>cute guy at work >been crushing on him for a year >intelligent >thoughtful >sweet >nice >adorable >cuddly >quickly became the man of my dreams >been trying to signal feelings to him >no luck >recently, asks me out on a date right out of the blue >panic >get very shy and nervous >told him no, and go back to cubicle >feel like an idiot and regret it immediately >decide to at least try and make it up next time >he's gone >apparently quit his job with giving much of a reason
I keep feeling that I might have caused him to leave. And I get too nervous to ask about him, or to look him up on social media. So I'm kind of at a loss. Pretty sure I screwed up here. :(
You made a mistake, but if you care you will try to make it right. You hurt him with rejection and you are worried you can't undo that. You won't know unless you try. If you are too shy to do so, well you deserve to feel upset.
Jayden Sullivan
>told him no, went back to cubicle HAHAHAHAHAHA
That aside, its not too late to turn it around. Ask him out for a date this time. Pop a few xanies so you wont fuck up
Joshua Ward
your rejection hurt him so badly he quit so he doesn't have to face you again
Well it's still the #MeToo era, so asking out coworkers is a huge no-no.
Josiah Cruz
I didn't even consider that, it's worse than I thought. lol OP fucked up big time.
Nathaniel Howard
I just keep thinking about the poor bastard groveling away as some wage slave, cute girl starts working there and he's been crushing on her so long and finally getting up the nerves and whilst groveling away together he asks if she wants to do something not grovelly together and she says NO So he fucking quits I'm dead
It's ok OP he's off to better things now
Jaxon Murphy
this is bait. you can't be this stupid. you deserve to be alone.
Hudson Jones
Either this, or OP deserves every horrible feeling she's experiencing for such a beyond retarded act.
Thomas Mitchell
People who often say "X cannot be this stupid," often have naïve, unrealistic views about the human race.
>have crush on this girl >goddamn shes perfect >gather my marbles one day and decide to ask her out >she just turns around, says nothing and walks to exit in haste >next monday i see her shes all smiley and shit to me >one year later she is hitting on me but im too autistic to act on it
Grayson Butler
Also not mocking you op but your best bet is to ask him to hang out, he wont make another move ever Just like me Haha
Grayson Edwards
You piece of shit. He is a weak looser yes. But you also deserve no pity.
No shitposting. You did a bad thing. Minor bad for him and he was weak. Major bad for yourself..
Leave him alone. Dont make it worse for both of you.
Alexander Flores
Go on his social media and >Hey I got really shy and nervous the other day when you ask me out so sorry if I was too crass, but I actually wanted to ask you out too.
William Morgan
>I keep feeling that I might have caused him to leave. When I read that I assumed that he had already quit his job and decided that he might as well ask you out before he's gone.
Adrian Russell
Might unironixally work and is easy enough to execute for op
