That's it. After studying Tinder"a algorithms and boosting at the most appropriate times, there was never a single girl that swiped right. I don't think I'm all that attractive, but apparently I'm way more hideous than I thought. There's no hope for me. I'm going to be forever alone, like it or not. Literally every single girl thinks I'm hideous, even the fat ones. What the fuck am I supposed to do now? At this point, I just want to die. I don't want to live like this.
That's it. After studying Tinder"a algorithms and boosting at the most appropriate times...
Camden Gomez
Nicholas Jones
go gay
Owen Edwards
Unfortunately dating apps are a woman’s market. Look up the 80/20 rule and it’s applicability to hypergamy in women. Maybe you don’t photo well? Maybe your profile wasn’t eyecatching enough? Let’s face it. Dating apps are a superficial way to meet women. Live your life, socialize, and with any luck you’ll meet someone in a natural setting.
Camden Barnes
>After studying Tinder"a algorithms and boosting at the most appropriate times, there was never a single girl that swiped right.
Not even a bot? That doesn't make sense.
I weigh over 350 lbs., and one of my pics makes me look like a manlet. I get matches all the fucking time.
I suspect you either have no photos or few photos, are under 21, have no university listed, are in a rural or sparsely-populated suburban area, and have your age range set up in a self-defeating manner (e.g., only aiming for girls in a five-year window around yourself, or primarily aiming for slightly older girls but not cougars).
James Powell
>80/20 rule
This is honestly overhyped.
Colton Long
Read your post and ask yourself if a girl, or ANYONE, could every be attracted to that.
No one wants a moper, whiner, downer, drainbow, insecure bitchboy fuck
First of all, Tinder is fucking retarded for several reasons.
1 They rig it so you have 0 chance unless you pay for the premium version. You're probably not on the premium version are you?
2 It's a hook up app you dong licking idiot. Why are you basing your self worth on something that is INTENDED to be shallow?
3 Most women on Tinder pass on most men. Even """chads""". Getting passed up isn't a big deal. It happens to EVERYONE. Again, this is a hookup site. Yes, there are rare stories of dating emerging from it but those are rare. The mindset of people who use Tinder is "I'm horny, who am I willing to fuck RIGHT NOW?" There's infinite reasons someone may not want to hook up with someone else at that moment. It's not a big deal at all to not get matches
Secondly, no one wants to be with a sad sack of shit. Not men or women. This isn't a small issue so it;s not going to go away overnight. Here's what I'd do:
1, I'd analyze what I've tried with women. How have I acted? Confident? Aggressive? Passive? Nagging? Begging? Nice? Boring? Plain? And I'd think about why that's not working.
2, I'd follow an interest. Women want guys to be active and have goals. They want guys to be able to do their own thing and not obsess over them. So have an interest you can put effort into to build your confidence and stay active doing
3 Take risks. You aren't getting anywhere playing by the rules your parents taught you
What would I do if I was you?
I'd buy the premium Tinder and sign up for real dating sites. Plenty of fish is popular. There's other popular ones but I don't know what they are. Search google for an article on dating sites from a magazine that women love. What do women read now? Buzzfeed? Comso? Whatever
And then I'd develop a hobby like I said above
Josiah Jones
I have Tinder Gold. Hasn't done shit for me.
Brayden Thompson
Bump
Adrian Roberts
>Tinder Gold
>zero matches
Then there's something wrong with your profile, the area you're in, the age ranges you're targeting, or the sorts of girls you're targeting.
You're doing something really, really wrong and I can't tell you what it is other than you're definitely doing something wrong.
You should've at least gotten bots matching you by now. I half suspect you've swiped left on more than 90% of the women in your area and think being so highly selective gives you some kind of boost.
I did pay for Tinder premium a couple years ago, got it for one month. I'm sure they've changed the algorithms since then, but man... I can't tell you how many matches I got in just a few days. Dozens. It was great. In light of that, I am REALLY skeptical about your story.
Jayden Davis
While men like a wide variety of women, women only like chad.
You won't get matches unless you're chad.
T. Bitter loser with no matches. I'm even quite attractive too
Ryan Richardson
>I weigh over 350 lbs., and one of my pics makes me look like a manlet. I get matches all the fucking time.
What's your bio like?
What kind of pictures do you have?
Jonathan Sanchez
Tinder is mentally unhealthy. You really need to stop. It fucked me up too. But once I quit I started feeling better about myself
Grayson Walker
Just think of it as, you're level 1 and you have been taken out by level 10 pros.
Also money. Do you have money? Because girls can tell.
Jacob Hernandez
not him. But when I used to use Tinder Plus the only matches I would get would be bots. I never matched real girls. I did this for 2 years. I followed /soc/s advice, they approved it. I had good pictures of me traveling around the world and a good bio. But nothing.
But now, I have a 8.5/10 gf who calls me handsome everyday we talk and sucks me off everyday we meet. But when I did tinder. No girls liked me.
Landon Sanchez
Bio is actually pretty cancerous; I use emojis to save space and just list a bunch of likes/dislikes, plus a couple calls to action.
Photos are of me at the last university homecoming tailgate I attended a couple years ago. So they're not awkward as fuck pics where I'm trying to look cool, but honest-to-goodness shots of me enjoying myself with friends (friends faces cropped out in most cases). The pic that makes me look like a manlet actually has me standing next to two friends: a guy that's about 4" taller than me, and a girl that's the same height as me.
