>be me 33 years old >no job >no friends >family is distant >depressed
I don't even think this life is worth living through anymore. I've been NEET for two years already but day by day my mind is shattering into a million pieces. I used to pass the time playing vidya or watching youtube vids but even that has lost its appeal and allure anymore. How do I get out of this situation anons? It's like my situation is a giant black hole - everything goes in, none comes out. I've got no social support, no friends and family are kinda distant relationship-wise. Do I just kms or do I become a monk so I can shut myself out in the real world but at least have a group of people living in a community to belong to? What do I do bros?
Walk outside, see assload of stores wanting help. Help one of them.
You are depressed because you are worthless. You know this is true. Go be useful and you will feel better, help someone out and accept they won't be grateful or care about you at all.
Jordan Young
Get a job
Hunter Wright
>You are depressed because you are worthless. I know this. I just want to work but jobs are hard to come by here. This isn't a first world country known to have job security. There's a reason people from here immigrate to other countries.
Sounds like a dream. Most People are so fucking stupid youre better of without them anyway.
If you need people around you go get a job or something.
You could also go back to school and study something you like to kill time and maybe even get new friends.
I'll cross my fingers for you bro. Hope everything turns to the better for you.
Landon Carter
I can't, some jewish manbitch starts using EMF torture shit and other joo passive aggressive gay stuff.
Tyler Campbell
Get a job or get some qualifications. You don't seem like you're lacking cash, so the education bit is for you. You'll meet people with similar interests.
But in the spirit of this board fuck a furry trap and then kys. Your choice.
Jonathan Wilson
I have savings but that's drying up fast too. I didn't say family isn't helping though. I'm saying we're not close relationship-wise. They obviously still are kind enough to let me have a roof over my head. It would be considered "shameful" on their part to have a family member live on the streets. I guess saving face culture worked in my favor.
Maximum age requirement for the army here is 29 years old. I've long sailed past that already. If I could turn back time, I would join though.
Juan Scott
Fuck of Satan
Wyatt Cooper
This is my life too post divorce but I'm 30, what fun. Suicide seems more appealing each day.
Luke Ortiz
Besides the obvious move to find any job that let you save some cash and after a year or so would make you able to afford a new start somewhere new.. take a course that will give you opportunity to change your life and give you a purpose: like paramedic or bartender if you prefer drinks from blood. Both will give you some awesome skills and you are going to whether help ppl or entertain them. Obviously if you have depression it will be very hard to do without outside help or medication.
Nicholas Ramirez
It seems the more you grow older, the harder it is to make friends and meet new people. People like us seem to be a testament that once you get past a certain age, it doesn't get any better if you fall into this hole.
Landon Clark
There are two primary urges inside the human male. The first is to be productive, the second is to occasionally be lazy.
Productivity gives man happiness. Productivity shows a man that he is a provider. It's hard wired into his brain.
This is why a man will be proud of the steak he barbecues, or the shed he builds, or the car he can afford to buy.
On the flipside, man has a need/desire to be occasionally lazy; but that is only as a reward for being otherwise productive.
The neet turns this upside down, and makes sloth the goal. But in the end (as you have found out), it doesn't work because it doesn't satisfy the need to be productive.
Your problem isn't that you don't have a job. A job is simply the normal means to productivity. And while video games will satisfy that need for short periods of time, it doesn't last because "winning" a videogame doesn't produce anything other than the ending of a useless task.
The solution is for you to DO something. If not work, then clean the house, donate time to charity, get involved in local politics. Anything that allows you to set a goal, and allows you to achieve a goal.
Michael Hill
You aren't alone user, I'm in the same boat. I'm 24
Ryder Smith
I apologize I misunderstood. I was actually in the Czech Republic over the summer for several days it’s a beautiful country but I did hear that economically the country is in a bit of slump when it comes to available jobs. My advice would be don’t just write things off with the attitude that you’re too good for something or it’s beneath you. Keep your options open. Your main goal should be becoming self sufficient especially considering your age
Josiah Long
How come I don't feel the need for productivity? My instinct is if I'm not forced to do something I don't have to. I just observe society like it's a movie playing out in front of me. I don't understand how it can make me think what it thinks because to me it's like observing the characters in a movie become insane.
Nolan Gray
I'm trying dairy classes for now. If this still fails, it's to the monastery for me. At least be a shut-in in some church than in the house doing nothing. Either that or kms.
Eli Taylor
Ive been trying local clubs for my hobbies but I pretty much live in a retirement town so it's a serious struggle to meet people in my age range.
Connor Mitchell
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Zachary Howard
this isnt exactly a great support group for your problems Filipino user. your thread will probably be deleted in minutes btw
Ian Miller
I feel you. I'm in the same hole too. It's hard to make friends with your age bracket or find new groups of people once you reach a certain age. And hobbies certainly don't seem that much appealing if you've got no peers or group to do it with.
Jason James
Get a job Take up a physical hobby where you can meet people Work out Get back in contact with family
Zachary Edwards
Yeah, I'm like your senpai, being 36 and all. I'm too much of a coward to end myself. So I'm just here to enjoy the shit-show.
