Why don't YOU have a girlfriend, Jow Forums?
I do
Now fuck off with your not Jow Forums meta threads please
I want one but I’m always shy when approaching them at school. I know I’m pretty handsome/cute. Maybe I’ll do it next semester.
- Turbo manlet
- Masturbate a lot, never motivated to pursue women
- Extremely busy studying
- Not sure what I want out of life, which gives me a resting asshole face
- Weird interests like creepypasta that women I'm near don't even know about
- Women have caused me nothing but problems up to this point
- Been a loner for so long I almost feel like I don't want to give it up
- Surrounded by much more attractive, socially outgoing men
I'm not that bitter about it. I just think I have to get my life together before trying again
"There's always next semester," I tell myself. Alas.
I don't like women.
Because I don't know how/when to make a move without being creepy so I just never do.
Honestly one of the big regrets I have is not being more outgoing with women in college. College is an incredible time to meet women. I approached some women, but I wish I had just kept doing it. It felt great even just to talk to them. Now I'm in grad school and the women are married or cat ladies. You're only in college once. Go out there, or you could end up like me and regret it. At no other time will you be crammed in with so many young, beautiful women in one place
Because the person I am currently in love with has a non feminine P E N I S
That's gay bro.
I’ve been in this phase for pretty much 3 years now.
Moatly because I'm not actively interested in finding a girlfriend. I: have work to do (I'm moving right now, but later it'll be class work and being a TA for my grad wchool); don't have time for someone on a metaphorical lower rung of the ladder of life (notably less mature, etc.); don't feel like dealing with another person's nonsense right now (I have enough of my own, and it would be hypocritical of me to make someone deal with mine with that attitude); don't have any urges/needs/requirements that cannot already be satisfied/met/handled on my own or with my friends.
Plus, I have found that I've listened to too much cynical/pessimistic media to be too bothered by not having one. As well, I am an oblibious sort of person who won't notice certain things unless they're made clear.
In short, unless a girl asks me out, I'm not putting in much effort to finding a SO. It's not worth it right now.
I never tried to approach women in college because I was fat. Still am, but less so. I'll probably never be thin for the rest of my life.
because I'm married bih
Short version: I am a fat nerd.
I am terrible at meeting women. I tend to spend a majority of my time doing things I like, and it is like these things are male only.
Okay, so being a boyscout and then leader was obviously not a place to meet women. Playing magic helped me get a lot of friends too, but that is also an all male thing.
Getting an education as an electrician did not help me meet any women, at least not young women.
I ditched that when the financial crash happened and went to uni. But then there were no girls studying engineering with me.
Now I am a teaching assistant, I can talk to some female students, but I don't want to be a creep, so I don't make it romantic.
Basically, I spent 10 years not talking to women because nobody were around.
I never wanted to be a part of the hookup culture, casual sex does not appeal to me.
But somewhere along the line, I let myself go, so now I am fat and women will never see me as an option.
Now I diet and exercise which makes me hate life, but at least I understand why all.women are so bitter and resentful.
Because I'm white.
First step on the road is to believe you can do it. I used to be fat and my asthma kept me from running more than a block. Now I speed by people with ease
i beta orbit the same girl for way too long. i give up too easyly on dating apps and have a hard time connecting to women in meaningful ways. I hardly meet new women cause i hardly go out besides work and if i do go out i only talk to friends and keep to myself. Im also short and overweight and hardly try to workout and busy working most of the time.
my wife wouldn't approve
True, I could lose weight, but my social life is nonexistent now. I have no way of meeting women anymore.
mostly because i have absolutely terrible social skills. i literally cannot talk normally to females my age. im also 5'8" and probably like a 4.5/10 but I think that would be ok if I could just communicate with people properly.
had one girl in high school who wanted to go out with me and made it super obvious, but i couldn't even text her without saying some stupid autistic shit. i remember just sending her a pic of a record player i got at a yard sale. wtf?
at this point I've sort of just given up on getting a gf. had to move out to the country after graduating high school and ive only seen a few girls my age in the past month. would probably kms if not for cars and drugs at this point
>follow my blog
Honestly I just haven't found one that really fits me well yet. I'm also still reeling from my previous ex gf a bit. I'm also a bit too selfish right now, trying to work on that first.
I feel like complete trash to women and wholly uncomfortable expressing myself sexually
Cause I'm kinda fat and afraid of women
I learn from Evangelion that you can't love someone if you don't love yourself first, so that's why.
>become depressed, fat, anti social during uni
>get shit together slowly after graduation
>fall extremely ill
>get mostly better
>can't shake the fat and depressed mindset
>still pretty unhappy in myself because of work situation
>can't convince myself that girls are interested in me or that they wouldn't just drop me immediately once they discover I'm not all smiles like I behave
Pretty much this. I can't flirt to save my life.
Ended my previous very long term 5+ engagement and now I have complicated emotions when dealing with girls. I have a fuck toy that lets me use her pussy when I want to but she's in love with me and I flat out push away her romantic advances because of my ex. In short I've become a huge douchebag.
Because I'm a fat ugly boring 30 year old wanna-be nerd. I don't blame women for not liking me. I'm hideous. I've never had a girlfriend. I've only had sex with prostitutes. Everything seems peachy keen on the outside: a house, car, well paying job, degree, friends and family... But on the inside it's a mess that I never want to subject a woman to. At this point I'm simply a lost cause.
I am very self-conscious about how I look.
I don't know where women who share at least 30% of the same interests as me hang out.
Trust me broskis the fat is not the problem, I'm pretty lean but can't talk to girls and that's the primary problem. If you fix the fat problem, you're still gonna be tfw no gf,
I lack confidence and I emanate my insecurities somehow. It's my biggest character flaw and basically nullifies anything else I could have going for me.
Because there are virtually no girls in my classes (STEM) and the ones that are there are either taken or not interested in me. I wish I knew where to get a gf. I just want someone to validate that I'm worth being attracted to, I feel like a complete pathetic loser.
Sorry I meant I lost the weight when I got my shit together. On the other hand I can talk to girls I just can't convince myself they like me.
Cuz I can't get one. NEXT