My bf often gets a boner in (from my point of view) inappropriate situations.
It often happens when we talk about something serious. To be honest, in those moments, it really annoys me. It makes me feel like he doesn‘t care about our conversation and was day dreaming about something that made him horny instead.
Do guys get boners, even in serious context? Because i would never get horny talking about some totally unerotic stuff. It just doesn’t make sense to me.
My bf often gets a boner in (from my point of view) inappropriate situations
Adrian Young
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Bentley Fisher
tits or gtfo stupid whore
Nathan Campbell
Shut the fuck up and be glad he finds you attractive even when you're bitching. Girls like you think you are equals in your relationship. You are not. You are not serious. Your only value is what the nature have given you. I don't even want to clarify whether it's you who wants these "serious talks". Of course it's you. I'd dump such a cunt.
Matthew Thompson
Implying you could find a gf in the first place.
Isaac Williams
>Do guys get boners, even in serious context?
No, not unless you're dating a 12 year old. Early teens is when guys have no control over their raging little boners. They have to miss their bus stops and beat off in grandma's basement because their dick is controlled by their hormones.
Also I guess maybe if you guys don't have sex he's probably thinking about that most of the time as well.
shut up underage /b/tard
Xavier Moore
BURNED
Andrew Jones
he sounds obsessed with sex. don’t take it personally. that’s very weird, though.
some people are more naturally inclined to get erections in non-sexual contexts than others.
just make sure he’s not fucking crazy.
Carson Thomas
T R I G G E R E D
Christopher Nelson
oh and ppl who physiologically get boners in non-sexual contexts need to avoid drugs that cause priapism
Xavier Ward
Oh wow, I am impressed. You truly are a stupid bitch. The first thing you can reply when a male criticizes you is something like "wow, you're such a virgin". You are so predictable, everybody can read you like a book. Yes, you are starting most of your arguments. Stop doing that and stop blaming your man for your stupidity.
Ian Cook
Well, he‘s 24 but he has a really high libido.
My main question is if he could actually prevent it or if he has no controle over it.
It really just feels like he‘s somewhere else with his thoughts. I mean, it doesn‘t feel this way in the conversation. That‘s the weird part. I wouldn‘t notice because he seems distracted or like he‘s not paying attention. More like that i notice he has a boner at some point. Idk
Tyler Barnes
That wasn‘t me, and i never said it was arguments. I said „something serious“. That could be us talking about what we cohld buy his grandma dor christmas, finances, work, etc.
Austin Morris
lol why did you come in this thread just to get mad
>Well, he‘s 24
uh that's not normal then. maybe he's got mental problem where his mind does wander off and think about titties in the middle of conversations or he's been secretly taking viagra pills for fun
I mean what does he say when you bring it up? no pun intended
Matthew Campbell
Used to happen to me occasionally before we broke up. If she was wearing something revealing, I'd occasionally get one during our arguments. Then we'd just have sex, and that solved things. If you're dressed normally, maybe he just has a high libido. Likely, he associated you with sex, so maybe just by being around you he gets one. Happened to me eventually as well.
Awful relationship - purely sexual and I don't think we even liked each other for the 7 months we dated.
Landon Taylor
Guys tend to be horny all the time, some are just worse at hiding it than others. My ex was 27, we had been dating for 6 years at the time, and even near the end of our relationship he would get boners from me just hugging him or sitting there with him doing my own thing.
Austin Sullivan
Do they just not have sex ed in your country? Yes guys get boners all the time.
Cooper Bailey
>guys get boners all the time
not 24 year old men
Benjamin Miller
I mean, his huge libido is a returning topic. He‘d want to have sex about 5x a day and he says that he basically never feels satisfied. Even right after sex. It‘s also no problem for him to go again right away.
He doesn‘t take any pills.
My best guess is that this is some sort of stress response.
It‘s also not a strictly physical reaction. It‘s not just a boner, he also gets horny.
He has had his test levels tested and they seem normal.
I‘m very careful with talking to him about it. He already thinks that his libido is way too much for me and that he‘s overwhelming me (which is true to some extend), so i don‘t want him to feel bad for it or make a big deal of it. I mean, it‘s not that he does this on purpose.
I guess i just wanted to know how common this is and what‘s going on.
Eli Powell
24 is still in the young and horny range, and it sounds like he has a naturally high libido so it checks out. If he was 34 and popping boners constantly over anything then it'd be more concerning.
Leo Ross
Maybe the situation of you being mad makes him horny, what makes it absolutely your fault.
Owen Hall
>naturally high libido
no 24 year old is just getting hard while talking about grocery shopping or whatever. Like it almost sounds like he's retarded, he's got down syndrome or something and goes UH OH MY PEE PEE IS STIFFY while sitting and eating fries by the handful at McDonalds.
He sounds like he has hypersexuality which can be a mental condition in and of itself or actually a symptom of another mental or physical condition.
Matthew Wood
boner =/= horny
Kayden Wright
your serious face is sexy as fuck. Goddamn take some pictures of that.
Carter Peterson
As a man with a high sex-drive, yeah, I can get boners at any given time. It doesn't mean I'm not paying attention or I don't take the situation seriously. Boners are a physical reaction and sometimes they just happen randomly. It's not something you control and it doesn't necessarily mean you were thinking about something sexual right at that moment.
Like, if my dick isn't placed well in my boxers, and it slips of and touchs my leg at some point, it can sometimes be enough to make me erect.
Owen Brooks
>boners are a physical reaction
As a man I beg to differ. My boners are formed in my mind.
Bentley Sullivan
if he's had a big meal, shit could be pushing on his P-spot causing an erection. If he's taken a shit and still popping a boner when you talk to him about serious shit, you're inadvertently pushing a fetish button.