How do I cope with the fact that I'm so naturally ugly that no girl will ever find me attractive?

How do I cope with the fact that I'm so naturally ugly that no girl will ever find me attractive?

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you would be surprised how little physical appearance has to do with women finding you attractive. people with dynamic personalities that can balance respect, empathy and genuine sincerity in the right way while being interesting have dated ten times the amount of women that dudes spending an hour in front of the mirror and 2 in the gym every day. looks fade, develop a dynamic and interesting personality and gain some confidence in accomplishment and be sincere. Set some goals and work both smart and hard. you'll get to where you want to be.

By posting the same question on Jow Forums over and over again

realize it is a waste of time and money.

You don't, that's the true answer. You learn to live with it with time, but the loneliness never goes away.

This is whole thing is objectively wrong, Looks is the most important thing. The only things that can make up for looks are money and status. Personality is not one of them, stop spreading this bluepill bullshit to people.

So you're saying every guy I see out there with a girlfriend or wife is either a 10/10 or literal millionaire?

Okay.

Or you can just be an asshole with blonde hair, blue eyes and a nice face and get endless pussy from whitewashed 2nd generation minorities

t. guy who fits the above description

If you really believed that, why wouldn't you have been, in the meantime, developing a coping mechanism for said issue?

Is it because you know that type of thinking is just plain destructive? There's a better way to live, in fact.

While we're at it...
Who spreads these vile ideas among God's children, I wonder? Why do the son's of men march willingly towards doom? Why do the daughter's of men wish to be taken by beasts?

Human's roundabout are begging for shackles.

No I'm not saying that, but a guy that is 2/10 is not gonna find a girl with his personality when they could do better. And now with the introduction of dating apps they really have no chance.

What Jow Forums doesn't want to hear is that there are many women out there that will fuck you; however, they will likely be as homely or downright ugly as you are. You're aiming for the stars with a potato gun.

Continue doing nothing and wallowing in self pity, I guess?

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>No I'm not saying that
Yeah you pretty much are.

Unless you're trying to fuck only supermodels or something and disregarding any girl who isn't one. Then yeah, that might apply. But that's your fault for being delusional and wanting only what's completely out of your league.

I am telling people that they have to work for what they get. comedians with the perfect face for radio that work at communicating with people have more notches in their bed post because they work for what they have. working for what you accomplish is not blue pill, it's just not what you want to hear. there is no difference in you falsely labeling my reply as blue-pill BS to a tumbler SJW dismissing someone telling them that they have to work for what they have as being a Nazi.

Women only want to date up that's the problem. A 6/10 girl is gonna go for 8/10 or higher guy, the 80/20 rule applies for the majority of women. I don't mind going after a woman in my looks level, but I cant get any because even they have offers from more attractive guys. I'm a 3/10 for me to even have a chance with a girl I have to seek out 1/10s girls it's not fair.

You can't obsess over one aspect of yourself and let that define you. Life isn't meant to be like that. You see if you develop other parts of yourself then you can make something of your life.

The fact that you're here literally and unironically whining that "life's not fair" makes you 0/10.

>The way I talk on the internet is how I talk in real life
I honestly don't get this meme.

Of course I don't present myself this way in real life user. We come here to vent because we can't do it in real life.

It has nothing to do with internet or real life, it's your pathetic mindset. Just because you can hide it doesn't mean anything.

My mindset didn't just form itself over night, I think like this only because of my experience. My world view is different from yours only because we experienced different things. If you received nothing but rejection your whole life you would know my pain.

It's pathetic of how long it took you to cultivate it or how invested in it you are. Keep thinking obsessing over "your pain" is gonna get you laid and let us all know how it works out for you.

*regardless of

What the fuck is even your point? When I talk to girls I don't express these feelings to them, I put on my happy face and act like a normal human being. You think I go around depressed trying to talk to girls? Next you're gonna tell me that women can sense when a guy is thinking pessimistic thoughts, right?

I don't need to tell anyone anything. The proof is you being here crying that no woman will give you the time of day.

