I'm going to be having a daughter soon and I've also been helping out one of my family members raise her daughter as her and her husband are divorced.
Obviously the goal is to try and get her to become a decent woman, I don't know how much I can truly fight (((modernity))), I've got my own shit together as I'm tall, good looking, in shape, funny and eloquent as fuck, but I don't know if mastery within my own domains is enough for kids these days.
Any ideas are greatly appreciated.
It'd be far more likely that your daughter becomes a slut. Daddy needs to educate himself that most women aren't whores but sluts.
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Ban her from the internet and degenerate modern television it is the only way.
Encourage her to have things in her life that do not revolve around being attractive and getting attention from men.
Just beat her ass whenever she talks to boys or smokes or takes drugs etc.
Or if you are muslim, get her a female circumcision.
While this isn't a bad idea on it's own, I'm just not so sure how sustainable a ban like this really is.
That's definitely a good idea.
Women never fuck down, unless they don't give a shit about their dad or want to hurt their dad Explain to your daughter and make her understand that their status is above the slut shit and shit skins. And never have your daughter hate you. If your daughter idolizes you, no man will suffice for her. She has to respect you fully. So don't be a bitch and don't make your daughter hate your guts basically.
It is the only way, also home schooling as the modern schooling systems are degenerate and designed to pervert and indoctrinate children.
This is good advice, be the man you want your daughter to date so she has a good reference point.
Read Sex and Character by Otto Weininger
>That's definitely a good idea.
Here's the thing though. Dont go overboard and try to keep her away from anything that has to do with boys or girly things. That will only make her socialize poorly with her peers and worst-case make her an outcast. Low self-esteem and a desperation for acceptance are risk factors. Encourage her to like what normal girls like, but also encourage her to find joy and excel in everything she does.
Show her pictures of what drugs, sex and drinking gets her.
Pic related is porn whore Brett Rossi.
>She's only 29
Raise her in a Christian household and pray with her every night. Hold a Purity ball for her when she turns 10. Never allow her to leave the house without a chaperone. Drive her to a private Christian school and pick her up at the end of the day.
Easy, Be a good father and someone she admires. Be faithful to your wife and instill good values.
True, whores are objectively hated by everyone (although men fuck em, they never stick around), so it's def important to be real with girls entering adulthood on how their actions have extreme consequences long term, beyond any immediate "approval" they may get.
Yeah for sure, it's just there is so much degeneracy, it's difficult to draw the line considering most young people listen to nigger noise where they learn about the most ape like behavior.
One thing I am confident in is the socialization aspect because I love talking, asking open ended questions and joking around with them, so that should naturally rub off in helping their humor, general openness, ability to think logically about things and just natural ability to speak.
Father here. What you gotta do is put them keep them occupied. My daughter takes piano lessons and son guitar and plays baseball. Don’t just have your kids sitting around all day playing fortnite.
Sounds like you're off to a good start.
First rule with women is the same as with children:
It takes a village, user -know who she will be around. Know that you can trust them to reinforce your rule. This is essential.
Also, you must let them naturally develop a distaste for (((degeneracy))). This can be accomplished by simply not introducing them to such, until a sufficient amount of time has passed, allowing them to develop a love of non-degenerate things. This means everything from cartoons to activities and everything in between.
I suggest limiting them to pre80's cartoons and books and -lots- of activities! Keep them busy. This will hold them till they are 10 or so. until they are -no tv or internet freetime. In fact they shouldnt even know what the internet is until they have developed the brain to know how to navigate it -approximately 15 ish, if you have raised her right.
Also, make her work for you -chores. Lots of chores. Dont even hint that there should be a choice. And dont be afraid to invoke her sense of guilt with "youre mother and I are simply overwhelmed, we need your help, (insert cute pet name...)". YOu can help this along -by having another kid every year. Introduce them to the whole maternal thing early -no need for fake dolls.
Also, homeschool is vital.
And hardest of all -she cant kno youre controlling any of this -or she will rebel. Its in their DNA.
Good luck user. Youre gonna fucking need it...
>piano
I always wanted to teach my children, if I ever have them, to play piano and maybe violin. Those are the noblest instruments of all.
I work with teenagers at a special school. The biggest thing a kid needs to come up right is the correct amount of discipline. You have to walk a fine line. Beat her too much and she becomes a slut to rebel. Don't beat her enough and she becomes a slut because she doesn't understand the consequences of her actions.