Grayson White
Stop even thinking about suicide bro. Every human goes tru a phase of mental illness. Thats a part of life. Next week you might stuble into the Love of your life. No one knows what the future have prepared for you and the only way to find out is to hang on and find out.
Luis Peterson
I()'ve had a job for 10 years, and it didn't solve anything.
Owen Russell
I don't belong there. I have a girlfriend.
Ian Ortiz
Stop avoiding responsibility you fucking pleb. You know what you have to do, you just don’t do it because you’re a pathetic weakling.
Colton Murphy
>czech republic
Bentley Williams
I would normally never say this because in general I cant stand filipinos and view them as sub standard Asians, but since youre here that's a good thing. Anyways, come to Canada. One more garbage flip aint gonna make a difference but it will greatly improve your life. Tim Hortons will hire you instantly because you are a full grown man taking a 15 year olds job, making it almost impossible for our kids to compete for low skilled jobs. I mean as an employer, hiring adults to do low skilled fast food jobs is an absolute dream. Never mind, I just talked myself out of it. Stay in your shithole and forget about Canada. We generally hate and resent you. Fuck off, we're full.
are you introverted like most of us here? I don't have many friends either but I actually don't want more friends and interacting with society in a lighthearted manner is very hard for me and doesn't make me happy.
Christian Butler
You don't understand. When you get to this point of loneliness, it's fucking over. You'll never trust anybody ever again. It's impossible to bring people over for a drink. It's in fact impossible to have friends. Your mind won't allow it.
Parker Martinez
Ever watched the movie "Passengers" where the protagonist was on his own for a full year after his sleeping pod malfunctioned and he was the only one to wake up? It's what I feel like right now. Imagine waking up having no one to talk to or share your dreams and aspirations with. That's how I feel.
Nicholas Brown
I'm in the same situation as you, except I have a job, and it pays very well.
So getting a job won't fix this issue. There is something more fundamental wrong with us.
This. It's hard to crawl out of this hole once you fall into it. I liken it to a black hole - once you fall, you're never getting out. Only people who have experienced true depression (not the meme one) will understand.
You and I seem to have a lot in common by the way. What happened to you if you don't mind?
Cameron Garcia
be you, be on /pol, not /b or /bant, or /qa, or /lgbt or /fit. Kill yourself, you'll save the rest of us your cheap pandering for attention. At the fucking least you could bring a political topic.
Jose Hall
This. I started playing music and singing 2 years ago and it gave my life new meaning. I might never amount to anything but I'm far better than I was when I began practicing. Before that I was planning my suicide. Now I wouldn't dream of it. Find something you want to learn OP.
Sebastian Harris
Well, I had some friends, but over time they just ended up marrying and moving out. Now I'm alone, and can't into new friends.
Charles Russell
Depression and suicide among men at an all time high points to something wrong in society. It's a Jow Forums topic.
Joseph Howard
get someone to talk to you dumbass, i talked to my friends about my problems and they were supportive, and they helped me through the dark times.
So you're a bigger failure than me. How are you this proud?
Evan Evans
Join the Palestinian freedom fighters and take out some kikes.
Benjamin Green
>neet for 2 years >cant handle it You're like a little baby
Ryan Martin
I'd rather come into your country illegally and steal all those jobs from you. Need a plane ticket for that though.
Josiah Bennett
The truth is its your fault which is the white pill. You are actually in control, and able to fix it. Get outside more. Apply everywhere qualified or not. Change diet, exercise, and correct sleep schedule. Clean up and drop the pity party, and rest sorts itself out.
Thank god I still have familly. Especially my brother. He's coming over for the new year. But I know it will end the same way.
Asher Parker
You’d have better luck in Europe. I heard they take everyone.
Owen Gonzalez
hey asshole, I LIVE in the USA with 2 STEM degrees and have been unemployed for 6 years now. Companies here would rather hire you than one of their own countrymen.
Cameron Green
sell all your shit, buy a decent backpack and just walk. there's no point in killing yourself if you haven't even lived. just keep walking. sleep rough. keep warm. keep walking.
I'm assuming you have a passport otherwise you will only get to your country's border.
suck my nipples.
birch on a pension.
lasagna.
keep walking.
Alexander Cook
>2 stem degrees which ones?
David Ortiz
not gonna lie i probably am, but like go to some therapist, they might not actually care but you just have to get it out of your system
No they don't, just muslims. American businessmen on the other hand likes illegal immigration because it's cheaper to hire illegals than locals. Doesn't matter what race as long as illegal.
How is that my fault or of one of my countrymen? Blame your greedy elites and "entrepreneurs" who cut corners.
Jack Bennett
>failure
Whatever you tell yourself snowflake in the end it's your mental state that need support and help doesn't matter if had millions in the bank your mental state is still fucked and depressed.
Failure literally means nothing when you have everything in life that you need.
If you want to grind your slave diploma by being a good slave to the society, your choice faggot. I don't give two shit
Jeremiah Clark
Also drop substance abuse if you have an issue. That must be first step. If you want to succeed that is.
