some way I know words can be empty sometime. Anyway I am alone on Christmas too, mostly just because I have a shit relationship with my parents and I also don't have money either. Everything is so god damn expensive in this country and if you don't have a degree you are for the most part, fucked. It feels better to know I am not alone in this whole situation. Anyway Merry Christmas, I hope the gods or whatever force that controls this universe can bring you some peace this holiday season.
Merry Christmas from Canada. Giving up hope for a better tomorrow, is giving up on life. Try to find the positive in your life, for instance, if you have health, then you have the chance to start turning things around today.
If you really hate Denmark, then think of coming to Canada, perhaps you will find some happiness here. Cheers!
Join a BJJ or MMA gym. Go there at least 3x wk. Talk 2 ppl there. Build social and physical confidence simultaneously. Go to a Church near you 1x week. Doesnt matter if you believe or not. Talk 2 ppl there. Make yourself useful to them. When you help others you will feel better about yourself.
Ryan Robinson
>awoo shit go back 2 reddit or /ptg/ you faggot
Sebastian Hall
*hugs back* thanks fren
I have tried various means, and the government besides giving me housing and money, is trying to help me, as I see it, it's like i'm on life support.
I have a deep hated for my parents, they were the first ones to fail me, and I blame them for starting the domino effect leading me here.
Merry Christmas leaf, I try to exercise my choices and options, but because of my own weakness to do so successfully has left me desperate and depressed.
This whole things makes me anxious, because I think I will fail, like has been the case many times before in my life.
Merry Christmas and cheers
I hope you get better user, most basic advice ever, but try AA-meetings.
Try exercising. It will be hard at first but stick with it. Try go eat a little bit better. You’ll start to feel like you have more energy and more confidence. Get out in the world everyday doing at least something. Get a job, any job, just part time. Work you’re way up from there. Travel somewhere, even by yourself. Check out a new place and meet new people. You can do this user. Merry Christmas!
William Parker
It's easiest to change things when you are at the bottom. You really have no choice but to improve you life now. Take solace in there is not much more down left, if any.
jesus christ hamlet start lifting and stop whining
Nathaniel Baker
This, god ide lige her det sutter men din krop har brug for at lave noget dit dovne dyr. Begynd at ryg hash og deal dope for nogle hårde typer de er ligeglad med hvor grim du er.
Joshua Collins
Work, study, built a family, redpill the people you can, things will be fine. Merry Christmas
Getting below 10% bodyfat always increases attractiveness. If OP wanted to chance he would at least try. Start with fasting.
Hunter Hill
Now let's be honest here. How many of you DO actually have family and former friends, but you became so insufferable at literally ever social gathering that nobody wants anything to with you anymore?
*hugs It’s ok, user. We all have demons, and while some may tell you to defeat them (just accepting it like a pussy) I say channel those feelings into something productive. Be selfish, fuck the whole planet, if you’re good at one thing then grab it and milk it for all it’s worth. If you hate your country then figure a way to move somewhere that’s easier to live. I heard Ukraine is cheap as shit and while it is essentially under an invasion life is still comfy compared to most eu nations. We all want to kill ourselves on the best of days, you just need to find something you like doing that makes you not want to die. While one may not love themselves at least they can love what they do.
Adam Sanchez
For what it’s worth user, you’ve got us. Merry Christmas.
Jose Perry
I do shower regularly and wash my penis, I do also clean up my apartment every now and then. I have read 12 rules of life, not anything life changing for me.
Nogle ideér til selvmord, der også kan give mig noget opmærksomhed, så jeg ikke går herfra alene?
Xavier Butler
What helped me was to observe the working of my mind. Always remember that there is you "Ego", which is right in the moment and makes the decisions, and then there's your "Character", which is the shadow the Ego has created over time. Remember: You Ego shapes your Character.
>I have a deep hated for my parents, they were the first ones to fail me, and I blame them for starting the domino effect leading me here. I believe you in this regard, but always remember that such an excuse is also a coping skill. Cause otherwise you'd have to admit that it's your fault thus diminishing your confidence and self-belief. Nothing wrong with it, just be aware of it.
Do you have a job right now? Are there things you excel at? What's interesting to you?
Levi Parker
Happy Christams user. Big 2019 ahead!
Jordan Morgan
Start praying the Jesus prayer. It can greatly change your life from within. Pray it regularly. You could start by doing it in the evening.
>Herre Jesus Kristus, Guds Son, forbarm dig over mig, synder,
It might not make sense at the moment or make you feel any connection to it, but you have nothing to lose. The Jesus prayer broke me out of a long period of darkness. It didn't happen suddenly but over a couple of years. One day I looked back and realized a great change had taken place little by little. That is the conversion of the heart. Where there was darkness now was light. It's the greatest love of all, and it's available. Put your trust in it. Your faith will build over time. Merry Christmas, friend.
Ayden Wood
user, nothing is stopping you from: - Replacing the odd meal with a ham salad roll - Replacing soda with water - Going for some walks - Engaging in your hobbies more and meeting people through that - Reading more and expanding your knowledge (no, not just Siege, develop an appreciation for the hidden beauty of art, music or film or writing - whatever)
It's not realistic that we will all have the mind of Richard Spencer with the body of the Golden One and the bedroom eyes of Jesse Lee Peterson (yeah I'm being silly but you know what I mean). Few of this can actually get there because of real limits. But what can you make better? And when that thing is improved what else can you adjust a little bit?
