Should I give up on my requirement for girls to be virgins when I date them?

Wait what? No I want to marry one.

That’s why you look at the girl’s behavior. That can be a big tell tale sign. If she wants to have sex with you after just a few dates, she’s probably a slut. a girl who had a new “boyfriend” every week is still a slut. That’s why you have to judge their character and behavior

Yes, you should be open to a girl who isn't a virgin.
That being said, you should still try to find a modest girl.
There are two types of people when it comes to sex: people who value it and believe it has special meaning, and those who see it as a casual activity between 2 people.
You sound like someone who believes the former, so you should look for someone who has a similar attitude.

>Wait what? No I want to marry one.
Then WTF have you been doing since 18 and WhyTF are you wasting your time on Jow Forums now?
Do you like this trolling ?

Relationships with virgins I've dated since 18 didn't work out. One moved away, one was too messed up and one revealed she wasn't a virgin after 3 years of dating, what the fuck am I supposed to do?

Agree.
One slut, by the age of 19, fu*ked with 5 guys: 1 ~ every 6-7 months.

>3 years of dating
Are you fu*king NUTS? 3 damn years! You had to learn that after several MONTHS!

Dude. She lied to me about it. Then admitted it.

Wait, how did you misunderstand that?

So your desire is to date nine year olds...

It's natural to prefer virgins. Depending on your age however, demanding virginity from a young woman in this day and age might border on an unrealistic expectation, unless you're will to date several years below your age. Assuming that you're in your late teens/early twenties and you're looking for a qt around your age, yes, you should definitely look for virgins if you're interested in serious, long-term dating/courtship. If you're much past your early twenties however, I would recommend lowering your standards a bit and instead pursue women who have a track record of steady fidelity and wise decision making. I actually wrote a post about a year ago on the "ideal number of sexual partners" given a woman's age. Lemme see if I can find it...

In any case, you're going to have better luck finding virgins among young women who come from devoted religious families and have good relationships with their fathers.

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Found it. For you, OP:

ON THE MAXIMUM NUMBER OF PREVIOUS SEXUAL PARTNERS FOR A POTENTIAL WIFE:
By age,
Up to 22: None.
From 22-26: Upper bound is two.
26+: Upper bound is four.
After that, I wouldn't trust a woman who had engaged in sex acts with more than a small handful of partners. This implies poor future planning and impulse control, as well as the willingness to establish an intimate relationship through sex acts first instead of affirmation of mutualistic perspectives on the big topics, i.e. sex, marriage, children, religion, politics, future aspirations, etc.
Though, what’s more important than partner count (though the smaller, the better, with ZERO partners being ideal) are the circumstances which preluded her sexual encounters.
1. If she has engaged in ANY one-night stands, that's a huge red flag. This is especially true if the one-night stands were actions of vindication (rebelling against the perceived prudery of her parents) or were self-medicating attempts to drown out trauma/rejection.
2. If she has engaged in casual sex with what she calls her "friends" and not her romantic partners, that's another big red flag--sex is best reserved for a level of social intimacy superior to that of platonic friendship.
3. Any public or voyeuristic acts of sex are a definite NO. A girl that willingly agrees to create pornography will probably view her sexuality as a means of garnering attention, and unlike prostitution, the voyeurism implies apathy towards the preservation of her PUBLIC image. If true desperation drives a woman to prostitution, she can still attempt to preserve an image of modesty by keeping her sexual exchanges as private as possible. A woman can't be a porn actress “in private”, since the very purpose of engaging in pornography is to profit from the accompanying exhibition of her sexuality.

And if it's any consolation for you OP, I've only had two girlfriends and both were virgins when I met them. One of them was actually in her junior year of university when I met her and hadn't even been kissed when we started dating. There are girls out there who have traditional perspectives on sex and relationships, but you're going to have to be patient on your search for them.

>this faggot here is on the verge of breaking down and crying because he desperately wants his gf to be a virgin
>I get a virgin gf without even thinking about it, and ever since popping her cherry, I've been fucking her several times a day
kek

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They exist. There is a thread here on advice that I was just in talking about female virginity. It devolved into arguing towards the end though. A lot of anons chimed in as being female virgins (although it could always be a larp) Maybe go on a dating website tailored to virgins? It has to exist.

I have the cutest relationship with a girl most people here would consider a slut.

Virginity is a spook.

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I think so, yes.

>Why?
Because virgins are so rare that while it might not be impossible to find one, being dead set upon it pretty much requires you to abandon most any other standard. The issue with most guys wanting virgins isn't so much THAT they want a virgin girl, it's that they want her to be a virgin AND to be cute AND to be sweet AND to be smart AND to be compatible with them AND to be mentally stable.

People truly worthwhile and interested in you are rare and few people can afford to turn them down because you feel haunted by the ghost of penis past.

> Maybe go on a dating website tailored to virgins?
>tfw no virginsonly.com
Normie folk just don't get it