Ok, so how can I stop being gay?

Ok, so how can I stop being gay?
That's a real question.
Personally I don't hate womens I just can't feel anything from them (don't know why) and I'm just considering myself as a piece of trash because I actually like to be used from other men
I'm seriously disgusted about myself and I wanted to see if anyone had real answers for my autism

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why? you're going to live a miserable life trying to conform to what you think is normal. memes aside, there's nothing wrong with being gay.

Quit taking dick.

Therapy?
Most gay people I know went through some sort of sexual trauma in the past when they were very young.

You're saying that being a gay that likes to be degraded by others is a good thing?

save that bait for or

I'm not declared so it would be a mess in my around if I decide in this moment to do something like this

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whatever floats your boat man, if that's what you're into. you don't have to whore yourself out on the street, you can do kinky things at home in private and still have normal outward facing relationship.

The thing is that i don't want to normalize a fetish like this that's just bad

Watch alot of porn. First very feminine men, then feminine men fucking chicks, then just chicks.

Second, think of the vagina as a pocket pussy and how nice and slippery itd feel for your dick. Even if you dont like women now, you know itd feel good.

Third, if you have any self esteem issues that make you fetishize men, like you feel as if you dont deserve/can't have normal sexual contact but you can always get sexual gratification through homosexual activity, realize this attitude isnt true and you could find a girlfriend who would love you and be sexually reearding if you tried.

Fourth, realize that youll probably never stop having gay feelings completely. You may have alot less bht theyll still occur, AND THATS OK, as long as you are mindful about them and dont dwell on those thoughts or act on them.
The goal is to develop an attraction to women also so youre bisexual and can direct all your sexual energy towards them and become functionally straight.

Hopefully this helps.

I will take these words in mind thanks dude

dude as someone with weird fetishes I can assure you they just don't go away. I tried for years to squash my diaper fetish because I thought no partner would accept me for it. now I don't give a fuck because it doesn't define me. as long as your life isn't your fetish then it's okay.

Cant you get an erection without diapers being involved?

could I have vanilla sex with a girl? sure I suppose, but it probably wouldn't be ongoing. my depraved fetishes would kick in again, there's no turning it off

Maybe think of it like this:
Women can use you. They can fuck you. Go to your favorite porn site and look for "pegging", for example.
Women can be fucked in the ass too. go to your favorite porn site and look for "anal", for example.
As long as you don't look for muscular, hairy chests you can find pretty much everything you look for in a guy, from a girl.

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Keep this info in mind too.
This is likely how you came to have a gay fetish. I know i did because i watched alot of yaoi when 12/13 while also being autistic and feeling like women wouldnt want to date me. So i found sexual pleasure from yaoi that id reinforce and compensation for my feelings of inatiquencies.

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Why not just keep it under control by learning to be mindful about it and direct your sexual energy in other directions?
Also sex isnt everything, a life partner is whats important.

Y'all benefit from buddhism and stoic philosophy. read nigger, READ!

Prayer and celibacy

You may or may not become straight,
But if you don't, live a clean life in celibacy.

Religion can help

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Praying the gay away doesnt work, he has to tackel it logically and directly.

Although realizing that gay relationships will hardly ever be ones of commitment, not emotionally as satisfying, and full of stds and mental illness, can help.

What
Religion does not help in this case I realize too well that gay couples are the worst in too many ways

I will try everything you guys said thanks

that's so pathetic

user you just born this way
you can´t change, sorry
it´s written in your genes
You can pray to god and ask some type of changing

Where were you when I made my thread about diapers on here ;_; I needed you user

Explain yourself

And that's bullshit

no sorry

Hey Shipper

You can be like DexterMiami and get escorts

i misread that, if you want make it again and ill reply

I don't wanna annoy people by making it again so I'll link the archived post and hijack this thread

You can't
Get used to it

Dude women are full of shit and fucking retarded. Gay guys have such an easier time getting laid and can actually enjoy male activities like video games or lifting or football or magic the gathering or WHATEVER with their boyfriends. even when I get a girl often times I'm like "man I wish I didn't have to put up with her bullshit, but I really, really like vagina..."

just chill out, there's nothing wrong with you just because handsome, tall, muscular men make you feel like spreading your legs apart and taking dick. you're just as human as all of us hetero people and I personally don't think less of you because of it.

dude I'm a hetero man and I love it when girls slap me or spank me or start fighting and biting in bed. If you like it rough and painful or even degrading, it's ok. You're just human and that's what gets you horny.

okay I'll be complacent in your scheme. anyway, first things first abdl has nothing to do with pedophila. your boyfriend does not want to do anything like that with or to actual children and it's not some sort of slippery slope. pic related is something I saw that more or less explains the why behind it. it's kinda sad to see the replies to that, that someone would shut the door so hard based on something he didn't choose.

secondly, if you feel objectified by him because of his fetishes you should say something. I'm sure he's just excited because he's never been able to share that with anyone, it is the deepest secret for most who participate and he trusts you that much to tell you it. you said he's insecure about it and that's why you haven't said anything but from his perspective he knows the stigma behind it and he knows that most think like the people who replied. give it a real college go and try to let go of the stigma or weirdness and just focus on enjoying the moment. if it's not for you, that's okay but the best thing you can do then is just be supportive of it and maybe humour him once in a while.

polite sage for the hijack

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Thank you so much. I have always wanted to try to understand it better but I could never get such an in-depth explanation from him. I'll continue being as supportive as possible and try to talk to him about my qualms.

I haven't been on Jow Forums in like 9 years so I hope I saged properly. Apologies to everyone else if I fucked up.

I honestly can't imagine ever fucking wanting to wear a diaper again, even if I was an 80 year old man losing control of my bowels or something. Nor can I understand how a woman would be attracted to such a man. People are fucking weird.

no problem, I hope it goes well for both of you. it's good to hear you're not giving up

ok and that's fine but you don't have to be a prick about it. like I said it wasn't really a choice

Do dmt or fast for 10 plus days with only filtered water. I would seriously bet my life on the success of this. Also I'm sorry you're having a hard time in life