Hey Jow Forums recently started dieting and exercising to get fit. My Hope's are that once I get fit, I'll have a much easier time attracting women, getting a girlfriend, and getting laid much easier. How true are my assumptions? As of right now I am 220 lbs, and 5'10, so it shouldn't take a super long time to get into the shape I wanna be in, and the thought of finally being able to attract good looking women is a major factor for me wanting to get fit.
Plus it would kind of give me the option to love anime and video games as much as I do without being thought of as a wierdo.
>How true are my assumptions? Very untrue. If there's somethinf I learned, is that suddenly becoming a bit more attractive won't increase your chances by much. Game stays game and is top priority in getting women. Look at Jow Forums, everyone's crying about tfw no gf, what do you think that means?
Getting fit might create more situations and increase your chances with girls generally but it won't suddenly improve your game enough to take them home. It is true that going to the gym increase yiur confidence and state of mind, but not to a , say, "chad" degree.
tl;dr if you werent slaying pussy until now you wont when you get fit. Its game that you need to improve, ALONGSIDE getting fit.
Matthew Sanchez
getting fit doesnt cure your autism and wont make women chase you to your car to bang
Grayson Myers
In my experience I have a very attractive friend whom I hang out with. I have never met a woman who has not been infatuated with him. Even if he doesn't say a word, and I can make the people around me laugh, women always gravitate towards him over me. That's why I have this assumption that getting fit will make women drawn more towards me.
Nolan Turner
getting fit gave me a new found hobby, gave me self confidence which led to me approaching women and being more extroverted you wont have women dropping at your feet but it doesnt matter when you feel like a god
hope this helped
Jeremiah Carter
Ah, a newcomer to the Jow Forums progression:
Stage 1: Lifting for girls Stage 2: Lifting for yourself Stage 3: Lifting for your future children Stage 4: Lifting to leave humanity behind
Not if you want to bring them back to your car to bang.
David Diaz
Where are you gonna meet those "attractive women"? It's not like you get access to some different places. Please, don't tell me you're gonna use internet for that.
Ryder Sanchez
bump
Landon Thomas
I go to bars, and whenever I approach women, I always get "no thank you", or similar rejections. I figure being fit would increase my odds when initiating conversation. Barcades, and conventions as well. Feel like being fit would definitely increase my odds there.
Aiden Ward
I've only started going to the gym recently, and just because I want to gain strength (I'm weak af). I've never had a problem initiating a conversation with a girl though.
How do you approach them?
Brandon Ramirez
How I'd approach anyone I guess, walk up to them, introduce myself, and ask their name. I'm by no means a bad looking guy. A bit chubby like I said, but that's about it. And I never fail to get turned down. It's honestly become a pretty shitty complex for me that because I'm not in the greatest shape I'm not attractive. That's honestly one of my driving factors for getting fit. Not to mention back when I graduated high school when I was at my thinnest (180 lbs) I recieved a lot of female attention when I was skinny fat. I can only imagine how I'd be looked at when I get fit.
Hudson Cruz
yeah i was afraid to ask girls out and then i finally lost weight, weighed the same as you by that point i was 22 with no experience and that boat had sailed
it does not help
Eli Morgan
I never introduce myself right off the bat. The thing is, you either make her curious, so that she asks herself, or you find out she isn't interested and move on.
It's a bit like being approached by some stupid marketer. You ain't interested in his name or who he is. The only way for him to get your attention is to say something stupid or funny.
Approaching girls is similar. They want to have fun [note that fun in woman's dictionary is something different than fun in man's view], so if you start with introductions, you already put stress on them since they have countless insecurities themselves.
Sebastian Cox
So how do you initiate conversation?
Jack Reyes
Stupid stuff and jokes.
"Drinking your worries away, huh?"
"I used to be an alcoholic, too."
"I hope you're not drinking [insert the name of a drink]."
You get various reactions. If the girl is alright, she will either giggle or pretend that you don't interest her by saying stuff like "What?; What are you on about?" etc. Then you just make more jokes about her not understanding English, being blonde and the like. If she plays along, you get a little insulting game before you introduce yourself to each other.
TL;DR: You have to troll.
Brayden Parker
Final stage: lifting to lift yourself into the next dimension of consciousness.
Thomas Watson
If youre getting fit to get a girl, you won't get a girl.
If you're getting fit for yourself, you will get a girl.
Replace "getting fit" with anything actually.
Angel Price
I don't understand the difference. Why does the reason matter if the outcome is the same?
