So my girlfriend had sex with 16 people before me (started at 19yo, we met when she was 22yo), all FWB and ONS, no relationships. She lost her virginity in the toilets of a non-stop bar/casino thing. She also did anal and let the guys come inside her mouth, sent nudes and so, things she has problems to do with me. She tried though, a little. Also a kind of a threesome thing. Most of the guys were low class and it didn't take much to get her to bed.
How do I get over this? How do I stop thinking less of her? We are both STD free and it's not like I was a virgin when we met.
Oh, and most of it was condomless. Yeah, we have HPV.
Jace Flores
>it didn't take much to get her to bed and you believe you got a winner here?
Gavin White
You don't. This will burden you forever. Women who have sex before marriage don't deserve to be happy. Practice with her, then find a virgin girl.
Mason Carter
Use her, fuck her, drop her. She's a cum dumpster, she won't change to be a good girl for you.
Thomas Edwards
Another of these threads. You have to ask yourself, are you another fuck toy or the beta provider she wants to settle down with? If it's the latter then don't expect her to be extra sexual for you.
Ethan Gutierrez
>Was a total whore >Tells you all about it with no shame >extremely reluctant to do anything moderately kinky with you
Doesn't that tell you enough. she's damaged.
Jace Wright
No. She's intelligent, funny and I like to hang out with her though.
Well, it's not like she's withholding sex and she spent more money on me than I did on her.
I wouldn't say extremely reluctant, she actually did them or agreed to and we did other things too.
Lincoln Moore
if a man has multiple partners he is an alpha, if a woman does the same she is a slut lol
Nicholas Evans
3 years = 36 month 36 / 16 = ~ 1 partner every 2 month.
There's nothing stable to be had here, go on
>She lost her virginity in the toilets of a non-stop bar/casino thing. Normal behavior for people with self abuse/harm tendencies. Run!
Dominic White
>sex with 16 people >She's intelligent
Pick one, dumbass.
John Lopez
In the OP you said she's got 'problems' doing with you what she did with 16 random lads in public bathroom stalls, senpai.
That's not right. Clearly. She probably tells you some sob story and you're all understanding, but she's damaged emotionally. There's no long term happiness for you. You're not gonna be her shiny hero that rides off with her into the sunset. Take a few days and take a step back and ponder on what it actually is you're hoping for here. You can get a girl that you're just as attracted to somewhere else without all the mental problems/
Nolan Ross
>She's intelligent, funny and I like to hang out with her though of course a lot of promiscuous girls are a ton of fun but you don't date them. damn
Josiah Diaz
>Tells you all about it with no shame Actually I pried some things out of her, curiosity killed the cat. She seems to regret most of it.
Henry Peterson
Get the fuck out of there.
Ayden Foster
yes, that's exactly it.
Thomas Hughes
>intelliglent
>lost her virginity to a group of strangers bareback in a casino toilet.
Xavier King
Your girlfriend sounds cool as hell dude
Nathaniel Garcia
>How do I stop thinking less of her? How is this wrong? Women are lesser creatures. Just slap her around like a whore, she'd probably suck you off then. And stop those threesome shit. If you're going to allow it, get paid doing it. If you love her, be the pimp your gf needs
Andrew Ross
Sure she does. She didn't mind fucking 17 randoms, but after 18 she started to regret it. I mean, I'd give her a chance, but this has all still been very recent, so have no expectations.
Tyler Fisher
Her twat is overstretched as hell too.
Dylan Baker
>2 out of 3 Are you for real? My ex revealed to me she has it after we've been boning unprotected for years but I've never had any sores. Am I okay? Do I have it too?
Mason Gray
Fucking run. Don't start a relationship with crazy, at most give her a bone, but if you have feeling you have to cut sorry. She doesn't want love and doesn't deserve it either.
Henry Collins
>How do I get over this?
Spoilers : you don't.
Aaron Jenkins
Honestly, if she doesn't want to do the same things with you, then she's probably just not that into you.
Robert Bell
A man has to work hard to get women to even look his way. A moderately attractive woman just needs to open her legs. Don't like it? Too bad. That's the way the world works. Women are supposed to be selective in who their partners are. When they choose any cock that gets thrown their way, it doesn't look good.
Why can't dieased sluts use search engines, I guess the syphilis damaged their brains.
>•Men who receive anal sex are more likely to get anal HPV and develop anal cancer. >cdc.gov/std/hpv/stdfact-hpv-and-men.htm Sounds like you should get tested for gay butt cancer.
Those "gifts" have a high chance of lifelong complications and can result in a kid.
Honestly are you really saying that you wouldn't care if your partner had 200+ partners? That wouldn't raise any red flags?
Cameron Sullivan
Don't get over it, don't ignore it. If you're trying to have a serious monogamous relationship, it is destined for failure with this girl. You don't need to judge her or think less of her, but you shouldn't be planning a future with her either.
