Can men and women be just friends?

im a male nurse. I have one other one male coworker. The women i work with i fucking detest. There are a few i consider 'work friends' but otherwise i just straight up hate them.

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I think it is possible. Very hard to accomplish, but possible. There has to be little to no attraction. I was able to accomplish this once, mainly because she was a land whale and it was an Internet friendship. She fucked over my marriage though, so friendship was ended.

Still no. Men and women make friends and friendships differently than each other, and for different reasons.

Guess which discord server was just reported?

Absolutely not, one will eventually catch the feels and ruin the friendship

Das a man

Did you at least check it out first? My Little Pony might be degenerate as fuck, but I don't think discord would ban them just for being furfags.

It is possible.
There are conditions though.

Sure, if there is no sexual attraction involved.
Age difference also is a factor.
It is probably not the same as male friendships, but does it have to be?

casual acquaintances
but never friends

I am a male nurse too, most of the women are awful. The guys are usually pretty chill though.

I will saying that being a male RN has gotten me countless bangs outside the hospital.

Elaborate

So, no then.

only the ugly ones

but she was attracted to you because she was ugly, so... what you mean is no

This is fucking hilarious. Good to see.

unironically this

>Men will insult each other and not mean it, while women will compliment each other and not mean it
Men and women's biological differences means we play the game of life with different rules and different "winning" or "successful" conditions. Men are, by nature, expendable. We have no inherent value to the group except that which we can make for ourselves. This expendable quality also makes us nature's experiment subject, with more variability in size, strength, IQ, and other qualities among men than there is among women (e.g., there are more male geniuses *and* male idiots than there are either of women, who are more prone to hug the mean of these figures). This variability is, for instance, why nearly all the dregs of any society are men (homeless, criminals, cannon fodder, etc.), and many men - the vast majority, in fact, if we look at all of history - never successfully reproduce. So, what this means for male friendships is that men live and die by their friendships. A man absolutely requires friends he can rely on and who he must stand with, or else he starts to whither and crack and go nuts, while also being isolated and vulnerable because he has no support. Along with this is the need for trust, and a reputation for reliability, as their absence means isolation and death. So, men make strong, trustworthy, long-term bonds for mutual support and assistance throughout life.
Women have a different ruleset. As men are defined by their innate valuelessness, women are defined by their innate value: their womb, and their ability to reproduce and create life. It takes a tremendous toll - biologically, in terms of energy consumed and potential health risks, and psychologically, too. And, just as men have more variant trait diversity because nature can experiment with the men, nature is more cautious with women, and keeps them more average and uniform, as such genetic risks could not be overcome if compounded with the physical risks of birth.

TBC

Yes, but you must find them unattractive. In my experience, women are better at discussing emotions and people than men.

quads of truth.

Friendships between women is a different situation. Women seek security (naturally, given all the risks mentioned before), and this almost always comes in the form of a male protector. Hence, female relations tend to be male-centric, in their ways. (Ever notice how a girl can simply drop into the life of some guy, and take on his friends and interests and worldview and just meld into his life?) Most female friendships exist to secure opportunity to get access to males. Women will work with each other for a variety of reasons, but they are all self-serving: some girls are bffs with an uglier girl so they appear more attractive in comparison; some will pretend to be a great friend to a woman, only to say awful things about her to another group of women whom she perceives as higher status. Women's relationships are temporary alliances of convenience. It's why two girls can be best of friends for months and months and then turn bitter enemies over the course of a week.

So, that's different friends and friendships, for different reasons. Male friendships are about long-term alliances for long-term survival. Friends are chosen carefully, and are a source of mutual advancement. Female friendships are about short-term alliances for immediate benefit.
Even among dikes and fags, the friendship will be on the female terms of immediate benefit, and will end when the dike feels the fag is no longer worthwhile.

>gives faggot high-effort posts
>no (You)s in return
This right here has officially convinced me that the day of the rope is eminently desirable.

Depends who you ask...If you asked Ben Shapiro's wife the answer is probably Yes.

5ft 3" randy Manlet arrives home after subverting the Goy and she is like, "Jesus No!" and Ben is like, "Does Jesus still work for our Pool-cleaning Contractor?" Mrs Shapiro goes thru the fleeting motions later and gets there thinking of his huge bank account and Jesus,...her other secret Friend.

Possible if there's no romantic attraction on both sides.

No, a womans male "friends" are just beta orbiters

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They can just be friends but the woman needs to be fugly with a fun personality which is super rare.

Wut.

