Sex

What are the patterns and signs that a guy just wants casual heterossexual sex, a colorful friendship?

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He has a functioning penis

Based.

1. He's too forward and is always trying to force sexual contact (I'm not talking about rapey stuff. You know what I mean)
2. He's distant and it's difficult to form any sort of real bond with him

I know because I'm a male and I've been in those positions. In some of them I regret the way I behaved, because even though I did want sex, I ended up missing her when she got fed up with my bullshit, and I basically didn't recognize her as a longtime partner when I still had her.

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>real bond
How do I recognize that? And good that you learned, user. I hope you get a second chance!

Just describe your specific personal problem.
P.S. I'm not , I'm

I think I'm out of second chances but thanks.

Relationships are formed by simple human connections. Does he ever text you just to see what you're up to? Does he ever ask about things you're interested in? Basically, do you ever have meaningful conversations with this guy?

If you tell me a little about your specific experience I can probably ascertain whether or not he wants something long-term or just wants to fuck you.

Just remember that it's not uncommon for lust to evolve into something more.

>Does he ever text you just to see what you're up to? Does he ever ask about things you're interested in?
How often would that be?
And I'm sorry, I just don't feel comfortable talking about such a specific thing in here

Then what the hell are you doing here at all?

I can't ask this on Jow Forums

You seem to be a troll.

Not him but I think I've offered all the advice I can in this thread without knowing the specifics. Even though there's little chance whoever you are talking about will ever see this thread.

Best of luck.

>there's little chance
true, I am paranoid
> we met at a concert, kissed once, told him I was looking for a fleeting relationship
> he didn't spoke to me for 2 weeks +or-
> in one month I sent 4 memes, he spoke to me 3 times, but it wasn't meaningful at all (I also think he is a bit dumb)
> asked me out withouth a plan on what to do, after some time he suggested we got to the cinema

he talks to you.

>I also think he is a bit dumb
THE BIG RED FLAG. It doesn't matter what's your age.

I see your point, but I don't wanna be alone, and dumb people can be funny sometimes

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this reads so sad lol

>be funny sometimes
Do you think that's enough to spread your legs?

>Do you think that's enough to spread your legs?
no, but I don't think it's fair to shut someone down just because they are a bit dumb

>no, but
Don't you think you just use that mutt only for your personal entertainment?

This is not the foundation of a lasting relationship at all. "That chicked you kissed at a concert" is a comedic trope for dumb things that you don't really remember. Especially if he's good looking, he probably considers you just one more bitch on his contact list. Find another guy.

>he probably considers you just one more bitch on his contact list
Looks like they both try to use each other.

Eh.

I've got severe. SEVERE. SEVERE. Anxiety issues and even I know that you tell the girl where to be, and when to be there.

To me, it sounds less like this guy is just looking for a quick fuck, and more like he has no idea what he's doing.

oh, we studied together for 2 years

but thanks anons, your answers made me think a lot, it really sounds like a bad idea to go if it is so uncertain...

You're welcome.

This whole sign reading business is the #1 reason you kids never get what you want out of relationships. So spend so much time trying to read signs you fail to ever use your words and confront people directly with your feelings and intentions.

Some of the signs and patterns I guess would be if he tried to have sex with you or take you to a location for the purpose of having sex? If you're that curious how about you just open you mouth and ask?

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If he fucks you and only calls when he wants a fuck. How hard is that?