People just have different habits and priorities when it comes to sex and relationships. It's very hard to change, permanently, without slipping back into natural habits. She just isn't the "sweet loyal girlfriend" type, despite her best efforts.
Adam Perry
who cares
Zachary James
OP, i don't endorse people looking down on someone for their sexual past, but this is pretty destructive behavior
I wouldn't be comfortable with this either. If you love her and she has improved her life, you may want to go to couple's counseling but understand that this isn't normal so your feelings are valid
Ethan Sanders
Don't commit to this woman that would be a utter waste of time.
James Turner
Not him but to you 16 and 200+ might as well be the same number.
That's why I can't take you seriously
Ryder Thompson
i dont know, i didnt make any effort to make girls feel attracted to me. maybe you are just ugly user
Austin Richardson
Maybe, but do you have women making the first move on you? Or do you make the first move. Are you in shape? If you are, wouldn't that count as work?
Christian Edwards
i was always ectomorph. yes they did the first move
Dominic Ward
>How do I get over this? by leaving her for good 16 in 3 years is far too much to build a solid relationship on >inb4 it worked for me even if it lasted 50 years, that's like telling others to play the lottery because you won with your first ticket
Luis Reyes
i was with a 16 yo girl like this for year. She was promiscuous before me (insecure and bipolar) but she was comitted to me for a whole year.
Then her stupidity took over. She felt like i had given her confidence so she decided to try and find a better man than me.
I know she is a dumb whore again now and is ashamed about what she did to me but she's too stubborn to admit it.
Fucked up girls with self harming tendencies are very unpredictable, Especially when they are young and inexperienced.
I got out of that relationship quite emotionally damaged because I tried to save the girl, only to see her fall into her old stupid ways and then drop me stone cold even though I thought we had a great love thing going because thats how she made me feel... only to fuck me up hard in the end.
The girl i am with now is closer to my age, but stkll younger. She is also hot but has a mind that is much more mature, Balanced and reasonable.
Someone who I can probably count on when I need to. Unlike the bipolar slut i used to love.
Brandon Butler
This op, dump the bitch.
Angel Scott
Jesus christ, LOL. Youre lucky if you dont have any stds or aids at this point. Best bet is to emotionally check out of the relationship, and when youve found a better woman lined up, dump her and monkey branch to a good woman who isnt a disgusting broken whore. If you dont dump her, youre a cuck.
On the off chance this isn't bait. Fucking break up with her. She WILL cheat on you.
David Edwards
A close friend of mine fell for exactly the same thot like you are describing except the part where she tells him the explicit sex part, but everyone knew about it. She was pretty smart girl I'd say, witty and all that and she said that he loved him. He had feelings for her but never was too comfortable around her because of her past. The moment he got too comfortable, thought she changed and all that shieet, he found out that she cheated on him in their earlier days. Saying that you love someone and cheat on him is normal for these kind of thots.
Don't fall for the trap user, even tho I am pretty sure you already have your mind set (blindly) and you are going to listen to only yourself. You just need 1 affirmative post in 99 bad ones, to go for it. Or maybe not even one. So the only advice I can give you is to be careful and use your fucking head. Or well, you will have a story to tell about that one thot in the future, sometimes is the best to learn from your mistakes.
Chase Bennett
>gf was a ho bag >gf tried doing ho bag things with me but didn't perform like she did for the 16 cocks she saw at least once each >how do I stop thinking she was a ho bag Why on earth did you ask about her being a ho bag? why would you want to know where she got her V card punched?
When you buy a used car you know it has been run ragged a few times but as long as there aren't any leaks and the suspension isn't cracked you don't worry, you don't take the previous owner out for beers and ask about the shit they got up to.
Julian Hall
She sounds like she could be a fun lay for a little while.
Cooper Murphy
>she said 16
yeah cool story bro. she probably burned trough 30+ cocks
how many people have you slept with, OP? If you've slept with a similar amount of people, you have no room to judge, and if you're willing to divulge her sexual past to a bunch of anons for advice, you should be willing to say some of your own too.
Jack Evans
>used goods
Carter Brooks
you're ego is hurt because your gf got laid more than you which is reasonable giving girls develop faster and have a smaller window of prime than us
in short get over yourself if you had banged just as many people you wouldn't give a fuck
Matthew Price
You were actually no. 7 on that list two years ago.
Thomas Parker
by dumping her
Jacob Ortiz
no clue what to tell you OP. also pretty insecure about this. a few is fine but at 24 in a major city it seems like everyone has had so many partners.
She chose to have sex over commitment, multiple times. She is the very definition of classy and good decision making. How many abortions did she have?
John Bailey
>How many abortions did she have? OP as a cuck with a complete lack of self-respect will adopt all the bastards.