Guide her towards based and wholesome hobbies. Don't bother with church. Half the sluts I fucked were "good Christian girls".
Plant the seed of values such as respect and honesty, a good moral code will naturally sprout from there.
I can't think of something that has not been said in the thread yet. But make sure she practices an efficient martial art, you do not want her to be raped by a gang of apes
Disagree, friend.
In theory it is a good idea. It works in the controlled setting of a sparring room -what with its soft surfaces and referees enforcing rules and such, but the reality is that women lack everything that is needed -even with martial arts training, to defend themselves against an aggressive man -let alone men...
The best answer is :
First - Develop an understanding that strange men are potential dangers. And simply not to put herself in a situation where she would need to fight.
Second -develop her one natural ability to defend against an attacker -her legs. Women can compete with men in terms of leg strength. If she can outrun the average man, she wont need to realize that she cant one shot them with her little women fist -like on tv.
Third -She should have training with and access to a plethora of self defense tools. Everything from the humble blade to the pistol.
>How Do I Raise a Non-Whore Daughter?
You don't. It's part of the female nature. Only a society that actively shames sluts can keep women in check. You alone can do nothing.
The best move is not to play.
if you already have a daughter, then congrats paypig 4 lyf! *spits on you*
Homeschooling.
Someone has to start then, why not user then?
teach her to shoot
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Homeschool.
The most important thing is that your children absorb all the life lessons you are trying to impart onto them without it being tainted by their teachers and peers.
Not to say insulate them completely; of course they should have siblings and friends to play with, and easing them into public/private school into their later years might be necessary if you've reached the limit of your/your wife's knowledge.
Additionally, minimal internet usage, and no social media at all.
As a grill I'd say don't beat her and don't be verbally abusive. I never liked my dad because he would always lose his temper and sometimes be rough with me, and he would get angry at everything and yell at everybody all the time. I never felt comfortable around him, never really trusted him emotionally, and could never form a good relationship. My mom also lost her temper sometimes obviously, but it wasn't constant and as intense as it was with him. My mom is my best friend and I love her. I recognize that my dad was a good person with a bad temper, that he loved us and would always support us, but his explosive personality never let me truly love him. None of my 3 sisters could form a deep bond with him.
I also know other people whose parents used physical punishment as discipline and they also never liked their parents. Losing your temper occasionally is understandable and unavoidable though. Just don't make her afraid of you.
There is a truth to that.
People absorb life lessons when imparted by love not anger.
And disappointment and other forms of emotional disapproval are much more effective than intense anger, which pushes your child away.
Yeah I've gotten this advice quite a bit, I'll def be looking into the laws here, unfortunately that is too late for my female family member's kids, but they do go to the nicest private school, so that's nice as well.
This isn't s true for sons too. Your father sounds like mine, and with the same results. Any discipline must be administered by a calm, rational authority or your relationship gets fucked up severely. I keep automatically going cold/distant on my dad and it pisses him off because he doesn't "know what's wrong with me." You have to remember that you are the adult and that you'll always win with persistence, which, if you follow this logic through, makes beatings unnecessary I'm the first place.
***I meant this IS true for sons as well
I would tend to agree, I think I'll spare the beatings as a general rule and only use them maybe a few times if they REALLY cross the line.
What I will do instead is make them do pushups, crunches and squats as punishment.
I just want to make note that I say this as a teacher myself.
The school system is inherently designed to support social "progress" through each generation. It's plain to see; students are stuck nearly exclusively within the confines of their age group as they grow up and thus do not retain the behavioral patterns and traditions of age groups that came before them. They create "new trends" every generation, because that comes naturally when you're insulated amongst each other.
Additionally, the centralization of school systems everywhere also tends to bring with it a forced "inclusiveness", and thus goals and strategies to impart "social justice" culture onto young minds as soon as they begin to attend school. Much of it is even State/Government mandated content, unfortunately.
Besides, if you can afford to have only one full-time working spouse, so that the other can homeschool, that's the way to go. Objectively, homeschooling is a superior method of imparting knowledge. In the school structure, the classroom moves at an "average pace". This means that overachievers are taught to slow down and never really excel, and underachievers are often left behind. Homeschool is geared around the individual and his/her needs, not the class. School here in the US at least as well, continues to get worse. Now it's STRICTLY about testing, and there's little room for "natural learning". Play time outside and other side activities such as art, music, etc. have been crippled in the name of test scores.
Yep, win through attrition, that is a good point.
