How bad am I?

While you're here bro give me some tips on how to get my shag on in Zante and in return I'll give you some reassuring statements.

The only guys who go on lads holidays are those looking to fuck some strange but the same nationality pussy in a warmer climate.

Try it on with every girl you can
Throw enough shit at the wall and something will stick

>she tries to kiss me
>>Immediately she shouts "omg user you have a gf"

Wow what a fucking roastie

And he's a saint for making out with her while being in a relationship?
Kek.

no, he’s a cheater. But I particularly hate that roastie attitude

Kisses happen sometimes, you were enough of a good person to not go through with it (a lot of people of both genders aren't). You didn't even make out as you said.

It can be hard when it seems like so many people are happy to cheat on their partners but for people like you and me we're not made for that sort of shit. You're not a bad person for this, especially if you learn from the experience. You're right when you say she's a nasty girl.

Take responsibility for your actions. He isn't a "nasty man", you are a slut who cheated on her boyfriend.
And you're an asshole.

I never cheated on any guy I dated. And I have no problem taking responsibility for my actions.

Unlike men in this thread who are blaming a single girl for being a whore instead of blaming a guy for being
>just as promiscuous
>a cheater

Thanks man, I needed that.
I admit I am a piece of shit, its my fault and I am a cheater.
I don’t agree that it wasent at all bad on the girls part.
But I do feel like I’ve learnt from this, I’m considering quitting drinking altogether.
If I can’t control myself while drinking I shouldent drink or shouldent be in a relationship.

He is a cheater. He shouldn’t have allowed that to happen. But that girl is a roastie whore

It's not the drinking which is a problem don't use that as an excuse. I hate it when girls try that "I was drunk" bullshit. You know what you're doing when you are drunk. Don't sink to the level of a roastie.

Cheers bro. For what it's worth I don't think what you do was that bad. It was a good thing that she stopped you from going to far and honestly just passionately kissing another girl when you're drunk and have been led onto by her doesn't make you a terrible person or boyfriend. The fact that you feel shitty about it shows that you're not bad.

Regarding your friends it's possible that their "relationships" aren't anywhere as serious as yours. In assuming you're pretty young and honestly at that age most couples don't really have any sort of future together intended and are just together for show and something to do. Very few really dedicated releationships like yours even if they act like it is which might be why they are all so unwaivered by it. They might just be pricks who don't really care though only you can really tell I guess.

Wish me luck for my holiday shagger.

Jesus that’s a lot of sex in a short time, you euro-fuckers are something else I tell ya. Do you feel like you’ve been missing out on all that? You seem to focus a lot on how much sex your friends are having.

So what do you want to be true? I think you’ve already decided your “long kiss” was mostly fine and you want people to agree with that. I say this because of all the circumstantial evidence you provided to highlight your friends infidelity and downplay your own. But you also know your girlfriend wouldn’t agree with this and you feel uneasy when she asks about your wild trip.

Since Europe has abandoned god and there’s no objective morality anymore, all you have is the agreements between people about how a relationship should work. So if you feel like you broke some sacred trust between you and your girl, then you have. Once you cross that threshold, it changes the relationship and makes it a little darker. On your theoretical wedding day, you’re going to feel some nervousness when your “lads” get up to speak and you hope they don’t make some sly comment about your week “on holiday”.

It might actually make you hold onto your girl tighter than you would have otherwise. Maybe in the back of your head you want to break up with her and go live the sexy beach life, but you feel ashamed about the kiss so you’ll stay with your girl longer as a sort of penance.

Whatever the case, drinking is not the problem but is maybe a valuable scape goat if you want to put it all on that. You seem to remember your week very clearly.

Top post, user. You’ve expertly disarmed the OP.

>How do people do this regularly to the people they love? I don't get it
they just don't really love them