So she told me she lost her viriginity to a guy who gave her mind-blowing orgasms and after sex she would sleep like a...

My ex did this when we first started talking. I was young so I didn't think much of it, why do they bring it up early?

As a form of shit test I guess.

In retrospect I feel like it was a way to try and control and make me feel insecure. Not sure if thats accurate but reflecting thoughts seem to think so

Why don't you just fucking ask her why she wants to be with you, instead of asking for sound relationship advice from a den of virgins?

>she couldn't hold on to those guys for some reason
That's exactly what it feels like. I feel like a consolation prize for her, since the people she really wants to be with are unavailable. It seems like she's just settling and that makes me really unhappy, it's like if they were around she'd leave me instantly and probably dreams of them

When I did, she seemed embarrassed that she made them sound like the best sort of people in the world, but that she was trying to be honest with me. She said that she's happy she made those choices though

I see what people mean when they say that girls settle down because 'Chads' can't commit, yet the girls dream of them all the time. That is exactly what this feels like

>girl has no sexual history with her long list of exes
>gives me her virginity and a year and a half of a relationship
>realize why she had a long list of exes when she has problems with who you are as a person after a long extended time
If she's with you because she likes you it's because you're either Mr Right or you're just another guy she'll try to fit to a checklist to see if it fits her vision of Prince Charming

Why would you care if she chose you dummy?

Just because you give a girl your time, doesn't mean she's obligated to fuck you

No male thinks he's obligated to sex. But if you spend a whole day doing shit for a woman a little fucking appreciation is nice

That's what I'm trying to think. She's with me because she likes me, she might see something in me that is better than everyone else she's seen before, but I struggle to believe that. I only think she's with me because she doesn't want to be alone, and that if they come back or someone better shows up she'll just up and leave. And why would that be so wrong anyway? She's just trying to find a better match

then take the sign for what it is. don't fall in love with this girl don't marry her she will eventually run away if she is what you said she is casually date her until you find somebody better or she find somebody better because everything she's going to tell you will be a lie how do we know statistics facts history on all those things they tell you not to pay attention to wait wait or is it the other way around

don't get attached my friendo

enjoy while it lasts, but be detached from outcome

Do what you feel is right!

Jesus dude, you are so insecure

Is it insecurity? Are you sure? Cause I can work on that

This is right. I'm an actual retard and ruined a great relationship by doing this.

She does sound a bit like a stupid hoe OP. I mean, in my opinion it's very disrespectful to tell your new boyfriend in vivid detail about how some other dude was amazing in bed.

I'm single right now but i would never tell my future girlfriend about some amazing sexual experiences i've had with my ex. You just don't.

You keep these things to yourself and the person you experienced it with. POSSIBLY you could tell your friends about it, but that's it.

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I know everything about my gfs sexual past and I just see it as an incentive to become the best she's ever had.

I might even have come close to achieving this status already.

Yes it is
If you fuck her good it doesn't matter
But it seems like this isn't going to last

I don't get what you're trying to say, please be simpler

Shouldn't you be able to be open with your significant other? Why should you keep secrets?

How do you not become insecure or angry that she's made some amazing memories with someone else, that she thinks about it and gets horny or something?
All those special moments?

agreed this

I think what he's trying to say is that you shouldn't fall in love with her, let alone marry her, because she will never love you. She will likely jump ship the second a "Chad" comes along and sweet talks her with promises of commitment. If you are already married, she will simply cheat on you. I won't go so far and say she'll have his child and not tell you it's not yours, but the chances are highest with the type of woman you are dating.

Make better ones or you're just a downgrade
Stop being a lesser man

Why do Manbabies ask such questions? Stop asking who or how she fucked in her past...

It's more childish to stay in denial, how can you be committed to someone if you don't know their past

I thought he was saying the opposite...
We're in early stages, I think she was just being honest with me, but maybe you're right. Maybe she just doesn't care too much about me and I'm just keeping her busy and she doesn't see much in me.

I didn't say ask her about her previous sexual encounters, I said ask her why she wants to be with you.

outdo it, i dont get sad, i get angry, and anger gives me energy to fuck her pussy harder than any little fuckface every tried

Because she hasn't.
Most of the dudes she's been with have been really weird, especially the biggest she had. Her first meathead boyfriend had a long dick, which enabled some interesting moves, but he sucked at getting her off and never managed to do so with his hands or mouth.
Her favourite guy was her second bf, a manlet (smaller than her), dicklet, simply because he was really obsessed with pleasing her. He was dumb as hell and really immature.
And flings/ONS sucks by default, because good Sex takes time.

>mfw I'm that first guy for another guy like you

But really man, she's with you for a reason. I know my girlfriends past and she knows mine - mind you its because we brought it up and decided to talk about it.

It isn't a big deal. Don't over think it and ruin what you have due to insecurity.

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I'm a guy, best sex of my life was my last ex, which was over a decade ago now. Been married and have kids with someone who at best is about half as sexually pleasing.

And I wouldn't have it any other way. Do I sometimes think about the hours of sweaty slap and tickle? The simultaneous orgasms? Feeling her have like 5 in a row? Yeah, sometimes. But I didn't marry her. I married my wife. And I love my wife.

There's a really important message in there if you ditch youthful insecurity and see it.

If you're already having doubts, that's a bad sign.

You seriously think you have a chance to compete with her sexual history? Just how used up are her 'goods' downstairs? If they resemble "meat curtains" because she can fit a bedpost as thick as her arm inside, you have no chance at all. Ditch her.

Don't be a doormat, have some self respect. Don't let her or anyone else even try to guilt-trip you into this. She isn't entitled to your financial livelihood any more than you are to any thing of hers.
Exactly.

This.
This.

OP, she probably sees you as a provider and not truly a lover. Has probably already thought how to put legal hooks into your wallet should you let her entrap you.

This is your intuition speaking, that is good you still posses it. Listen to it. Do not live in denial.

tell her to fuck off lol