What a bunch of stupid whores. The city life really got into their brains, thinking it's normal to have so many people around you constantly. Then no wonder women have so many sexual partners in big cities, then they still claim they can be just friends. Beta orbiters aren't just friends, if they were that, then they wouldn't need them.

yes and no.

men and women can only be friends if:
#1 - they're members of the same family, whether close or distant relations.
#2 - they're workmates who have a legitimate, economic reasoning for being "friends."

aside from that, no.

women cannot perceive men as equal to them, only above or below them in status. women don't want to be "friends" with anyone they perceive as above them in status, they want to fuck them. if a woman wants to fuck you, you'll know. so if a woman is spending time with you or talking to you and not making it blatantly obvious she wants to fuck you, she perceives you as lower in value, has no interest in you and is wasting time on you for some other reason, likely negative. because a woman knows instinctively that a man won't spend time on a woman unless he's interested. because it's as simple as this. every second you spend on a woman you're not fucking, or that you don't want to fuck, is a second that could be used to pursue a woman you do want to fuck, or a second that could be used fucking a woman. so logic dictates if you're using that time on her, it's because you're interested, and she knows this, so she's leading you on.

also, men who are friends with women are essentially advertising to the world that they're willing to give women the benefits of a relationship without getting anything in return. it's essentially social castration.

if you're not fucking her, or if she's not pursuing you, you're wasting your time and have no reason to have any kind of relations with her.

Proabably not true friends that you can hang out with day in and day our for hours at a time because one of the two would start to develop emotional feelings and seek a relationship. You could probably still causally hang out once a week or a couple time a month and still be friends though. Or if you had sex a couple of times and decided a relationship wasn’t right between the two of you. It’ll never match the friendship had with a member of the same sex though.

Roll

I've read your posts I had nothing to add. Here's your (you).

I sincerely doubt you would still be able to harvest the same opinions if you made a similar video today. It's insane how fast feminism, SJW's and beta-ness has changes society.

It's all going down the drain.

Yes, it's possible

>men and women can only be friends if:
>#1 - they're members of the same family, whether close or distant relations.

And why do you think this is user? Do you believe that sexual repulsion to relatives is genetic or that it's because both parties actually choose to exercise self control?

I'd say it's possible for men and women to be friends, but that both people to have the restraint possible to exercise it. The guy needs to value the friendship more than fucking her, which is totally possible if he has options beyond her, is already dating someone, is a lot older so fucking women of the same age isn't as important, isn't attracted to her sexually but enjoys her company, etc.

I would say it's possible
>grew up with the same people from nursery to high school most of which were girls
But yeah as a guy you do see them eventually as potential partners while the women strictly almost "friends". On a related note my best friend developed feelings for one of our female friends now the whole gang dynamic is fucked cause he got rejected

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no it's not possible because there is something one person finds attractive about the other to initiate the friendship and in all likelihood if the opportunity to go beyond a platonic friendship was presented one party would take it making it not a friendship but someone waiting in the friendzone. Maybe it's possible with being friends with a lesbian or a gay guy

there is no purpose to having relations with the opposite sex (non-familial) on a personal level outside of sexual relationships. it only benefits women, not men.

have acquaintances, sure, but keep your distance. anything beyond that is social suicide, you're lowering your status by offering yourself to women for free.

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The only women "friends" I have are ones that are taken, or vice versa, when I've been in a relationship. Case in point, I got to know my neighbor and his girlfriend and I was friendly with her (she'd text me occasionally, added me on social media, etc). Not one month after they broke up, she was in my bed riding my dick until I came.

This video is great for exposing the thot double standard

A man can't be friends with a woman who has rejected his efforts at courtship.

Women have nothing to offer that can't be offered, better, by another man except sex. No, her platonic companionship isn't more important than fucking her. It never will be.

Yes but its kindness to a male after rejection to have no further contact. This will help then move on faster than languishing in unrequited love. Don't drop any hopeful hints. Don't compliment him. Don't answer the phone. Don't try to be friends. Leave him alone. If you have rejected efforts at courting, the kindest thing you can do is have no further contact. You can't be friends. He was sincere in his desire and any hope followed by rejection followed by hope followed by rejection and its likely to cause psychiatric damage if he or she was sincere. Don't play with other peoples hearts. Girls who like attention have no further entitlement to a boys attention after rejection and should not seek it. The same is true for boys who have hurt girls in this manner. If they were sincere, the rejection will hurt. Leave them alone.

Dude. You have the start of a great novel there. Lonely JAP bags pool boy named “Jesus”. I can’t wait to read it.

Women are too stupid and incapable of higher thought to be friends with if you're not interested in her hole. There's no such thing as an intelligent woman.

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racist much?

noticing a female is attractive is the same as noticing a male is attractive. there are objective criteria.

Men and women can be friends.

No.Women are either sex toys or prospect mothers of your children.They have no other use.

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