I believe I will use this with my female senpai member's kids, I can't see them that much (3-4x a month), but I will continue to do self-improvement on myself, continue to joke around with them as much as possible, continue to do different activities with them (cards, chess, joking fighting, video games, lego, going out to malls, restaurants) and just continue to harp on my main points about self-development, avoiding degenerate programming, self control and them caring for each other/their family.
What happens when they say no...?
Also, do not associate physical exercise with punishment. You want them to like exercise; you want it to be seen as rewarding.
Very true and thank you for your perspective, I don't know how bad it is here as I haven't been in public schools for a long time and I know we're generally against faggotry, lgbtbbq illness and migrants, so not too hard, so I don't think it's quite as bad as the west, but your point still stands.
I will most definitely be looking into homeschooling as I have done a ton of studying myself and I know of a ton of things I'd rather we teach our kids than retarded schools that waste so much time on nonsense subjects most students don't have interests in or won't be able to use.
>Father has angry outbursts
>is surrounded by women
Nah no connection at all....
Timeouts, taking things away from them, I'm not sure the short term beatings do much desu, a longer slower burning (timeouts, taking things away, groundings) give them more time for contemplation and aren't as "physically brutal."
We'll see though, but I am in good shape myself, I speak extremely well, I have proper posture and will most definitely be making sure I physically engage with them so they know my strength, but I just from personal experience question the efficacy of beatings, that's all.
Oh and as far as physical punishment, technically you get endorphin rushes after, it just hurts a bit when you're doing it, so they still feel better afterwards, not like it's all bad.
All beatings don't have such effects.
If you aren't raising her in the church with a mature knowledge of Scripture you're fighting a spiritual battle with mortal weapons (and will probably lose)
>t. 2 non-degenerate daughters
Get her lots of hobbies and raise her in christian values. Also be always emotianlly mature with her if you can so see doesn't get impressed by some snake mouthed teenager.
Understand that I am not advocating for beatings. Just bringing to mind the reality that children will eventually disobey. While the things you listed are good avenues to take, they will eventually fail. What then? I suggest that you strategically introduce something of value that only you can provide them with -like driving them to social/sports activities or money in exchange for -extra- work. So that when the timeouts are no longer effective, you may then hold such over their head, in order to gain compliance.
Ultimately, if you find that a beating is necessary -you have already failed. And again, as stated in my first post -the 'village' is crucial. They cannot run to their friends or family and have their complaints validated. Your rule mist me reinforced by everyone within your childs world. This requires you to be selective of who you allow them to be around -for as long as possible.
Literally just pay attention to her so that she has an understanding of self-worth and confidence.. Or else some weed smoking turbo faggot/nigger will do that in the worst way possible
Raise her somewhere isolated in the wilderness, and NEVER, I MEAN NEVER, let her know that civilization exists elsewhere - in any other form then she's used to. That's the only hypothetically guaranteed way, otherwise it's Russian roulette.
Two of those were step sisters who didn't live with us. He had them with his male friends too and actually lost friendships because of it. We didn't spend much time around him, only my mom did since they shared a bedroom.
He had outbursts from things as simple as not being able to find the TV remote or a pen.
Oh for sure, barter and negotiation are key and I definitely agree with what you're saying as far as having something over them. I was actually using something like this over my cousin's kids recently and it went pretty well, but now that you explicitly said it, I'll keep it even more in mind
Be a man, a real man, confident, self assured, wise, able and willing to defend what's his. Set the bar high, she'll judge every man she meets against the standards you set, if you're a low quality man she'll be an easier lay and more men will score with her. If you're a high quality man fewer will qualify in her eyes.
>He had outbursts from things as simple as not being able to find the TV remote or a pen.
Typical broad logic. It isnt so much that the items were missing, so much as the items were -always- missing....
He probably made corrective comments and demands leading up to his outbursts, but you being a disrespectful twat, didnt concern yourself with his happiness.
Same goes for the other girls -you are all basically the same.
This:
Came back to say this. You have to be the authority in the household. Do not all for the whole 'husband and wife team' bullshit. Even your wife must heed your will. If your children -boy and girl- see this, it will simultaneously teach your boys how to be men and your girls what to look for in a man.
This used to be understood, if subconsciously.
Thing is they weren't missing, he just couldn't find them right away and made a scene. There's absolutely no need to get so angry and insult everybody because you can't find something anyway.
None of us were ever disrespectful. And like I said this wasn't an isolated issue, he had outbursts around everybody he knew and not just his family.
Sure.