>I never matched real girls.
I don't know how you guys fucking manage this. I swear to god, there's got to be something wrong with what you're doing, where you are, who you're swiping on, or your age.
The main difference I've noticed with me versus guys in good shape, etc. is that I'm in my 30s and have a graduate degree. I get girls in the 18-25 range all the time, as well as all the way up to my age and older. My thought is that the younger women, the 18-21s especially, set their age filters to exclude men below 22-25.
Noah Bell
>I swear to god, there's got to be something wrong with what you're doing
Some people are just unlucky, dipshit. Just because something is easy for you, and within your means, doesn't mean the same goes for everyone.
Grayson Hill
>getting zero matches in two years
>unlucky
No, that's beyond unlucky. That's you doing something wrong.
Jackson Roberts
There are people who apply to multiple jobs a day, and still can't get hired. There are people who get raped and abused on repeated basis by different individuals each time. There are healthy individuals who still succumb to cancer and other diseases many times in their lives (my dad's one of them). There are people who have had more-than-one kid of theirs commit suicide (my mom's one of them). There are people who have loved one after loved one die a young death one way or another. There are people who get discriminated more times, more severely, than your average wank.
Some are just dealt shitty, unlucky hands. And it's common for people in positions of privilege (ex.: you) to be baffled by it, because their easy life leaves them unable to comprehend the world outside theirs. But to be baffled, and assume, why people suffer shitty fates, and what they're doing to rake them in, just plays into the same fallacious logic as victim blaming often does.
Cooper Long
>God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
>Courage to change the things I can,
>And wisdom to know the difference.
Most people are stuck on the opposite side of not being able to tell the difference from you; believing that everything or most everything is within their control. Damn though, I cannot possibly imagine living like that, letting shit just happen and figuring it's hopeless.
I'm sorry for your losses, but I hope someday when you're older you'll attain the courage to change the things you can, and the wisdom to tell what can from what cannot be changed.
Kayden Cooper
I live near Washington DC which was a metro area of 6 million people. I was 25 at the time and had an age range from 22-30
Ryan Russell
>have Tinder Gold
>use 6 boosts on different days
>not a single fucking like
If this isn't a sign that girls don't want me, I don't know what is.
Jayden Ramirez
Do superlikes diminish the chances of matches? It's feeling like it does. I never get a match batch form it.
Brody Watson
no, being ugly does
Jayden Phillips
Wish janny would ban dickless little shits like this desu. Instead of being constructive or positive, you decide to go low.
You should be hanging from a tree instead of hanging in this thread, or any thread.
Joshua Nguyen
The 80/20 meme is what incels tell themselves to have an excuse to not try. There is not a single thread of truth to it.
William Jones
This thread doesn't belong on Jow Forums to begin with. It should be moved to Jow Forums.
Alexander Wilson
>thread soliciting advice on using tinder belongs on an unrelated board
The animosity is just palpable.
What is it that drives you to degrade and demean people rather than rendering help? You had the choice to look out for the well being of others and decided to attack and hurt instead. You didn't even have to engage.
I don't understand that. I can assume you were hurt by others but to hurt others because of that is just perverse.
Ryder Roberts
It's not asking for advice. Only whining and asking for validation.
Nathan Hernandez
(samefagging)
Oh someone wants to be in love and care for someone. What a malicious horrible, horrible thing, I better go out of my way to attack and ridicule them. Being inexperienced or unlucky in getting romantic partners is a clear sign of a freak that needs to be kept down, god forbid they have their basest psychological needs fulfilled mutually with someone else.
Buddy, you're the one I see whining. And trying to make people feel like shit.
It's a fucking on topic thread. You know how I got here? Searching tinder on the fucking catalog. Maybe OP is a little mopey but it's still an on topic thread.
Is calling people ugly on topic or anything to do with the board? Fuck outta here.
Robert Carter
Nobody has said anything like that? You are making shit up. This kind of victim complex belongs on Jow Forums. You have zero interest in improving yourself and getting answers.
Jace Watson
>no, being ugly does
Wasn't even that long ago. I have zero victim complex and only ever come to this board to improve myself and get answers. You're pulling shit out of your own ass in making up what you think I think. Don't be ridiculous.
To cast me as an anti-woman whining robot isn't productive it's just your own projections.
Cooper Bell
Bad photos, bad area, bad bio
this doesn't have to mean anything.
I went from zero matches to about 8 in a day, simply by taking a better photo.
Grayson Foster
It's more like 90/10 on Tinder
Thomas Carter
dont feel all that bad, im sexy as fuck but a total autist
Owen Gonzalez
>never get matches
You probably swipe right on every person you see. Stop doing that, delete your profile, restart. Start swiping right on qts even if you think you don't have a chance. Tinder is going to assume you're on their level and your profile is gonna start climbing the tinder quene for other girls. Also don't forget to work on your profile. Don't use selfies that shit is ugly. Start hanging out with friends and have them send photos of you smiling and having fun. Candid photos worked the best for me.
I match with at least two decent looking people per day, and those are slow days. I'm a chubby guy and my pics clearly show that. I constantly get 5 or less in Jow Forums rate threads and I still get good matches. Learn how to use the system and it'll work for you.
Gavin Martin
>"""chads""". Getting passed up
This is actually true. I've had plenty of college chads complain that tinder isn't working for them
Gabriel Nguyen
I'm gonna need someone in this thread to tell me when online dating has ever been a good deal for men
Ever