Dad tortured me

If your dad or the rest is still alive meet them and set things right the way you see fit. If theyre just fucking mental then forget my advice and go with Otherwise you are concious It's just a memory so you can get over it

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If you really want to get better this is the best place to start for someone like you.

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That sounds terrible and I'm sorry those things happened to you... your father seems like he has some demons and issues that he chose to dump on his family.

For the question, it is always possible. Innocence isn't nessecarily needed to experience the magical fun of carefree "childhood" fun, just an open heart and someplace to let it run free

As someone who also had some messed up stuff happen to them as a child I say if they're not healthy and remorseful now then cut them all off and find a good therapist/counselor

Therapy. Family. Friends.
Literally anything constructive, but definitely not Jow Forums as far as I can tell

Jesus christ man, I'm sorry. ... This life can be awful at certain times and worse for some people like you. Its gonna be hard but you have to find out how to forgive and not hold hatred in your heart... I hope you can keep a good heart and move on from that shit. . Sometimes the best people have the most horrendous stories. I truly hope you find peace and cab get therapy and figure out the steps you gotta take to at least live a decent life after all that bullshit. Just dont let it turn you evil like them brother... You will be rewarded.

Recommend exercise and meditation and a 9-5 routine. Don't know other suggests that may help.

>>sister used me as sex toy
Greentext plz
Also sorry about all the bad shit that happened to you

faggots

I think I read a hentai about this

Is your dad still alive? Is your sister still alive? If they are here are your options:
You got 4 options for your daddy problem:
>Beat the shit out of your dad
>Kill your dad
>Call the police on him
>Go to a psychiatrist and do therapy. drugs might fuck you up if the psych decides you have a mental illness from your abuse.
Now for your sister its similar but a few different options:
>See option 1 (instead of your dad it's your sister)
>Confront your sister and maybe beat the shit out of her
>See option 2 (seems harsh unless she sodomized you)
>See option 4
If they aren't alive then do option 4.
Obviously there is a big risk in premeditated murder (as in, you're getting the needle or life in prison). Beating the shit out of your relatives could also land you in jail IF they speak, but if you plan it right and have the right lawyer you can get out. Of course you can hire a gang or someone else to beat the shit out of them for you too.

Can we all just take the time e to appreciate Jow Forums tho, the sincerity and freedom here has saved the world from the shittiest of days

Bump

You are right

>sister used me as sex toy

Nice

Write a "My childhood was worse than yours" book and become rich

Get therapy.

Some people truly get all of the shit. First of all, you are not permanently broken. You’re not unfixable. You’re the sum of your past, yes, but so is everyone else. People who abused you are too - you have a chance to be the one to stop the cycle by not repeating the same mistakes.

Be better than them and find strength in that. If you give up, they win. Be though. But remember that while you can draw strength from hate, you need to focus on working on yourself. Hate is a good tool, but it can slave you.

Love yourself. It sounds like a cliche, and it is almost impossibly hard for all of us. But you have to aim for that, so you’ll be able to love and be loved by other people healthily one day. Try to get good friends. Be cautious of romantic relationships before you’ve built up the means to deal with the possible hurt. Protect yourself.

Good luck. You are not alone.

nigga fuck you
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>can one recover from a broken childhood?
You can give it a shot.

>how?
Therapy.

Your edgy shit does not help anyone. Please kys.

you can, but it takes years of extensive therapy

Take it from someone whose father was schizophrenic, began a second family on the side just four years after the birth of his children, would beat the shit out of both his wifes, would bribe lawyers during divorce procedures and transferred his debt to an already ruined family leaving them financially crippled for almost a decade.

You can do this. You can recover.

I did. I got two masters from university, make decent money with a job that I love, am about to pay off my study loans, am going to buy a house this year, am going to marry in Februari. I am almost where I want to be in life.

Do you want to know how I got here? Cognitive behavioural theraphy, family, friends, my soon-to-be wife, religion, God. I am not saying you should go down this road. It is one of many. I am just saying this road gave me positive results and helped me getting my life back and myself. But boy is it hard work. So much hard work. Fortunately, you don't have to go at it and do it alone.

I am going to end this post with a quote from Rocky Balboa: The world ain't sunshine and rainbows. It is a big, mean and nasty place and will beat you down and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me or nobody is going to hit as hard as life. But it isn't about how hard you hit, but about how hard you can get hit, how much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!

Hey. My step brother raped my repeatedly. When I tried to tell my parents, they literally told me I was lying, so it kept happening. St first he enjoyed me struggling, but over time he would beat me, and hurt me if I fought back too much.
It takes time, and a lot of mistakes to heal. A lot. I don't talk to that part of my family anymore. I would do some reading on incest child abuse. You in no way deserved what happened. Naturally, you wanted family love, and instead they did this to you. It's wrong. Don't be mad at yourself. Mourn the child it happened to. It was their job to protect you and they instead hurt you.
Get into therapy asap. I've been diagnosed ptsd and you probably have it, too. I shut down pretty bad during any confrontation, and sometimes black out for about an hour because my brain is mimicking the "leave your body" defense it got so used to doing. You aren't gross or disgusting for what happened. They are. Some days I can't leave my house and fucking fear anyone who shows me the least bit of affection. Sometimes I feel like I'm losing my mind because all I want is to lead a normal life. But these are the cards we were dealt. If you have any specific questions, feel free to ask. I was raped between ages 11-16. He was i think 3 years older than me, and it started the week I moved in with him and his father.

His father also used to spy on my quite a lot, but that's a whole other can of worms that I can't think about.

Probably not fully, but you can get better

Therapy