ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

I'm not tall myself, but I have seen friends being very sensitive about this kinda thing. Maybe it's because everyone wants a tall bf/cute short gf relationship? Since when you're smaller you feel protected and if you're insecure about your body being "smaller" means you get less attention too. Though you can always mention nice stuff like having long legs or looking like a model. Also not being able to wear nice heels must be a pain.

Congratulations!

You learn to live with it
Its liking fearing stumbling and falling, there's not much you can do about it, sometimes it happens even if you're very careful

I’m 6’2. I hate it so much. I’ve managed to get a pretty cute guy to ask me out on a date though, thanks to this thread, but overall I wish I was shorter and more feminine.

Why wouldn’t she respond to my second text if she appeared to enthusiastically respond to the first one. It’s been over 24 hours. Excluding the fact that she may have been busy. Wouldn’t it make more sense for her to not have responded to the first text if she didn’t want to talk?

Don't overthink so much, keep waiting and do other things meanwhile, like looking for other girls

Is he shorter than you?

Yes, why?

that makes sense, its just painful for me when things dont work out because im desperate for emotional intimacy and idk how not to be.

Don't put all your eggs in the same basket and you won't feel as bad when one of your baskets fall over

I saw my ex gf at an event. We broke up like four years ago. She was (for whatever reason) not with her current bf (of like two or so years) when I saw her.
She seemed happy to see me and eager to hang out for a bit (with a big dopey smile on her face), but I made up some excuse and left. I've felt weird about it ever since. After years of coldness does she miss me?

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As far as women go, you're a giant
And the 'social expectation' is that men date women that are shorter than them

She may remember your past relationship fondly and wanted to have some news about your life
Friendship between exes can be a thing

Well he’s the first guy to ask me out and not just want sex, so I was happy to agree to go on a date with him. He’s cute and nerdy which definitely piques my interest.

that makes sense too, guess i gotta find out how to meet more girls

Same way you meet guys

Yeah you're probably right holy dogshit this is weighing on my chest

Just be like regular friends and don't let things advance. Don't do romantic shit.

Girls: Why do some girls gain such an extreme amount of weight after highschool?

I've been seeing people I went to highschool with lately and they're all landwhales now. They aren't party girls or anything either, they were just regular people and some were a little nerdy but they've all ballooned.

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>social pressure slackens
>daily regimen slackens
>disposable income increases

But a lot of guys from highschool didn't balloon? Some have even lost weight. Why the difference?

Our social pressures are different. After school a lot of the guys my age got into working out. Also post-highschool is when men come into their full muscle tone and the height of their sexual appeal, so we make more of an effort. Whereas girls are more valuable younger.

Metabolism changes, if they stop excersicing daily and keep the same diet, they gain weight.
I grew up outside the city, so a gym never made sense to me. There were always stuff to do around the house and I was active when I worked.
5 years ago, I changed career to a desk job in a city. I gained 20 kg and have really struggled to loose it.
I used to eat so much bad food and would be fine. Now I can barely look at a leaf of salad and I start to gain weight.

So in a way, women peak in highschool and guys peak after highschool?

What about long term? Will these guys stay in shape and will these women continue to balloon or will they fix things? I knew one of the nerdy girls and she was really nice but has become really big and sad looking.

But that's the thing. This girl I knew was never particularly active and was one of the comic book and cosplayer types. I can't imagine that she would have become extremely inactive in just the last few years.

Depends on discipline. You have the advantage of growing during high school which consumes a lot of the calories you consume, and everything after that is about how committed you are to working out and eating right. The guys who get Jow Forums might let it slide as they get further on in life but that's not to say they'll get actually fat, and the girls who ballooned right out of the gate might get their shit together when they hit 25 and realise that their sexual market value is low and their womb is begging them to have children.

How do I show someone I care? I love a girl, but I don't know how to show her that. I went for the cliché things to compliment her when we dated before, but that went nowhere and I don't know what to do to get her back.

How did you lose her?

I'm really insecure, so when our relationship went from everything working out to weeks of not being able to see eachother, I freaked out and figured it'd be easier to pull out sooner than get hurt worse later. Needless to say, I really fucked up there

Are you still on talking terms? You fucked up pretty badly but it may be salvageable if she cares about you and hasn't moved on

We have an agreement that if I stay sober until Labour Day, she'll take me back. We talk every once in a while, but whenever we try to plan to do something, something always pops up.

>We have an agreement that if I stay sober until Labour Day, she'll take me back.
Are you an alcoholic?

