I remember when I first heard about Elliot Rodger. How he never even approached a woman and how he cried when nobody just fell into his lap. I was young and naive then. Not even a legal adult yet. Still wet behind the ears and I , in my eternal ignorance, laughed at him.
Years have gone by since and I've reached adulthood and become a man since then. Now I truly see where he was coming from. If you're an ugly male you may as well be the dirt they tread upon for 99% of women. I've seen how their faces fill with disinterest for most and scorn for the extreme ones. I've seen how women see my gymcelled to perfection body and how their face falls when when they see Igor instead of Adonis.
But I also realize this isn't healthy at all. It's gotten to the point where I glare at women in public, especially the ones I know are thinking about subhuman I look in their head.
You have to be pretty fucking ugly to preclude 99% of women from talking to you and potentially wanting to enter into a relationship. Are you really that ugly? Are you fat? Do you smell?
Jordan Harris
>You have to be pretty fucking ugly to preclude 99% of women from talking to you and potentially wanting to enter into a relationship. I'm not precluding them they're precluding me. >Are you really that ugly? Yes. I've always been mocked for my physical features. First by playground bullies who used my disadvantages to propel themselves in the top of the school hierarchy and later by a long, long string of women who for I might as well not exist. >Are you fat? No. I gym regularly. >Do you smell? I shower twice a day. I groom myself properly and I have a job. I'm not some dumb neckbeard posting from his mother's attic. I'm by all intents and purposes a normal member of society.
Jace Myers
Any mentally healthy male with some experience under his belt is going to have a little resentment towards women. It is totally normal.
Liam Collins
But especially shun overweight women who's fat is disproportionately appropriated. They are the main cancer of society.
Daniel Ortiz
I have complete and utter hatred. Nice projection
Ethan Gonzalez
I understand, user. But at some point you have to realize that "women" as a collective whole haven't done anything to you. You've had a few subjective experiences colored by what your brain thought was happening. Instead of throwing your energy towards the hatred of an entire gender throw it towards improving yourself. Therapy is a good place to start. Not for women, not for the people around you, for you.
Women are human too, they have interests, they can be fun to talk to and will support you if you're their friend etc. (although not everyone is a good friend). Both men and women are equally put off by ugly people, but the affect is mild and doesn't stop people from connecting with them.
Maybe you have a soulless social scene, maybe a lot of it's fake? If so feel free to hang out in a different part of the world.
Parker Perez
Just get plastic surgery.
Julian Parker
Udder* (i assume you meant).
Josiah Perry
>Women are human too, they have interests, they can be fun to talk to and will support you if you're their friend etc. (although not everyone is a good friend). Never disputed this. HOWEVER to get non-platonic love from these "interesting" ,"fun" and "supportive" women as an ugly man is near impossible because women automatically exclude from the dating pool at a glance. >Both men and women are equally put off by ugly people, Men are less so >Maybe you have a soulless social scene, maybe a lot of it's fake? If so feel free to hang out in a different part of the world. Maybe
Gavin Morris
>Are you fat? Dat reading comprehension tho
Nicholas Campbell
This. See what your options are and save up. The healthy thing in the meantime is to work on your anger, but ugliness is to some degree fixable. Some people can get some dramatic improvements with hairstyle/surgery.
Matthew Rodriguez
Accept that their disgust is matched by your own. Do you want anything to do with an ugly woman? Or do you want someone who looks good? Maybe you even *deserve* someone who looks good?
Once you realize how much in common you have with the people you hate, you tend to start hating them less.
Ryder Long
Elliot Rodger wasn't ugly tho
Eli Martin
He was unattractive enough to be unable to win the numbers game meme. If he asked out a hundred woman he wouldn't have at least one willing to fuck him, they'd all reject him.
That's what it means to be a true ugly male
Jace James
If you really have a diformity it might be so but you have to realize it's not women in particular who do this. In fact men discriminate women on looks even more.
If you're a below average looking guy, but you make good money, are fit and well-groomed, you can definitely pick up girls. If you're a below average looking girl, you're just screwed.
Joseph Ward
Nope. That's utter bullshit and you haven't actually tried picking up women. Or you're really bad at it.
Owen Foster
BULLSHIT
Even my girl friends admitted that if a girl wants, she can get a bf easily in one week. But they stay alone because they can't get a bf that suits their standards
I got rejected by quite some ugly girls and I'm ok looking.
Evan Perry
>Even my girl friends admitted that if a girl wants, she can get a bf easily in one week. But they stay alone because they can't get a bf that suits their standards
If she's about average looking, sure, she can easily find a desperate guy to play her "bf" for a while. But once his ego will have been boosted enough by the relation he'll go find an actually attractive girl and he will have never genuinely be attracted to her in the process.
>rejected by quite some ugly girls
You never ask out a girl you find ugly, dude. Never. First, they can tell how little you think of them, and second, ugly girls are the nastiest. Pretty girls are almost always nicer.
Cooper Bailey
>If she's about average looking, sure, she can easily find a desperate guy to play her "bf" for a while. But once his ego will have been boosted enough by the relation he'll go find an actually attractive girl and he will have never genuinely be attracted to her in the process.
Fake and gay. If they would follow this logic and don't trust anyone they would never have a boyfriend
Juan Adams
>>Both men and women are equally put off by ugly people, >Men are less so Well not if the men are gay, women tend to be heterosexual and when you're sexually attracted looks have a bigger weight than if you weren't attracted.
Justin Cook
When did I ever say women followed this logic? They are not aware of this pattern. I didn't say they were. Learn to read.
Michael Moore
OP, you are probably very transparent in your dislike for women. When you carry a few bad interactions on your heart and talk to women who have done nothing wrong like they're lesser than you(even if you don't think you are, it shows through), of course they're gonna avoid you. Especially ones that are more attractive than you and can do better. Try being genuinely nice to women in your own attractiveness level, its not hard to find women who have meh faces but work out often and they're usually very sweet.
To add to that, my girlfriends and I have had many dates where we've already decided we would end the night in a hotel room/his house, but the guy is so presumptuous and rude that we call it off after 30 minutes of hanging out.
Also, I've dated plenty of "ugly" guys before because they had amazing personalities. My last relationship was with a guy who was 5'4" and 230 lbs with a receding chin and gap tooth that worked at a burger place. But he genuinely made me laugh every day, made me feel loved and safe, and would treat me like a normal person.
Ryder Cook
protip: you also see ugly women and go HAHA WOW GROSS SHE'S SO UGLY when in reality they'd be your ideal girlfriend