Tyler Evans
OP isn't real. OP's girlfriend isn't real. Do you guys really not understand the concept of bait?
Juan Bell
> She lost her virginity in the toilets of a non-stop bar/casino thing.
How can a girl lose her virginity like that. I get it women fuck but seriously what happened to standards? Doesn't feel ashamed to lose it in a dirty toilet at least?
Do not take her seriously OP! Treat her only as your personal slut. By the virginity thing alone she cancelled herself out from being gf material.
Grayson Morales
> She also did anal and let the guys come inside her mouth, sent nudes and so, things she has problems to do with me.
WHAT THE FUCK! Why are you with her! Dump her now you idiot! I don't get the logic of these women for fucks sake!
>Treat her only as your personal slut. By the virginity thing alone she cancelled herself out from being gf material. Indeed. Now she's good only for some dirty old man.
Leave her. She is unstable. Sex is a great thing, but someone who jumps up and down dicks without having a relationship, means theyre superficial and have shitty personality. Sooner or later you will find out she is a wreck of mental diseases.
Ryan Anderson
How could you marry a woman who has sent nudes to other guys? Those will be out there forever you know.
Adam Gonzalez
Nobody cares about HPV fucking incels.
Nathan Gray
From the moment chicks are in a fuckable age(probably even before) every single conversation with a guy is basically him just offering dick. Considering that, 16 guys in 3 years is a rejection rate of 99%. I'd be proud to call that my GF. Just so you retard incels know. Most chicks will have over 60 sexual partners before getting married. >and if every chick you ever talked to would be offering pussy you'd have even more sex
Zachary Ortiz
What a nasty whore!
Bentley Walker
>How do I get over this?
You don't. Listen to me...
IT IS LITERALLY OKAY TO BE BOTHERED BY THIS IF IT'S NOT SOMETHING YOU WANT IN A PARTNER! YOU HAVE THAT RIGHT AND DON'T NEED ANYONE ELSE'S PERMISSION TO FEEL THIS WAY!
Seriously, internalize this. The mere fact that you're asking strangers whether or not you're "allowed" to have standards speaks volumes about your sense of self-worth.
Luis Cook
The only reasonable advice.
Noah Martinez
I hope this is b8 but let's assume you are being serious
>16 partners at 22 she's literal human trash, I would advise against getting over it >We are both STD free yeah sure, especially when she fucked guys up for one night stands
you probably tested for 5 or 6 most well known ones (and yet least likely), some shit like hpv or genital warts (or even fungal infections) can give no symptoms at all for year (or even, especially in males) and good luck testing for those as a male w/o outbreaks because it's nearly impossible to get accurace results, those are easily transmittable even when condoms
did you know even lyme can be transmitted through unprotected intercourse and in many cases it can give no symptoms/very generic ones (like tiredness) for some 20-30 years (and the blood tests can be very tricky - there are a lot of false negative results)? if one of her partners was bitten by a tick and didn't notice it you might as well have it now (although male -> female transition is much easier than female -> male)
there's no way you are std free after the ride she had
Jeremiah Bell
>she's literal human trash
Holy shit! 16 fuckers = 6 + 6 + 4 ! Even 4 intercouses with random dicks are too much.
If there weren't such cucks as OP, no slut would ever marry.
>IT IS LITERALLY OKAY TO BE BOTHERED BY THIS IF IT'S NOT SOMETHING YOU WANT IN A PARTNER! YOU HAVE THAT RIGHT AND DON'T NEED ANYONE ELSE'S PERMISSION TO FEEL THIS WAY!
Can we sticky this? It takes care of like 30% of threads on this board.
Isaiah Powell
Ditch her. You're literally just another cock to her, and you - rightly so - see her as a used up hole. Find a less used girl, even though I realize it may be a very difficult task in this age of sluts and whores
Brandon Bennett
are you being serious? she's a whore fucking her might be a choice for some but actually building a relationship with a whore is hopeless
Chase Gutierrez
cut ties with her OP, I'm sure your next girl will be smarted and just lie about her real number to you to make you feel better :v)
Lincoln Davis
*smarter
Landon Reyes
>How do i get over this?
You don't OP. You either care or you don't care. The only guy that could deal with this is a guy that honestly doesn't care about his girls sexual past. Maybe some beta guy who is happy to have a girlfriend in the first place so he basically just sucks up to it. Or perhaps a guy who has slept with dozens of women himself so they are on the 'same level playing field'.
But the fact that you made a thread asking anons how to deal with your insecurity about this, means you DO care. So you will care about it forever. Your girlfriend used to be a cheap cum dumpster and there is nothing you can do to make it stop bothering you.
Dump her and find someone who used to have more respect for her sexuality growing up.
Jordan Roberts
Also this
William Phillips
>Most chicks will have over 60 sexual partners before getting married
I don't know what kind of women you dated, but this is absolute bullshit.