I've only had a problem with booze on the forth. I need to stay away from everything but that, but now I'm not so sure I need to touch anything.

A QUESTION OF VOCABULARY FOR FEMANONS,just because I've often wondered.

In the privacy of your own head, when you happen to think about them, do you think about your "breasts", "tits", "boobs" or what?

And what word appears in your head when thinking about your genitalia?

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Where do I go in general to find girls, I don't drink so i don't go to bars, and Party girls aren't my thing so I don't go clubbing or any of the other similar kinds of things.

There's girls everywhere outside
Go in game stores, conventions
Use meet up apps
Just remember one thing: you can't find girls in your basement

Sure there might be a bunch outside, but i cant just ask random people on the street out.

Australia has a lack of apps, I've tried several but am pretty ugly so i don't get to talk to any girls.

I'm not in my ''basement'', there isn't a good place to get to meet or get to know a girl or two.

Im very certain that guys asking out girls in conventions and stores is pretty creepy/wierd same as just asking random people out on the street, id rather not get dragged away by security if i can help it.

thanks for the attempt though

Alright this is an easy one.
I got cheated on a few month back, so we broke off. I was feeling like shit, drank a bit too much, yada yada. I didn't talk to her for the past 4 month, to get a chance to heal and move on. Got better, worked on myself, and I'm now a completely different man.
However she sent me a little message a week ago, it wasn't much, just that a band we liked played in my city soon.
Since then I kept thinking about sending a message to her, but I know it's a shitty idea.
Tell me I'm a dumb fuck and I shouldn't do it.
Thanks !

Don't ask them out directly, you sperg
>I'm ugly
Looks aren't everything, confidence is

She wants to drag you back in to a hot mess. Don't let her take you back in her sinister clutches!

I don't lack the confidence to talk to someone, but dating apps never let it get that far.
Even chatting to randoms at where ever you like without some overarching stable context as to why were all here together is weird and creepy. Ive never made a friend outside of some kind of shared activity/hobby/school/work, nor would i ever expect to make a friend outside of those places. Conventions have too little time to actually talk to someone without it being a bother.

My boyfriend teased me about cheating on me while we were about to fuck.
I was kind of upset, but also very turned on. He was really turned on, kinda liked that I got jealous and upset.

What the fuck happened?

>inb4 he is cheating
He isn't.

Either he wants to make you a cuckquean or he was just glad you like him enough to be upset about him suggesting he could cheat. Idk.

>Ive never made a friend outside of some kind of shared activity/hobby/school/work
Obviously, you don't make friends outside of those

It looks like you have other issues to tackle before getting a girl

We made clear at the beginning that we are strictly monogamous so I'd think he knows that if he wants to fuck other girls I'm out.

Once a cheater always one.
Block and delete her number.
What exactly did he say?
I don't get how you could "tease" about that

My school's the opposite, only the guys have ballooned up. And a few of the fat girls are actually really slim now.
I don't think it's really a gender thing, overall, it's just gonna skew either way sometimes when you've got a small sample size.

Could you give me some hint as to what those are or were you just trying to shut down the conversation?

He started talking about fucking other girls. Told me he won't have kids with them so it doesn't count, etc. He didn't do it seriously, was being kind of cocky.
Just something he never joked about.

Boobs and vag.

My boyfriend says all kinds of weird shit during sex, I think it's just a guy thing.

>Don't message me if you use the word "feminazi"
Girls, is this something that you'd put on your dating site profile? Because many, many girls in my area do.

>all kinds of weird shit during sex,
Yea, I sometimes say "I love you" during sex

So nice of them to help you dodge a bullet
Follow their advices

they even help you to scout easily the human trash they are, i would pay for such a privilege

Go back to the dark web with that shit you sick fuck.

Sometimes I hold their hands in public

How to tell a desperate creeper with a worthless kid, fat baby mama and an ugly wife to fuck off from this place? This loser keeps bragging about his shit life on here for some wierd reason and never actually ask how to fix his problems such as his hideous wife.

>bad karma train hit this loser really hard because he went around covering it up that he was sexually harrassing females for sex in the workplace.

I always see friends pick up girls and I don’t understand how they do it. Quick fire tips?

literally learn by imitation
if you fail it means you just are ugly, or at least uglier than them (most of times, it isnt an unbreakable rule, but it works if we are talking about the casual hit on)

>was making bf's lunch this morning
>asked him what he wanted me to pack
>he got frustrated and hit himself in the head 3-4x really fast/hard
>got freaked out, talked to him in gentle tone to calm him down and went over options
>eventually got his lunch packed and got him out the door
This is totally not normal at all, right? He has done stuff like this before too, this was so sudden and violent it scared me. It's not even 8am yet, I don't know what could have brought that on, should I try and talk to him tonight or what?