You give up on trying to appeal to females and start working on yourself thru reading books and learning or hobbies and find someone who will appreciate that, and start improving yourself day by day on the outside. I suggest you get a nice haircut, developing style/physique and going thru trial and error with women.

Either get a personality or money

Personality means nothing when you don't have the looks.

We'll you don't have "the looks" so that narrows it down substantially.

find an ugly girl

This post just makes me sad that there are people this niave and out of touch. 100% probability you have a vagina.

>3/10
Lose weight.
Everyone who is skinny is a minimum 4.5/10, unless they are Auschwitz levels of underweight

You know what gets girls really wet?
Self-pity.

I only weigh 150lbs, I'm not over weight, I'm just ugly.

Would you get with an ugly girl? No? Then quit crying, ugly.

looks is the most important thing TO GUYS. we are not you. stop thinking we are you and understand that men and women are different.

Shut up and stop lying to yourself. You know damn well that the first thing you want is an attractive man. Women only say looks don't matter because they don't want to seem shallow, all women do is lie to protect their image.

Damn, I guess the ugly guys I dated weren't ugly after all.

Youre both retarded.

Looks do matter a shit ton, but you dont fall in love with looks. But you need to be sexually attracted to a person to want to be around them long enough to fall in love with who they are.

Ugly people have a harder time with people wanting to be around them long enough to discover who they are.

Youre both young morons.

They were able to date you because they were around your looks level.

nigger where did i say looks don't matter and what image am i supposedly protecting? look around, my entire gender is a shit show. believe whatever tf you want, that's what you're gonna do anyway

i'm at least your age if not older. guys and girls are not the same. this shouldn't be hard.

Explain the hot ones, then.

Looks are fucking everything, I learned this the hard way. My friend set me up with this girl, before we met we texted each other. Everything was going great, she wanted to meet up for a date. The moment we met each other she wanted nothing to do with me. She liked my personality, but my looks are fucking abysmal. If you're ugly enough, not even a good personality will save you.

Makes sense. I do think that attraction has a hierarchy and have read about it.

Highschool girls dont value status or wealth like middle aged woman. Hence looks are more prevalent to younger girls while maturity makes woman appreciate personality more.

Also its hot you said your gender is a shit show lol

my 2nd paragraph is in agreement of what youre saying.

I am sorry but you will need to settle for ugly girls.

Its difficult but you have to deal with it. Its a law of nature.

The girl my friend me up with was not some 10/10, or even a 5/10. Dude I'm scrapping the bottom of the barrel to find women, if I lower my standards any lower I basically have to start seeking deformed women. I'm on the verge of just ending my life.

alright so maybe you're older after all. point still stands.

Then scrap the bottom of the barrel.

There are men who are 8's who have no time or soul for a woman trying to tie them down and pay for sex over actually establishing sexual attraction with real women.

That is worse than being ugly in my opinion. There are several million men around the world who are worse off because they pay for sex.


I am not going to play a fiddle while you say how ugly you are. Youre in an age bracket thats retarded but it will improve.
As women realize they arnt hot tight little 22 year olds anymore they will find you sexually attractive

>Then scrap the bottom of the barrel

Didn't I just say that's what I'm doing? I'm doing exactly that, no luck. I have asked out maybe around 18-22 girls in the past 4 months all ranging between 1/10s-4/10s all ended in rejection. I'm not even going to mention my time with dating apps.
There is no advice anyone can give me, because I know looks are everything.

Only uggo basedboys don't accomplish anything. Have you considered that having a driven personality with goals gets you money and social status? Obviously not, you're more interested in blaming other people for your shit habits.

BUH BUH IT'S GENETICS

Go back to Tumblr and complain about white males, basedboy.

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No need to cope with it because it's not the truth.

You may really have an non-proportional features or non-symmetric halves of face, but it doesn't really matter.

Peoples may be stupid, may have lack of charisma, have low self-esteem, etc. But there is no such un-beautifulness given by the heavens that can make you unchangeably unattractive to other people.

No matter how obviously it will sound: no cope, one must work on himself.

Women want 3 things

Looks Money Game

You have no looks or money so you need game. I refuse to accept 1's would have standards. If thats the case the world is beyond fucked.