How long can a guy play hard to get before a girl loses interest?

How long can a guy play hard to get before a girl loses interest?

Let's say the attraction level is high.

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you understand that women are individuals right? They don't all come with a user manual of standardized specs.

Just do it pussy

Honestly I'm shocked a guy is playing hard to get.

I probably should.

Depends on the girl. Some will have a crush on you for years and some will say fuck it and move on. I'd say ask yourself why you're playing hard to get? Do you not like this girl or what?

Because I'm terrible at approaching girls or 'opening'. I just don't know what to say. So I've been playing the cool mysterious thing and she eye fucks every time I see her and tries to cross paths with me.

Well good for you then, but you're probably not going to get anywhere with that strategy.

Do you know how to have fun with people? Focus on that instead of putting pressure on yourself to get her or letting the opportunity pass

thanks

I'm trying. I'm in a period where I'm trying to better at that sort of thing. The girls at work say I'm attractive so I think that's why the aloof thing works for me sometime.

The relationships where I played hard to get and negelcted her were always my best ones, and they all fell apart as soon as I started to show interest back.

Yeah but I assume you asked her out, I wasn't talking about in the actual relationship.

Nope, they came onto me. Always in situations where I wasn't really invested in them at all and would have been fine if they disappeared.

Damn. Teach me your ways grandfather.

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"Hard to get" and "asshole" works on highly insecure girls. You will not get a quality woman this way, and truth is if you're on this thread asking, another dude is doing it better right now...

Don't be a fucking game playing retard. If she likes you you're in. It's super hard to fuck that up. If she doesn't move on.

It's a catch 22, user. You can't just put on a 'hard to get' act. You have to genuinely not be invested/interested in pursuing them. At least that's how it has been for me. You'll hear people saying you have to be happy alone before you can find someone else, and I think it's true. All of my serious relationships came around during times where I just said fuck it and stopped caring about relationships and stopped looking for them. Then they just kinda fell into my lap out of nowhere.

It's really hard to get yourself to accept it (believe me I know), but you really just need to be okay with being single. Stop looking for a relationship. Just put yourself out there in situations where you meet new people, and be open to making new friends. Be comfortable with your life and you will find someone.

Also, I think maybe I was sending the wrong message by saying "playing hard to get".

What said is true. What I'm trying to say is basically the same as what this user is saying, just worded differently. It's more about being someone with your own focus in life instead of having your entire life revolve around a woman. Clinginess gets old quick.

found the femanon

If by femanon you mean happily married man with past experience in failed ltrs, one night stands, flings, short relationships that ended on good mutual terms with no heart break, yeah you found me.

Now for what I found. Man who's entire experience with women has been rejection and what virgins on the internet explained, or man who has only ever used red pill tactics and dated basic bitches. Have a good day user.

Maybe a couple weeks.
A girl I hooked up with started trying to talking to me again and I got her to send nudes with just 1-3 words replies.
I ignored her shortly after and she hasn’t tried since.

How much does your wife weigh?

Depends on the girl.
Personally, about 7 minutes. If you aren't into it as much as I am, fuck it.

Bro if you really like her, tell her or you'll regret it forever. Imagine that in a few weeks you see her with another dude, how would you feel?

it depends on how insecure she is, how attractive you are and how you carry yourself. Some but not all women are the biggest masochists you'd ever want to meet, they routinely fall for guys that show no interest and treat them like shit, the caveat being if you meet a girl like that, you have to keep the act up (assuming you're faking disinterest) because the minute you give them the attention they 'want' they subconciously become disinterested.
Let's assume she's a normal girl though with average to above average looks and sexual market value, I would say you probably have a month or so at the most to capitalize and show interest back before she moves on to the next distraction in her life, not necessarily another guy but young women just get distracted easily but once a moderately confident, attractive woman moves on from a guy they usually won't go back to him because they have too many options available. This is all based on my personal experience with women.

>the caveat being if you meet a girl like that, you have to keep the act up (assuming you're faking disinterest) because the minute you give them the attention they 'want' they subconciously become disinterested.
This is very true, but the cherry on top is that they'll probably cheat on you because you don't give them attention, only to decide they don't like getting attention when you give it to them.

You just described what I do, I dont want anything but a good paying job. So I work my ass off in college courses, I'm really good at meeting people so girls just so happen to be some of them. All that's needed to be done is what one wants to accomplish.

yeah being around a lot of women growing up I definitely have a radar for those types of women, and I generally avoid them like the plague, who knows though maybe OP is willing to take that risk.

Bump

that shaped with an axe face can lust after me as long she wants shes never getting my rod