What the actual fuck

Literally my reaction, I'm sitting here wondering if I've been dating a crazy dude for five years :(

He was probably feeling really anxious about it. Definitely talk to him, without a doubt, but give him as much time as he needs.

with open palm in the temple or closed fist in the face? sometimes i get a sharp pain for a couple seconds and i hit it like that, but it's not triggered by people talking to me

Is it a good sign when a girl giggles instead of laughing?

Answered in the FAQ
>>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
>Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

Girls

1. Your country
2. Have MOST girls participated in casual sex in your country?
3. Explain

1 France
2 No
3 Explain what?

>explain what?
it’s kind of a stereotype that french women are very open sexually. This is not the case?

1. Italy (but im a girl with a penis)
2. define casual, if you mean without even knowing the name of the guy then no, if a one date fuck then yes
3. already did

>very open sexually
What do you mean by very open sexually?
I know women that do ONS but they're outnumbered by those who don't

>but im a girl with a penis
Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
>”if one date fuck then yes”
Oh ok...

>I know women that do ONS but they're outnumbered by those who don't
That’s good

You didn't answer my question.

Very open sexually as in ONS. Where I live there happens to be many french au pairs. They can always be found at night clubs grinding on men during the weekends. One of my co-workers goes to those clubs a lot and says the french girls there are very easy

>Poland
>no
>Catholic upbringing, conservative households
But obviously it's starting to change now

1. Cyprus
2. No, wouldn't say so
3. It's still kind of conservative. I remember most girls either having no bf or being in long-term relationships. My friend who's 11 years older said when he was a teenager, if you fucked a girl and it was found out, you were expected to marry her

Dont mix up sluts in vacation and the girls in their home country
Every attractive people has an easier time abroad

>Every attractive people has an easier time abroad
That shouldn’t matter. They are the ones making the choices to be with different men. Those same girls would do the same in France too. Vacation isn’t an excuse

And you are making the choice to be bitter
Even if we disapprove, we have no rights of telling them how to behave, unless they're hurting others

I don't use dating sites, but if a guy used that it would be a red flag

1. Italy
2. Not in my groups. I know a few people who had fuck buddies, but no one who had a ONS. 80% of girls I know only fucked their bfs. Very few people stay virgin till marriage.

It's not something I would bother to write out in my profile but it is very telling if someone uses vocabulary like that.
Just go whereever your own hobbies take you and take it from there.
There's like a hundred possible reasons for that, don't overthink it this early on.

Guys, how do I break up with someone who loves me very much and is very likely oblivious that I have not been happy in the relationship? I need to do this for both our sakes but I find I don't have the heart to break his.

You tell him clearly how you feel

First time didn't went as smoothly as I liked. Was able to get hard but once the condom was on I start getting soft. It made it a lot more difficult to get in and she's really tight. Once in it was nice but because I couldn't keep it solid it was hard to get a flow going.

We were both nervous so we laughed it off and said we'll work on it and next time will be better. A baby should be able to bust out of that hole, and right after she made my dick diamonds rubbing her tits on it. So what are we doing wrong?

>So what are we doing wrong?
Nothing, the first time isn't expected to be great
You were most likely very stressed, it will be better next time
Just a tip: There is never enough foreplay

You were nervous.
That's it.

Never having sex was your problem, you probably had performance anxiety, it may happen again if you aren't comfortable. It literally takes 9 months for a vagina to get prepared to give birth, and they still have to use medication to stretch it out, women don't just walk around with a gaping hole under their pants

italian here too
they simply legitimate their whore attitude by changing boyfriend once a week, it might seem different on paper but it really isnt

My wife wants to get a vibrator to use during sex. She said her female friends use them with their male partners all the time. At first I wasn’t 100% ok with this but now I’m warming up to the idea. what should I do with it when V-day hits, everyone?

>Was able to get hard but once the condom was on I start getting soft

I have the exact same problem. It’s probably condoms, lad. My gf doesn’t use birth control, so we have to use condoms. But she will get my dick hard as a rock and flowing of pre-cum before sex. But as soon as I put on the condom I can feel myself immediately starting to get soft so I have to very quickly put myself in her pussy before I get too soft. Condoms are difficult for me, and my orgasms with condoms are pretty weak

Penetrate her and use the vibrator on her clit