It makes sense to just nudge your life in a more upbeat direction. Treating yourself badly and being miserable is straight up just making it hard.
t. a guy who might not walk again, so stfu
Logan Taylor
>Nogle ideér til selvmord, der også kan give mig noget opmærksomhed, så jeg ikke går herfra alene?
Please do not do this, for it creates damage to your soul. Also it's not the end.
Levi Ward
>Start praying the Jesus prayer. It can greatly change your life from within. Pray it regularly. You could start by doing it in the evening. This actually works!
Oliver Lopez
suck to be you, bra. atleast you don't live in the US?
>Do you have a job right now? I am on neet-bux for lack of a better term, I've never had a job in my life, my life went from shit to unbearable after finish mandatory education.
>Are there things you excel at? Not that can think of, one of the guys who bullied me in school would humiliate me by calling me fat and say I was good for nothing or I was incapable of doing anything right,
>What's interesting to you? I have a lot of interest, I find basically anything I go into depth with interesting.
>neet-bux In denmark? What are you on? A grand a week?
Kevin Perez
Scandy Neetbux are best Neetbux
It's a bit whingy and I want to beat him, but let's try and push him in the right direction...
Evan Nguyen
I lost all of my friends being a retard alcoholic. Not sure why I even own a phone
Joseph Stewart
Just short of a grand a month, in USD. But it's not a lot, because I have to pay bills, expensive food, and then only pocket change is left. and the food i buy is shit, I can't afford to eat healthy.
Liam Miller
Hm... ok. Have you never worked, because you did not like the work or was it the people at work? (Or just simply the fear of them?)
People will keep calling you names all your live. It happens to everyone. Merely not to normies, cuz they blend in so well. You wanna blend in? Rather work on your language skills, the most important skill in live, to give back to them some dope disses!
If you would have to consider starting with a hobby, what would it be?
Justin Scott
How did you lose it all?
Isaac Lee
>alcoholic Are you using the American definition of the word?
Christopher Morgan
Isn‘t it beautiful that you can find more genuine acceptance and affection in an anonymous image board, where absolutely horrible and cynical thread containing pics of two girls’ severed heads are just one scroll away, than you could in the real world out there. This place is something special. Merry christmas!
The Jesus prayer is >Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.
Easy to learn and remember and make a part of yourself over time. This is a path that can take you from darkness to light and fill you with such love it brings you to your knees in gratitude. The greatest love of all as I said.
Eli Lopez
>Superstition >Mindless ritual and repetition >Slave morality >Worshipping a Jew Fuck outta here Christcuck. Your god has no foreskin.
Brandon Adams
my countrymen have abandoned me, but at least I have you autists.
Dylan Collins
Don't feel down, OP. You were born in one of the most developed, rich and relevant countries in the world. That fact alone makes your life a success.
Grayson Barnes
Fuck it, save enough money and come to the U.S. we need more white people here. You've got nothing to lose.
Easton Walker
First Christmas alone this year. Parents got divorced for petty reasons and I cut them off after that when I saw how selfish they became and wanted to pit me against the other. Hope everyone stays warm and comfy out there.
I have my own wife and child so I'm not alone but I understand how you guys feel a little bit. My dad's family, including him, are all dead and my mom's whole family is far away. My wife's family all has seperate things because they don't like each other so we never have the classic big house full of people for Christmas. Some day we'll have a house full of kids and grandkids though.
Cameron Garcia
Thats it!?!
All the prayers I know are really long. I thought they have to be long to work. God doesnt like brevity. She thinks its lasiness which is a mortal sin.
Nolan Edwards
>She
Chase Rivera
>she Also, there's a specific passage in the bible where Jesus says not to drone on and on when you pray. That's when he teaches the Lord's prayer.
Isaac Walker
Your greentext is misguided, and the implicit anger says more than enough. You are of course free to dismiss what I said, and I suspect most people will indeed dismiss out of hand everything I've said. For my part, I thank God every day for changing my life, for giving me something so great I could never deserve or earn. I thank God for crushing my arrogance, conceit, and pride, I thank God for bringing me to my knees in humility and giving me the chance to say these things. All the best to you and yours.
Matthew Gutierrez
Start improving your existence Dane user...one day at a time, make small changes, let those small changes pave the way for larger changes...surprise everyone you know and surprise yourself. You deserve to feel happiness, self value and love.
Start by eating healthier perhaps, radishes and cucumbers are delicious.
Thomas Diaz
She.
Retards
Brandon Hernandez
>Humblebragging >Pretension Cringe. Christcucks beat leftists in the art of the virtue signal. Fuck outta here faggot your god is a Jew.
Andrew Watson
Merry Christmas Annon. pray to God to give you the power to deal with your circumstances . Your best path to success is to go away from negative thought of your parents and focus on positive thought. Also you can't change situations as they are out of your control but YOU CAN CHANGE THE WAY YOU LOOK AT SITUATIONS this thinking takes you a long way ahed trust me . Also attended christmas Mass god helps you a lot . Believe in yourself
