Ethical question: >fucked around with girl >talked over instagram for whatever reason >talked about going on a walk and getting sushi and flirted 100% >found out she has a boyfriend >told her to fuck off with that shit, but in a polite way >if she that way with him, she that way with anyone
Her boyfriend seems like a little bitch and I'm totally down to steal her. I'm pretty sure it would be really easy, but it's just pussy. But consistent pussy from a person who takes care of their body and cares about the same things I do and I can see myself waking up with, even if only for some time.
Idk what to do. I guess I don't need advice. It's a choice of my development of character or who I want to be. I kind of don't give a shit. I could just do it. Something makes me unable to sink to that level. I'm confused on who I am, or what I find acceptable, with life being fleeting and whatnot.
Just go ahead and do it. We both know you want to and that's the only answer you're looking for. Then you can come back and waste our time even more when she does the same thing to you and pretend like you didn't do this to yourself.
Austin Perez
If you want to ruin your character even more and eventually become unable to trust your partner do it. I mean fur fucks sake why is this even an issue, don't act like an asshole towards others and things ill be fine.
David Miller
Don't do it m8 She'll fuck you over too
Cooper Edwards
>But consistent pussy from a person who takes care of their body and cares about the same things I do and I can see myself waking up with, even if only for some time You're gonna catch feelings and it's gonna end exactly the same way for you as it will for her current BF. It sounds like you already know that, but people have a way of talking themselves into believing what they want to believe when they start getting close to someone. Do what you wanna do though.
I don't think it's ethically wrong, if you can get her to dump him rather than letting her cheat w/ you. But she is indeed a dishonest untrustworthy thot, and she will poison your life as much as you let her.
Charles Butler
Get fucked.
I'm not worried about trust issues. I'm maxed out on them. It just sounds fun for a while. Do you not ever act like an asshole towards people? It feels human.
I'm not saying it has to be true love or anything. But being around good, respectable people is objectively good for you, and being around toxic thots is objectively bad for you. You will be a colder and more cynical person by the time she's done with you. But we all like to do things that are bad for us sometimes, so roll the dice if that's what you wanna do. I'm not judging, just warning
Gavin Cox
"stealing" spouses is not acceptable of a man. However, you can give her the following choice: "I don't date someone else's woman. If you wanna date, get single and then give me a call. Otherwise not interested."
The choice is now yours and you preserve your integrity. Nobody likes scumbag relationship breakers but if she made all the choices, then go for it.
Owen James
>Do you not ever act like an asshole towards people? >proceeds to get butthurt in the same post >proceeds to act like a straight thirsty push over Your "alpha" act isn't fooling anyone op. Not even her. It makes sense she targeted you because you're a push over just like her current boyfriend.
Brody Brooks
>Do you not ever act like an asshole towards people? It feels human. I try not to and certainty I don't make an elaborate plan on it. Trying to avoid being an asshole is important a important part of being a tolerable person of begin around, you know?
Adam Rivera
That's the decision I came to - "You still have a boyfriend, right?"
I'm leaving it there. Thanks for the advice.
Get fucked. Lol. That's the whole point of a discussion. To learn about a concept. You poked holes in a non-tangible thing made of holes. Good job.
Don't be that way. I'm just trying to help. I think it's a perfect situation. You get to do that guy a favor AND she sounds like the perfect fit for a wanna be alpha door mat like you. win win. I say go for it user.
Xavier Ward
Devil's advocate here, but you shouldn't listen to all these GOOD SIR A REAL MEN HAS HONOUR AND DOES BETRAY THE TRUST OF HIS FELLOW BRETHREN gay ass white knights.
I've been the guy that girls cheated on their boyfriend (or girlfriend) with, I've also "stolen" them away from their partners.
The reality is that if a girl is cheating on her bf, her bf is a cuck or a piece of shit who doesn't know how to treat a girl right. He's too busy holding his own dick while playing fortnite.
You're not stealing anything from anyone, you're doing them a favor if anything.
Connor Cruz
>Nobody likes scumbag relationship breakers But if I'm reading OP right, she already cheated and fucked around w/ OP before he knew she was attached. He would honestly be doing the other guy a favor by bringing that relationship to an end. If nobody like OP came along, the poor sap would've married her, and she would've literally destroyed his life. Right now, he can still escape without losing anything, it's just that he doesn't fucking know what's going on behind his back.
Dominic Cooper
>The reality is that if a girl is cheating on her bf, her bf is a cuck or a piece of shit who doesn't know how to treat a girl right. you realize this is just you trying o justify the shit you are doing right? For fuck sake you are scum, but more importantly, you are weak scum. At least admit you are begin and asshole instead of telling yourself you are "doing them a favor" you absolute disgusting weasel. If you decided to go trough with it, as it seems by the way you explained things. Get her to break with him before, know you are doing a shit thing and be prepared for the relationship not to last. She is a whore and you know it, don't expect her to be loyal to you.
Asher Campbell
>you are scum >you absolute disgusting weasel
whoa easy with the cuss words this is a blue board
and no a relationship where one of the partners cheats on the other needs to come to an end, I'm just the slightest of breeze that happens to knock that house of cards over. I'm not the one who built that shitty house of cards.
Camden Rogers
No, you actively contributed to the end of the relationship. You need to take responsibility for your actions, the "main fault" obviously lies with the people in the relationship but you are definitely not blame free either.
Eli Powell
Not enough information, circumstances. I'm leaning heavily towards a negative opinion of her so I don't think it's even worth it to try, cut your losses early. But if you're going to she has to be single first and you need to determine if she is similar to how is. If that's the type of person she is throw her back in the bin.
Asher Murphy
>No, you actively contributed to the end of the relationship
yeah and that's a good thing, some relationships are shitty
